I know a lot of things came to mind when you read the title. You’ll probably say that they’re all rich, famous, influential, and adored by millions of people around the world. Then you’ll say what connects them is that they own clothing lines, restaurants, TV shows, and magazines. And you’d be right! But that’s not what I’m talking about today.
What if I told you that what they have in common is INCONSISTENCY, PROCRASTINATION, CARELESSNESS, LAZINESS, LACK OF FOCUS, and NOT PLAYING TO THEIR STRENGTHS? Would you believe that?
No, I don’t buy that either.
Those words are the qualities of people who don’t achieve the level of greatness that they want. They describe people who never really live a purposeful life. They describe people who end up living mediocre lives – at best. They sound like people who are frustrated, discouraged, and who give up on themselves.
So ask yourself if any of those words represent you. Be honest. Ask yourself what it is that you really want. What do you think you are capable of? What will it take to get there?
Do those words in bold caps a few paragraphs up come to mind when you think of the people you admire? No way. No how. Not even close.
In a minute I’m going to get down to the essence of what makes Oprah and company who they are. I’m going to talk about a disorder that affected me. If you’re a person with a lot of ideas, it has probably affected you, too.
The word that I want to talk about is SCATTEREDNESS. Do you have a lot of ideas? Do you find that everyday, week, or month you want to do something new? If so, you suffer from a disease called scatterbrainiousness.
But, wait! There is a cure for it called focusyourenergyononethingous. It can cure you of scatterbrainiousness because it makes you choose one thing that you’re going to be great at. Then it takes your energy and galvanizes that one thing.
Before Oprah had a magazine, restaurant, and a school she focused her energy on creating the best morning talk-show of all-time. Before Russell Simmons had a clothing line, marketing company, and became an activist he focused his energy on making Def Jam Records the most powerful hip-hop music label in the world.
Do you see the process? They became the standards in their respective industries then created spin-off businesses that were just natural extensions of themselves and their brands.
There’s nothing wrong with having a lot of ideas. Just don’t pursue them all at once. Keep a journal and write them down.
Then, after you’ve established yourself, take a look at your list. You might find that you have some viable ideas that may work.
Or you might look at the list and say, “Man, what the heck was I thinking with that idea!”
If you try every single idea you have at once or if you don’t give your “one thing” an opportunity to flourish you’re only going to be average – at best.
At worst you’re attempts will falter, you’ll lose a lot of money, and you’ll be unhappy. Is that what you want?
For the past few years Derek Felton has engaged audiences all over with his philosophies on Purpose, Passion, and Attitude. Affectionately known as “Mr. Positive”, Derek has an uncanny ability to relate to a wide range of people – from skeptical teenagers to worldly adults. He is available for workshops, seminars, and keynote addresses.
He can be reached at http://www.derekfelton.com/blog and at derek@derekfelton.com