The second email that you send a woman is perhaps the most important one that you can send in order to meet her in reality.

It is in this second email where you must tell her that you are taking the next step with or without her (not in those words however), that step being meeting in person.

More than likely your first meeting will be something casual like coffee; however, to make sure the odds of meeting her stay in your favor you don’t want to directly invite her for coffee online.

Primarily, because agreeing to meet for coffee means nothing without a time or date in addition coffee isn’t something that you have preplanned ahead of time by yourself.

Instead what you want to do is invite her to something that you already have planned within the next couple of days and ask for her phone number.

It should look something like this:

I find it much easier to click with someone in person, with that in mind this Wednesday I will be at the Fair around 8, if you can let’s meet up then or you can give me your phone number so we can set something up later.

What this does is give her options both of which are winning situations for you and it shows her that you have a life in the real world as well.

More importantly it forces Serial Online Daters to show their hand and protects you from wasting your time with one.

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