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Legitimate Reasons for Parent-Child Conflict -

1. Pain Interferes With Listening: When a kid seems insensitive or selfish, it is because he is in too much emotional pain to be able to consider the parent. Pain interferes with listening and with understanding where the parent is coming from. This is particularly hard to understand when the kid hides his pain
with rage or with the “silent-treatment.”

When counseling families, I always here the parent say, “My child doesn’t listen …he needs to listen.” Then the kid says about the parent, “My mom doesn’t listen to me either.” So, nobody is listening, and here’s why:

Let’s say you and I were on a construction site, and I had just fallen off the roof and broke my shoulder - and at about the same time, you chopped your thumb off at the band saw. Then you come to me for some support — you need help because you are bleeding to death. But guess what? Unfortunately I’m in too much of my own pain to consider your pain. Not because I’m being selfish or insensitive - I’m simply not able to help you now that I have fractured shoulder.

If I hadn’t just fallen 10 feet onto hard ground, I would find you thumb, put you in my pickup truck, and we would go to the hospital in hopes that they could sow your thumb back on. But given my current state, I CAN”T HELP YOU. Sorry!

This is exactly what’s going on in the home where parent-child conflict has gone on for many months, if not years. Parent and child are in so much of their own individual ‘emotional pain’ that they are literally unable to consider the other person’s pain. So mom thinks that her child is selfish and insensitive …the daughter/son thinks that mom doesn’t care …and all this is going on because Pain Interferes With Listening.

Here are some more legitimate reasons for parent-child conflict -

2. Parent and kid get defensive when talking to one another because there is an emotional link between the two. Think about it. When you don’t care about someone (e.g., Joe Blow), it doesn’t matter much what that person says or does. But when you love and care for someone — and when you want that person to love and respect you — it hurts when they do unloving, uncaring things. And that hurt comes out as anger and conflict.

3. How many times has your out-of-control kid called you a “B”? Strong-willed kids hate when their parent nags, and they try to get the parent to stop nagging by getting angry at the parent and calling here a “B” in order to create distance. But nagging equals importance. The parent nags because her kid is important, and because she doesn’t want her kid to destroy the relationship. Unfortunately, the kid doesn’t know this and views “nagging” as criticism and harassment. As a result, the parent’s good message gets lost.

4. Parents are freaked-out by the fact that they are losing control of their kid’s behavior. And this fear can come out as anger and rage directed toward the out-of-control kid — more conflict.

5. Sometimes family members behave in manipulative, hurtful ways not because they think this will change the other person’s behavior, but because they honestly feel they are doing the best they can given the circumstances.

6. Everybody in the family thinks they’re doing right. If we think others do bad things because they have evil intentions, we may give up trying to influence them, become afraid of them, get angry with them,
seek revenge, etc. Family members aren’t “bad,” they’re just desperate to find a solution to the family-problems and haven’t found one yet.

7. Family members are sharing a common experience (e.g., hurt, fear), but are expressing their emotions in different, and sometimes strange ways (e.g., dad has an intimate relationship with the computer, mom sleeps a lot, kid #1 stays away from home all the time, kid #2 eats too much and has a weight problem, kid #3 fails in school and starts smoking pot) — more stress, more conflict.

Mark Huttenlocker, M.A., is a family therapist who works with teens and pre-teens experiencing emotional/behavioral problems associated with ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Conduct Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, Autism, etc. He works with these children and their parents - in their homes. You may visit his website here: http://www.MyOutOfControlTeen.com/support

Timeshares are a unique real estate purchase, instead of purchasing a piece of property that you own continuously, you purchase either a portion of the property, or the right to use that property for a specific amount of time. There are many models of property and time use that have developed in the timeshare industry over the last 30 years or so, which offer increased flexibility and amenities to enjoy your stay. Buying a used timeshare will, in many cases, give you the best value for your vacation dollar.

If you are looking to have regular, lower cost vacations, than timeshare ownership may
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Before you start taking a look at the many choices available, you may want to consider what type of timeshare will best suit your needs. You can get a deeded timeshare, or a certificate of use. A deeded timeshare is an actual deed to and ownership of the property, which you can pass on to your heirs. A certificate of use is the right to use the property, like a club membership. If you are buying in the United States, deeded timeshares are very common, and offer more security, so you may want to make sure you purchase a deeded timeshare only.

If you like the idea of having flexibility when you are scheduling your vacation, another option to consider is whether the timeshare has flextime available, where you can trade your week or weeks for a different time period, based on availability. That way, you can schedule your timeshare use around your own vacation schedule, instead of the other way around.

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The issues surrounding pensions in the UK affects us all, but it is already a very real and daily challenge for millions of retired Britons. However, many retired people who manage on a small pension and limited
savings are also living in properties which have soared in value in recent years and with the average house price in England and Wales now standing at £192,745 (Land Registry figures for March 2006), people may be not be aware of the true value of their home.

Equity release plans - also called lifetime mortgages, home reversion or interest only mortgages - are a way of releasing cash, whether to buy that new car, to pay for a holiday or home improvements, or simply to make daily life more comfortable. These schemes essentially allow you to borrow money against the value of your home, with the debt being repaid from the sale proceeds after your death.

How they work While there are a range of different schemes offering lump sums and/or regular income, they all work on the same principle: they lend you a part of your home’s value in return for a share of the
proceeds when you die.

In most cases you will need to be at least 60 years old, have no outstanding mortgage (or you will need to use the equity release money to pay down the existing loan), and own a property in reasonable
condition.

Equity release plans can be complicated products and are a major step for many people. Your house is almost certainly the most expensive asset you own; it is also your home. Good advice is therefore key.

Age Concern and the Financial Services Authority, the UK’s chief financial watchdog, both recommend getting independent financial advice before proceeding.

An Independent Financial Adviser (IFA) will look at your overall finances to see if equity release is really the best option for you.

Types of Equity Release schemes

Here are the main equity release schemes.

Home reversion schemes

You sell your home or a share of it to a reversion company for a lump sum or in return for a monthly income (or a combination of both).

Interest-only mortgages

You borrow a lump sum secured against the value of your home. You pay interest each month, but you have a lump sum to spend as you wish. The capital is eventually repaid out of the sale proceeds.

Lifetime mortgages

The lender gives you a lump sum or monthly income (or both). You pay nothing - the interest is ‘rolled up’ into the loan. The amount borrowed plus this interest is repaid out of the proceeds from the sale of the
property after you die.

Important points

Your family Equity release plans will reduce what your family will inherit.

While it should ultimately be your choice whether to sign up to a scheme, it is probably a good idea to discuss it with close family members and/or anyone who might have expected to inherit your home. This
may help avoid any unpleasantness or misunderstandings.

Children or other relatives may be prepared to help you out financially instead of you taking out an equity release plan. They could then inherit the whole property. An IFA will be able to advise on any tax
issues involved.

Alternatives

You may have other assets or investments which could boost your income or give you the lump sum you need. An IFA will be able to take a holistic view of your finances.

Consider, too, whether moving to a less expensive property might be a better way of releasing money tied up in your home.

Benefits

If you receive means-tested state benefits, these could be reduced or lost altogether which in turn could mean having to pay more for things like dental treatment and glasses. Check the rules before you take out an equity release plan.

Costs

The equity release market is becoming more competitive and products more flexible. Most equity release plans also involve paying valuation and legal fees. You remain responsible for repairing and insuring your home, and will still have to pay the Council Tax.

Advice

Getting independent financial and legal advice before taking out an equity release plan is recommended by both the charity Age Concern and the Financial Services Authority, the UK’s chief financial watchdog.

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Author of The Reluctant Fundamentalist Going to my flat in London from Heathrow last month, I found myself in a minicab driven by a man who spoke little English. But he was, like me, a Pakistani immigrant, and he told me in Urdu that his German was quite good. He had moved to the UK only recently. When I asked him why, he replied: “Because after ten years of driving a taxi in Germany, I never drove anyone who looked like you.”I knew what he meant. Whether it be France, Germany, or liberal smaller nations such as Holland and Denmark, no other country in Europe comes close to the UK in its proportion of Muslims who are bankers, doctors, lawyers, writers, elected officials, or television personalities. This is not because the UK has a greater percentage of Muslims in its population, but rather because of immigration policies, labor laws, and attitudes towards social inclusiveness.

In fact, the only other predominantly non-Muslim country where I have seen Muslims do so well is the US. Granted, I moved from New York to London in the summer of 2001, and sentiments towards Muslims in America have since changed, but there are still many prosperous Muslim immigrants living in the US.

Given the relative success of their Muslim minorities, why do so many people in the UK and US seem so frightened of the Muslims in their midst? Part of the answer, of course, lies in the foreign policies of both countries, such as their roles in the war in Iraq. But surely a fear of retribution for actions taken abroad cannot be the entire answer.

Terrorist acts on home soil provide another part of the explanation. The 7/7 bombers of London’s public transport system were Muslims born and raised in Britain. The 9/11 hijackers were Muslims who had for the most part been in America for some months. Both atrocities fuelled concerns about “an enemy within.” But how justified are those concerns?

Let me take the example of someone who fits one of the “typical” terrorist profiles we read about here in the UK. He would be a young Muslim man, born in this country. He would be a second- or third-generation immigrant, descended from Pakistani laborers brought over to work in the now-idle factories that constitute the rust-belt of northern England. Raised entirely in Britain, he would feel culturally disconnected from his parents. Visiting Pakistan, he would not understand the language and would feel even more estranged. Seeking an identity of his own, he would turn to a politicized form of Islam far more common among his generation of immigrants than among his parents or his relatives in Pakistan. Seeing himself primarily through the lens of this self-selected version of his faith, he would grow deeply angry at perceived injustices towards Muslims around the world. Finally, he would turn to bomb-making and carry out a catastrophic attack on his fellow-citizens.
My own experience suggests that much of this narrative is not uncommon. The angry young Briton, descended from immigrants and embracing a politicized form of Islam, is a person I have often encountered at protest marches, university lectures, and on radio talk show call-in lines. But I believe that the final step, going from anger to actually killing someone, is an enormous leap - and one that only a tiny minority of people are able to take when their cause is based not on personal suffering but on an abstraction.

Yes, Britain has produced a handful of Muslim terrorists. But life for Muslims in Britain, even in the deprived regions of the north, has very little in common with the lives of people in the West Bank or Iraq. In those countries, civilians regularly die in incidents involving the occupying army. Their deaths set in motion a cycle of rage among their families and friends that breaks through the human inhibition against murder, spurring acts of violence that lead to retribution and ever more death.

In Britain, this element of personal loss is missing, and with it the trigger to cross that threshold which allows one human being to take the life of another. It is not just because of the efforts of the security agencies that acts of terrorism in Britain are so incredibly rare. It is also because very few people, Muslim or nor, actually want to kill other people for political reasons.
In the US, the risk is even smaller. The Muslim community in America is on average even more middle-class and well-integrated than in Britain. The US never imported large numbers of Muslim workers for its factories (the Arab immigrants who came to work in Detroit’s automotive industry were largely Christian), and American culture tends to wean younger generations of immigrants away from the traditions of their parents far more thoroughly than British culture does.

Muslim friends of mine in America have experienced considerable harassment and intimidation since 9/11. But by and large they do not speak of feeling culturally torn. They say they are Americans, just Americans who disagree with their government’s policies and worry about their phones being tapped. The form of politicized Islam that is relatively common among some Muslim immigrants in Britain is far less common in America.

Both Britain and America should feel more safe from terrorism than they do. Some 3,000 Americans were tragically killed on 9/11. Another 3,000 Americans have lost their lives in Iraq. In total, around 6,000 have died so far in the five-and-a-half years of the war on terror. By comparison, 42,000 Americans die every year in automobile accidents. In Britain, the ratio of war on terror deaths to automobile deaths is even lower. But in both countries, rather than being terrified of the car in our driveway, we are frightened of the man with a beard and a backpack on the subway.
The main reason our sense of threat is so skewed is that a disproportionate amount of news coverage goes to trying to scare people about the wrong things. A headline reading “Muslim immigrants doing pretty well” will not sell newspapers; one reading “Warning over Muslim sleeper cells” will.

This is unfortunate. Malaria kills people. Cholesterol kills people. Immigrants with beards rarely do. In both Britain and America, our fear and resources would better be directed where they could do more good.

Mohsin Hamid is the author of The Reluctant Fundamentalist and Moth Smoke. His writing has also appeared in Time, the New York Times, and other publications. He lives in London. Visit http://www.mohsinhamid.com and http://www.reluctantfundamentalist.com

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No matter how hard you try, you just cannot seem to be
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Or maybe you have been putting in some long hours on
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Well you are not alone.

As a matter of fact, even the most successful individuals
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Read on and find out.

Home Business Tip #1-Take a break! This is so easy you
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When you get tired, or you get that slight edge from
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Music is a great stress reliever. Put the music on and
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Step #3-Take a day off from your home business to reflect
on your accomplishments.

This is really the key.

To be able to actually take a full day off from your
home business and take stock of all that you have
accomplished.

You will not believe the amount of inspiration and
renewed dedication this will bring to you.

See, when you take the time to have some hindsight you
will actually be able to refresh and recharge yourself
and discover how much growth your home business has done
from the time you actually started.

It is always a good thing to have a “review day” for
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Sometimes you get in over your head; way over. This can happen with debt relatively easily, so don’t feel bad if it’s happened to you. You can get in debt a variety of ways, either through one or more unplanned, one time expenses, such as medical bills or car repairs, or through a pattern of spending that slowly leads to massive debt from which you’re unable to recover.

If you have ended up with that kind of debt load, you’ve got a few choices. One issue you’ll probably have to face is the fact that, after such financial hardships, you probably have pretty bad credit. That will limit your options somewhat, but you still have some good options available, given your credit situation. You can get a bad credit consolidation loan, declare bankruptcy, or seek credit counseling in order to repay the debt. You can also try to go it alone, but unless you ended up with the debt problem through a few isolated incidents, you may have problems developing, implementing, and following through with a plan to get yourself out of debt. In addition, if your financial circumstances have changed, and you’ve experienced a loss or reduction of income, you may be unable to repay the debt.

If your income picture is relatively good, however, and you own your home, but you’ve amassed a large amount of high interest consumer debt, a bad credit consolidation loan is one option you should strongly consider. One of the primary problems with consumer debt, such as credit cards, is that they are unsecured. The lender has nothing but your promise that the debt will be repaid. That increased risk makes the interest rate higher than if the lender had something they could take possession of in the event you default on the loan. In addition, most credit cards have an interest and fee structure whereby late payments or charges over the limit will substantially increase the interest rate you pay. You can easily wind up paying an interest rate of well over 20%!

A consolidation loan, on the other hand, is a secured loan. The lender has the ability to take possession of something, typically real estate, if you default on the loan. Their lower risk is reflected in a much lower interest rate. What does that mean for you? You’ll be paying a substantially lower total payment every month after you get a bad credit consolidation loan than if you paid only the minimum on your high interest credit cards. In addition, many lenders recently increased their credit card minimum payments from 2% to 4% of the outstanding balance. You’ll pay the balance off much faster, but it will sting your monthly budget badly. As an example, a credit card with a 22% interest rate and a $5,000 balance would have a $200 minimum payment.

If you have a few of those, you can see how badly that could impact your monthly cash flow. You could easily pay $1,000 in just monthly minimum credit card payments. To make matters worse, even at the $200 monthly payment, it’ll take you 171 months to repay the debt, and you’ll pay over $4,100 in interest on a $5,000 debt. That 171 month time frame is only true if you do not use the card. If you charge more on the card, it will take even longer to pay off. You’ll be a debt slave for 15 years!

The bad credit consolidation loan allows you to break the cycle by combining all your debts into one loan. You’ll also receive a much lower interest rate, typically half or less than you’re paying now, if you have high interest cards. Another benefit is that, with a consolidation loan, you’ll have a far lower chance of accidentally being late on a payment, an occurrence which can cost you plenty in fees and even higher interest rates.

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New divorce or breakup? Are you ready to start dating again?

You’ve recently split with your mate. You’ve gotten past the initial devastating emotional state that comes with a serious breakup. You’re lonely, and long for companionship again. But is it time to start dating again?

First of all, you must make sure you are ready emotionally to re-enter the dating scene. If your failed relationship was important to you at all, you must let enough time elapse to properly mourn its passing. Even if you were the one to initiate the breakup, that relationship was once a meaningful part of your life. Give yourself enough time to get over it. “Rebound dating” can not only lead to disaster, it’s not fair to your new dating partner. You must get rid of old baggage first! And only time will do that.

How do you know when enough time has passed? These are three reliable indicators:

1. You have made a clean break with your ex. No more contact, no more “wishful thinking”. You will never move on emotionally as long as you still harbor romantic feelings or dreams of reconciliation with your ex. Put away all the pictures and souvenirs from your old relationship, and quit calling him “just to ask a question”. Time to go “cold turkey”.

2. You have examined your past relationship, accepted some of the blame for the breakup, and have lost the bitterness. Have you ever dated someone who was still bitter about their recent breakup? Wasn’t very pleasant, was it? It poisons their attitude, mood and interaction with you. Think about this when you decide to start dating again. You’ll need to leave the cynicism, sarcasm, and anger behind. A man-bashing or woman-hating mentality will get you absolutely NOWHERE, but alone. It may help a lot if you take the time to analyze what went wrong with the relationship, and admit to yourself that YOU, yes YOU, played at least a teensy part in the demise of it. Accept some of the blame, forgive the rest, and move on with your life. Your new date (or potential soul mate) will thank you for it.

3. You have found a certain amount of happiness and direction all by yourself. Don’t decide to start dating again simply because your Ma or your best friend is nagging you. You are the best judge as to when you are ready to re-enter the dating scene. If you can honestly say that you are fairly happy, not still grieving the loss of your mate, and moving on socially, then it may be time to start dating again. You have re-established contact with your old friends and made new ones. You are getting out more, socially. You have a new-found energy towards your career or hobby. You are making plans for the future that don’t involve a new soul mate. Don’t start dating again while you are afraid of being alone, desperate to find a new partner to make you “whole” again. Needy desperation is absolute poison to a potential new relationship.

***Rule of thumb: Start dating again because you “want to”, not because you “need to”.

Stella Larue is the “gangleader” of a small group of women who have put together an innovative and interesting website, http://www.findlove-keeplove.com This site provides a plan– and supplies all the tools, free of charge– to help you find true love and keep it safe forever!

What is AdSense Ads? AdSense Ads is an advertising program from Google. You may have noticed when you are reading a webpage, there are little ads displaying at the various parts of the web site. Beneath these Ads, there is a small print written as “Ads serve by Google”. These are actually AdSense Ads. These AdSense Ads are paid by the merchants to Google through a program called AdWords. These AdSense Ads will only display relevant ads on the particular web site. For example, if a site is on cars, only ads about cars will be displayed. This makes the whole web site relevant to the reader. This is a win-win situation. The reader gets what he is looking for and the advertiser provides the relevant information to the right target market.

Much has been talked about making money with AdSense Ads. Yes, this is indeed a relatively easy way to make money. However, you must be registered with Goggle first to open an AdSense account. You may go to the Google site for registration information. After having an account, it is time to put ads onto your web site. You need to have a little technical knowledge to do it yourself. Assuming that you have put the AdSense Ads on your web page, when someone clicks on the AdSense Ads on your web site, you will get paid for it. To put it in another way, you are selling advertising space on your web site. How much will you get paid per click? Well, this will depends on the value on the value of the keyword. The range is rather wide.

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Did you recently have a losing trade that upset you? Or, at least, it would have upset you if you let it? Be careful, you may be setting yourself up for making rash trading decisions.

It’s only human nature to try to “make right” a “mistake.” I have put these terms in quotes because they are subjective judgment calls. “Mistakes” are trades that, in hindsight, did not work out. The trading market does not care whether you’re upset with how your trading has been going lately. But it will gladly take your money if you trade recklessly or with desperation.

The market does not care whether you are on a winning streak or losing streak. But it will take advantage of a hurriedly placed trade on which you may not have done your usual due diligence. You should have a well developed procedure for selecting your stock pick or other trading vehicle.

Perhaps you’ve noticed that sometimes you are anxiously looking for a stock pick you can use to “win back” a recent loss. In fact, you may be trying harder than usual to find your next trade. You may even find that you are trying to “force” a trade. This can be very dangerous and could lead to a death spiral of ill conceived trades.

The market is a harsh mistress, and you may become confused because sometimes these revenge trades just happen to work out. Then you come to expect that your forced trades will always work out. But the market is just setting you up for a fall. Sooner or later, you take a revenge trade and then become “married” to having it succeed. You hold on, and hold on, bleeding cash and peace of mind the whole way down.

How do you avoid getting trapped by the “revenge trading” mindset? The first part is to train yourself to be in touch with the emotional experience your trading provides. If you notice yourself getting anxious about putting on another trade, STOP! Call a time out. Catch your breath. DON’T enter into a new trade. Also, be careful about not compromising on your stop losses on existing trades.

The key here is self awareness and discipline. Nobody but you will know if you are contemplating an ill conceived trade. But sooner or later, you will pay the price of sloppy trade selection. There will always be another stock pick, at least until you lose your account in an undisciplined orgy of revenge.

So don’t become a victim of your desire to reverse a losing streak by forcing trades. Just say “no” to revenge trading.

Doug Newberry is a Director at Investing Systems Inc. Investing Systems develops and markets software and systems for all kinds of traders and long-term investors. You can learn more about avoiding Revenge Trading at Stock Pick.