Men are ‘front-end’ loaded. We can get instantly turned on visually to sexual suggestiveness or portrayal of those attributes represented by women.

This affects our general behavior when dealing with women. I’ll stop saying ‘we’ because although I used to be like that I’m not anymore.

So this male behavioral response applies instantly to the women that men approach, see and try to communicate with. And guess what? It screws everything up!

They’re obviously ‘interested’ in what she has to offer to him because she has the same attributes which he has fantasized about so much; the hot body, perceived beauty and social value.

She KNOWS he’s interested and because he’s interested in ‘that’, she’s not interested in him because he isn’t cognitive of her TRUE sexuality (of which she can never tell a man).

What these men don’t realize is that his interest in her hardly matters at all. I cover this topic in other articles but it’s really about the woman and what she’s going through.

So when another guy ‘approaches’ her who is obviously ‘interested’ in her ‘body’ and is giving her the relational power, she’s not interested. It’s beyond boring to her and it’s completely
unattractive.

There’s no attraction, no challenge. How can she expect to get value out of a physical relationship if he’s going to be like Jim in ‘American Pie’ when Nadia’s on the bed? She’s going to be disappointed because he’s not being a man who she can trust to push HER buttons.

Women have to be turned on and warmed up. They can’t be warmed up if they’re cold in the first place. So if men are ‘front-end’ loaded and women generally aren’t?

Is there any hope for men to succeed consistently with women if we’re so instantly turned on by
their bodies? Yes, there IS hope (finally).

It’s time to understand female behaviorism and psychology. True ladies’ men understand women, respect them and know how to turn them on and heat them up.

They understand that it’s not about his own selfish interest in her, yet rather about her. A true ladies man (above a ‘player’) can put aside his own selfish interests to take the PATH to the reality of sex itself because he understands women and their true sexuality.

Women are the path to sex. so even though you often want to instantly have sex with the women you see (especially the prickteases which you have been conditioned to respond to), you can’t just ‘have sex’ with them instantly unless you’re in a porn contract.

Pornography and sexploitation is the exploitation of the culmination of a Pre-existing relationship. You have to HAVE some kind of relationship already there BEFORE you can have sex (unless you’ve had it by yourself in a truck, driving..)

So chill out and realize that women are the true PATH to sex and take the path to sex instead of expecting everything upfront and scaring women away.

Give them room to be interested in you by respecting that they are the path and then you’ll end up as I like to say ‘getting yours’.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating. Join the newsletter and get instant access to actually see the ’secret of women’ for yourself @ http://www.secretofwomen.com

If you are the average person living in the United States you are probably watching about 19-20 hours of television each week. If we just turned off our televisions we could be so much more productive. Many people would find other ways to waste that same amount of time if they weren’t watching television. So the real question is: Just how bad is it if you spend too much time in front of the television?

Probably the most important reason to stop watching television or at least to cut down the number of hours that you watch is related to your health. Both adults and children that watch several hours of television each day tend to be overweight and in poorer overall health than their counterparts who are not watching. This is because television viewing is a sedentary activity that requires no physical exercise. You are also more likely to eat more while you are in front of the television. Many people are surprised to learn that they have consumed so many extra calories while sitting in front of the tube. With the emphasis on eliminating obesity in both children and adults in the United States, cutting down on your viewing is probably a wise decision. Instead of watching for an extra hour go for a walk and spend some time talking to your friends and family.

Another reason to watch less is that your relationships suffer when you are focusing your attention on the television instead of the people around you. Decide when you will turn off the television and spend time together with your family members without any distractions. Some families chose to turn off the television for a half hour before they eat dinner and not turn it on again until a half hour after everyone has finished eating and everything has been cleaned up and put away. This gives you time to talk to each other and deepen your relationships with each other. Television shows are about other people’s lives, not yours. Learn more about what your family members have been doing all day and what they think and care about in the world.

Television viewing is seen by some to be a relaxing activity but studies show that watching certain programs can be very stressful. If you are getting your news strictly from viewing it on television the graphic nature of how it is presented can be harmful to your emotional well being. This is especially true of children. They can be negatively affected by seeing crimes and fighting on television. Try to get most of your news from reading about it in the newspaper, magazines, or on the internet instead of viewing it directly.

See if you can agree with your family to only watch one hour of television each day for a week.

• Record the shows you want to see so that you can eliminate the commercials. You may find that you will not have any interest in seeing shows you have recorded after a day or so has passed.
• Make it a rule not to eat snack foods while sitting in front of the television.
• Let each family member choose one show to record and have the entire family watch that show together. Use it as a time to discuss the issues that arise during the show.
• Spend time together as a family in front of the television without turning it on. You may have become so accustomed to turning the set on that it has become almost like a friend. Wean yourself away from that behavior.
• Play cards or board games in front of the television without turning it on. This will help you get to know each other and to listen to what the other person is saying.

After a week or two of limiting your television viewing habits you may find that you don’t miss it as much as you thought you would. But remember that watching television is a habit that you can easily fall back into. Remind your family regularly about what you have all agreed to do regarding the television and help each other to remember your rules.

By making rules about watching television and strictly adhering to them, you and your family should benefit by having more time together, eating less snack food, having more to talk about to each other, and feeling more relaxed in your daily life.

Connie Ragen Green is a motivational writer, speaker, and mentor who turned off her television more than a year ago. To find out more visit her at http://greenhouse.typepad.com/law_of_attraction

Do you have a dream? I’m talking about your dream; that little voice deep down inside. Maybe it’s just a persistent whisper telling you there’s more. There’s more to accomplish. There’s more to experience. You know that you have talents that others could benefit from. But how do you make this happen. It’s a mystery at times when life is hard and the days are long. Do your dreams seem impossible?

Where do you start? Well, hey guess what? You have started. You’ve started in a big way. Because you are willing to listen to your own thoughts and acknowledge their magnitude you’ve started down the path to your prosperity.

So let’s get started. I’d like to share a few tips about bringing your dreams into reality through one simple task. All you need is a piece of paper and your favorite pen and I will share with you 5 tips that have been used by the most brilliant minds in the world.

Write down your dreams on paper:
1. Where do you want to live? – include a description of how it looks and feels
2. What are you wearing? – describe how you look and feel and where you shop
3. Who are you with and what are they like?
4. What is your favorite recreation and where are you?
5. Describe your health – mind and body

Congratulations! You have just completed step 1 towards bringing you dreams to reality. What is this called?
DESIRE
DESIRE
Say it again
DESIRE
Your thoughts will now begin to attract that which you desire.
Just one thing…
When you change just one thing at a time, magical things begin to happen. One change leads to another, and then another, and then another. Soon these small changes add up to great things. So begin now to change just one thing.

Kelly Dailey
Reveal Your Prosperity (http://www.revealyourprosperity.com) has been in the sports and fitness arena for over 30 years. She is a Yoga Teacher and Personal Fitness Trainer. She has studied extensively in the fields of nutrition, wellness and personal growth.

Men often want to know the ‘lines’ to say to get things going with women.

So many guys will think, “what can I say to capture her attention instead of dumb boring questions like where are you from?”

Yet, they’re missing the whole point completely because they’re not operating in the natural relational dynamic. That’s the ‘line ‘ I actually use the MOST to connect with women and consistently yields incredible results.

It’s NOT about what to say when you’re approaching a woman. Plus, if you’re even thinking about what to say and making it ‘conscious’ at ALL you’re going further in the wrong direction; the whole time trying ‘not’ to screw it up.

If you’re self-conscious in any way or change your behavior (dropping in character I call it) when you’re around women, you’re already losing. You just gave up your power to her and it will probably only get worse. And most guys do this BEFORE they even approach her.

When Jim approaches Nadia in ‘American Pie’ at the house party, he’s operating in the social relational dynamic where she has the obvious power.

He’s thinking about what to say and ‘how’ to approach to somehow get around the concept that he’s approaching and trying not to show his nervousness which is so obvious.

It is what it is and women know…they know.

He’s just placed himself into a response relationship to her social attributes as the stimulus. For success you have to be her relational equal so she can trust you. A man who is truly
comfortable in his own skin in RELATION to HER.

That’s way more important than being a ‘character’ or unique ‘personality’.

If you think you have to be unique you go into the jumping monkey mode of trying to impress the woman, buying her gifts, showering her with attention when it’s OBVIOUS you have agenda and are
uncomfortable around her.

Really, your interest doesn’t even matter because a woman is the path to sex and if you’re uncomfortable around her at the very beginning how could she ever expect you to be the man in the bedroom?

You see, women actually do hold the power. The power to CHOOSE and let in a man or not. It’s up to them to open their petals up to you. And you want them choosing you don’t you?

Making it logical and a conscious task is only opening room to screw up an already natural process in which she is intuitive and knows her role. Men just aren’t operating in that natural dynamic though.

So stop focusing on pick-up lines in how to approach if that’s been you and focus instead on operating in the natural relational dynamic where you can see a woman’s true sexuality and be normal.

You don’t have to say ANYTHING and when you do it doesn’t matter what you say when you’re just being social and comfortable around her. THEN the relationship can accelerate whether you’re that unique or not.

So to capture the attention of women and have them magnetized to you, focus on true behavioral change instead of superficial solutions. Then you can just communicate like you do with
other people. Start off PG or PG-13 and take it from there.

Just make a connection and ’say anything’ such as “hey”, “hey, how’s it goin’?” “nice day isn’t it?”

The most important thing here is just to be perfectly NORMAL.

This invisible approach allows her to finally gain interest in YOU (partly because you actually respect her) and before you know it things are naturally advancing along and she wasn’t
even logically conscious of what you were doing.

When she’s interested it’s easy to get her info and there’s little resistance because it’s all about what she’s going through.

At that point you can throw something out for the future to lock something in like, “Hey, let’s do something sometime (that you or her would be interested in)” and she’ll usually say ‘ok’. Then you can get her contact info. I’ve done this effectively many a time and it’s completely natural. It’s what women are looking for.

Though it’s another topic, she’ll be calling you when she’s interested and that’s almost always better than you calling a woman.

So focus on making ‘connections’ with women and letting them start to pique their own interest in you instead of taking all the pressure on yourself of ‘what to say’.

If you do it properly, this is completely rejection proof anyways because they have no reason to reject someone who is being social, interesting and respecting her power (of choice).

This is the way of the natural ladies man.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating. Join the newsletter and get instant access to actually see the ’secret of women’ for yourself @ http://www.secretofwomen.com

Many men make the mistake of thinking that they have to be ‘unique’. In all actuality, a woman will be much more impressed if you are just comfortable in your own skin and ‘normal’ around her so that she finally has breathing room around a man and can then raise her attraction for you.

She’s probably been so desperate for a real man that she’ll even reference things like meeting up or going to her place within 3 minutes of talking to you.

This happens to me quite often and it can to you too.

And why? Because you’re entire behavioral reality is natural.

You’re communicating consistently all of the right things that is already turning her on even if you’re just talking about normal everyday stuff.

Women want real men and that’s so rare now for a man to actually BE himself and BE real (without acting) when approaching.

Whoever you are, if you can just BE yourself around women and their leveraged power, you’re going to have a great increase in response with them.

I’m not talking about ‘acting’ comfortable, I’m talking about BEING so comfortable in relation to the power and beauty around you that you inequivocally draw it in to you.

If you want to ‘attract’ beautiful women to you the easiest way is to be social alpha in a limited environment. That will attract (status seeking) women to you easily.

However if you don’t always have that ability or aren’t social alpha in ‘any’ environment, then you’d better understand women and leverage your natural character and relational dynamics to
your advantage.

By doing this you won’t have to worry about not being high enough in social status to compare to her because most likely you aren’t anyways (these women ARE the social ‘prize’).

You also won’t have to take the pressure onto your inner character and self-esteem by having to be dependent on being ‘unique’ or a jumping monkey trying to impress her.

So when you understand where all of this behavior and power comes from and how you’re related to it, you’ll finally be ABLE to be at ease in relational to the very evident social power of their (exploited and adaptive) sexuality in front of you.

Ignorance to the root of this behavioral reality is the cause of much confusion and frustration on millions of men who may never understand women or dating.

Break free from that so you can be massively attractive to women.

It’s not even so much YOU anyways when it comes to your success with women and dating; it’s about what a woman is going through.

Seek to understand women and your relationship to their three root behavioral characteristics and you will be making massive strides as well as finally being comfortable in your own skin around the most beautiful women in the world.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating. Join the newsletter and get instant access to actually see the ’secret of women’ for yourself @ http://www.secretofwomen.com

The current trends towards Socialism in the First World and the trends towards communism in the Third World are fairly alarming for those who study civilizations. Unfortunately the allure of socialism for the masses seems like a gods send, but it is a trap. It is a death spiral or flat spin for which there is no recovery. It is like flushing all you are and all you have built down a hypersonic turbo rotating toilet.

In the United States we see the society moving in the direction of socialism. Of course relying on the government for everything does not work, as the government generally does nothing very well. Worse someone has to pay for it and due to the demand for free stuff this means increased taxes. Increased taxes, inefficiency and underperformance are the resultant. Of course the promise of all these free services sounds good, but as we know life does not work that way.

The Trap of Socialism and Communism - Sounds Good in the Beginning and in a perfect world it might be so, provided "You" do not care about your own needs, goals or dreams any longer. If you wish to live in a socialist society or communist society you will be living in a beehive of humanity or like the Borg. Those nations who move towards Socialism are failing and those which move towards capitalism are thriving, why do you think that is? Historically, capitalist countries advance faster and further than the other, so it makes no sense whatsoever to switch.

When the people become a burden on the Government we all know what happens, society starts making choices due to scarcity from the unproductive inefficiencies of socialism and communism. Choices of who gets what or who should live or die and slowly this becomes acceptable considering the situation as it worsens, until it is your turn to have you human rights violated or your life ended. Socialism is a trap, those who promote it cannot perform. And if this continues, do not forget I told you so.

L. Winslow is a studier of Human Civilization past, present and future. He is currently writing an award winning book; “The Flow of All We Know - The flows that hold human civilizations together”

There’s two directions I could go with this article;

1. Focus on what nice guys actually ARE doing ineffective in dating (such as paying for her attention, showing too much interest and being the ‘provider’ instead of ‘lover’)

or

2. Focus on the larger issue of millions of frustrated ‘nice guys’ when it comes to women and dating.

Here I’ll focus on the latter.

Most guys really are nice guys when it comes to life and women. Most guys throughout history are good guys. They wouldn’t abuse women or have unhealthy psychological issues.

A nice guy is traditionally someone who will do a good job of leading his family. He has positive attributes and worthwhile interests. He is what nice women would want.

Yes a lot of ‘nice guys’ fail when it comes to dating because they’re taking the provider approach and following society’s mainstream ‘rules’ but there’s something greater going on.

How is it that MILLIONS of ‘great catches’ are having problems with women and dating? Really, is there something ‘wrong’ with ALL of these good guys?

Why are there more singles at this point than ever in history?

Sure it’s easy to put the blame on each man and slap him around a bit to get him motivated to learn the ’skill’ of dating, but something is still eerily ‘off’ about the whole thing.

Now it seems that the outcasts and jerks are the ones with the popularity around women.

What on earth happened here?

Is it really each man’s fault for being unsuccessful with women and dating?

It’s time for an honest look at what’s going on.

To boil it down in this short article, there IS something that is going on and I can only touch upon it here.

Our behavioral reality has changed. Women have actually changed more than men.

When you look at other cultures around the world that are doing fine, the nice guys are still nice guys and they’re doing fine with women.

Why? Simply because their women are natural ‘nice’ women.

That’s the part of the equation that people just can’t see because we’re used to the behavioral reality in front of us.

Millions of people can’t see what we were like four decades ago or how other cultures operate with men and women.

What happened was a great change. Instead of the natural attributes of women being cherished, we now have Inner (Independent/empowered) and Social (power game) Alpha models of women.

Countless millions of women have changed their entire behavior (including around men) because of simply adapting to their socio-cultural environment.

Yet because all these millions of nice guys don’t understand this, they’re stuck being confused and frustrated around women. continually trying to figure out the impossible and
erratic behavior patterns of women today.

Society now promotes and edifies the bad boys and outcasts which have become mainstream popular (ie. Eminem). What happened to the role models for countless millions of great men (the majority)?

I’ll tell you right now that there is nothing wrong with being a good guy and a great catch. I always knew I was a great catch but the behavior of women perplexed me silly until I was cognitive of the truth.

Now I am at peace with the world and women. You’re probably a good catch yourself reading this article and maybe it’s time that you had the success you deserve with women as well.

Despite their blatant socio-cultural adaptation, women still have beauty and truth left within them. Some of them have adapted so strongly and become so ‘independent’ and so ’social’ that their only hope is to find a man like you to bring out what little is left of their former natural character.

They’ll never tell you the secret, it’s up to you to know.

But when you ‘know’, you can shamelessly be comfortable in your own skin because you are cognitive. You can be a great guy AND have success with women.

There is nothing wrong with being a great guy. Actually when you figure out that you weren’t the root of the problem all along, it will take an ENORMOUS burden off of yourself.

So many guys take the weight of the world on their shoulders when they weren’t the cause for a woman’s adaptive behavior.

Understand the truth and it WILL set you free. Your behavior will change and you’ll realize that it’s ok to be you, a man and the best you can be around any other person of power.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating. Join the newsletter and get instant access to actually see the ’secret of women’ for yourself @ http://www.secretofwomen.com

DROP THOSE TOOLS! Before you convert that garage into your very own 70’s Disco Theater or install wall to wall teal carpeting, I want you to stop and think about what you are doing. I know that teal carpet will complement your pastel pink and floral couch perfectly (!) But first you should ask yourself, “If I have to sell the day after I install the carpet, do I expect to get my money back?”

Really the acid test to any home improvement is whether or not you expect to get your money back. I like to put all home improvements into one of 3 categories:

• Maintenance

• Home Improvements to enhance the value of the home

• Home Improvements to enhance your lifestyle

Maintenance can range anywhere from painting the hallway to replacing the roof. Maintenance is a fundamental home improvement that must be done to keep the value of the home up.

People do not want to buy a home in disrepair. If they do buy it, they will pay less for it. Maintenance is an improvement that rarely if ever gets a dollar for dollar return on your investment. For example, if you replace the roof on your home for $8,000 prior to selling the house, you are not going to get an additional $8,000 dollars added to the sale price because the roof is new. The roof replacement falls under the responsibility of home ownership. Unfortunately, besides being dry, there is no large monetary benefit to be gained from most maintenance tasks. What it ultimately does is preserve the value of your investment.

Home Improvements focused on enhancing the value of your home can be tricky. These items could potentially give you the greatest return on your investment- but personal taste and regional preference can affect the outcome.

I recently held an open house in a 1980’s brick ranch home in a quiet Georgia neighborhood. The owners had gone in and updated the home throughout. They kept the colors neutral, installed more efficient double paned vinyl windows, upgraded the light fixtures, and refinished the hardwood floors. In the kitchen they chose to put in very modern space maximizing European style cabinets with stainless steel appliances and slate tile on the floor. Sounds great, right? I thought so! However the majority of the people walking through the home hated the kitchen. They found it to be cold, too dark, and too modern. Not only were personal preferences affecting peoples reaction to the kitchen, it was also regional preferences. The house was located in a conservative, relatively small community that prefers the “southern charm” style of home which is softer and has more decorative details.

If you want to make an improvement that will give you the possibility of greater returns, know your neighborhood and community. A good way to test yourself if your improvement is an investment is to use what I like to call ‘The Bathroom Rule’. Consider two houses: One has four bedrooms with one shared bathroom. The second is a four bedroom home with four bathrooms. If I added a bath to one of the houses, which home would benefit more?

Home Improvements aimed at increasing you personal enjoyment are the easiest of all improvements. These improvements make that quality of your life better. You make the improvement not for resale value, but for your lifestyle.
Sometimes these improvement choices mix with the other two categories of improvement. That’s just fine. So if you want to convert your garage into a 70’s celebration of Disco fever -complete with mirrored ball and strobe lights- go ahead if it makes you happy!

The big question, though, is how do you determine if the improvement adds value to the home? I like to use the outdoor swimming pool as an example. The ever eternal question, seems to be if a swimming pool adds value to a home. It depends; this is contingent upon personal preference and location. Not everyone wants to deal with a pool and that drops the value for them. However, there are people that love pools and this is a major plus to the home. Also, in higher end neighborhoods, homebuyers may be more capable of taking on the financial burden of maintaining a swimming pool. Generally speaking, I would say that if you are going to install a swimming pool, feel free to make the improvement for your enjoyment.

Keep in mind though, that if you install a $45,000 swimming pool and you happen to live across the street from the neighborhood pool, you will not get your money back. Typically people will not pay extra for what they can get cheaper.

Author Lydia Taylor is an agent with Meybohm Realtors, serving the greater Augusta GA market. You can read other articles by her at the Elegant Augusta GA Real Estate Blog.

This article copyright 2007 by Lydia Taylor.

Housing….How Bad

Some observations:

CBS. Marketwatch: American Home Mortgage Investment Corp. cut its first-quarter and full-year profit forecast by more than 25% Friday after being hit by problems in the secondary market for home loans and mortgage-backed securities.

The company also said that it’s stopped offering some types of so-called Alt-A mortgages because of the high cost of delinquencies on those loans.The warning suggests that problems in the sub prime-mortgage business have begun spreading to other parts of the home-loan industry.

Note: The price of new century stock, a sub prime loan originator, this time last year the stock was as high as $53, today it is $1.26. Some of the sub prime market is experiencing a dot com type crash…..

Freddie Mac: Frank Hothaft writing for the office of the chief economist of Freddie Mac, “Despite the pullback by sub prime lenders, there are no signs of a general drying up of liquidity that could develop into a broader “credit crunch” in the prime mortgage market. Mortgage rates moved back down in recent weeks, with the rate on 30-year, fixed-rate mortgages touching 6.18 percent in early March, equaling the lowest rate of the year”. In other words the sub prime markets will feel the pain, but the overall credit markets are still ok.

Note: We see contrary reports indicating that at least some lenders are tightening up their lending requirements for prime loan customers. We think it natural for lenders with higher risk loan portfolios to tighten requirements or offer at higher rates to lower their risk profile. But today, it seems that there is no overall trend in that direction. Our take away: shop your loan and find lenders more able to remain flexible on rates and fees.

San Francisco Chronicle: Helpful news! ” There is a mortgage source that is actually expanding itsbusiness nationwide for credit-impaired and first-time home purchasers. That source is the golden oldie of the mortgage arena — the Federal Housing Administration, which recently has seen a doubling of customers refinancing out of private, sub prime loans into its insured mortgage programs. ”
What’s Ahead…

Riskier markets. Uncertainty. These kind of post boom markets are tricky to navigate, but if you are a patient shopper this is when bargains arise. There is no evidence that this is like the stock market crash, however the analogy will keep more buyers away and this can create opportunity for the wise shopper. If you are a first time home buyer then you should do some reading on interviewing real estate agents and how to bid.

Housing tracker is a blog site we look at to see how some of the major markets are doing. These numbers are based on the MLS and we cant vouch for their accuracy but Housing tracker shows inventory up in almost all markets, but not that significantly. This is an unfolding story, but it doesn’t yet show disaster anywheres but in the sub prime markets which are the weakest areas. The big question is whether it will spread and that’s still an unknown.

Well, What if you Own Now

MANAGEMENT TIP: How do you go about renting a vacancy in your property? You should begin by asking yourself a few questions about how to determine a competitive rental rate. Consider the consequences of picking a number that is too low. It will likely rent fast, but if you have a rent controlled building you will take forever at mandated rate increases to get back to a market rate. This can be very costly.

If you choose a higher rent than the market will bear, its likely to sit vacant for a long time before you lower it to finally fill the vacancy. We like to use craigslist to search a like property in the same area and use it as an MLS for rentals.

Once you have a few prospects its important to establish a tenant screening process.
Always follow this same procedure to a discrimination law suit. Fair Housing rules must be followed… don’t be surprised to find plenty of people who are well versed and looking for a little extra money by filing a complaint.

Howard Bell for yourpropertypath.com

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Often I get asked by guys ‘What kind of questions’ they should ask a woman either when approaching or on a date. A favorite is ‘what do i ask when i approach her?’

And though this seems like an obvious question, I can already tell they’re starting off on the wrong foot and I then have a general idea of the kind of results they’ve had with women
doing that; inconsistent results like I sometimes USED to have.

Pick-up lines are so outdated. The entire concept is focused in the ineffective relational dynamic anyways; that in which the man is trying to ‘get’ the social prize of the woman.

Maybe if a man has the ‘right line’, then he’ll capture the object of his desire he thinks. But what does this do? It puts all of the focus on that which matters so little.

She can tell where he’s really coming from and she has already disqualified him for it. He’s in the same boat as all of the other men doing the ‘wrong’ thing.

Despite women dressing so sexy and gorgeous, they rarely connect with authentic men who value them on other qualities and who don’t fall into the ironic relational power game.

Why? Because most ‘guys’ are operating in the social dynamic of relationships. The social reality itself is founded on unnatural behavior and exploitation.

Even though it’s the behavioral world in front of us, it’s ineffective by default unless you have high social status yourself (in which things are still mostly based socially and she could use you for money).

So if you don’t have high social status and you want to succeed with beautiful women, you’d better find something that works.

The answer is obviously not in pick up lines. It’s about in being REAL and making an authentic connection with a woman DESPITE her adaptation to this unnatural reality, NOT in selling out to
it even more.

It’s up to YOU to know the truth and see everything for what it really is so that you can BE real.

Remember that women even SAY they’re looking for a ‘real man’.

They’re going to open up more to a man they can trust physiologically who is comfortable around her instead of another dude with an obvious agenda sprouting some ‘pick-up line’ (whether he’s good looking or not).

Many of them wonder if they’ll ever meet this man. Can you see some opportunity here? so back to the main subject here…

Guys get focused on the right ‘words’ to say when the whole time it’s obvious they’re coming on too strong anyways. Effectiveness around women is entirely different than the whole ‘pick up’
approach or focusing on the verbal ‘words’ to say.

It’s about the natural relational dynamic between a man and a woman. It’s that in which you are the stimulus as a man so that she can respond to you (that’s why they respond differently to different men), INSTEAD OF you responding to her social value as the stimulus.

It’s the nonverbal body language and biology within both men and women that supersedes logic and social conditioning. It’s beneath the surface of her socio-cultural adaptation and it’s up to you to know.

When a man ‘approaches’ a woman in most cases he’s already doing everything wrong because he is in the social relational dynamic where she has the power as stimulus.

He’s trying to get the prize he’s been conditioned to hold high value to and she has the ‘power’ to reject him. At this point it doesn’t matter what he says.

This will damage his ego and he will seek other solutions…’maybe if I tried ‘this’ pick up line instead’. Yet it all leads to even more frustration.

So instead of asking ‘what should i Say when i approach a woman’, start asking, “how can I just be my true self without faking anything?” and “how can i just BE comfortable around her very
evident social power?”

Then you’ll be getting somewhere and you’ll seek the right tools and resources for real world results.

Remember that it’s the rare man who is EQUAL in relational power to the power of leverage and beauty these women have. And when you’re the man who is comfortable around the power they represent, they have almost no choice but to be interested because you’re by default a powerful man - their match at all times, everywhere you go.

Ironically you HAVE to be equal or greater in overall value to consistently succeed with women. Why else would they open up to you? Applying relational dynamics and knowing the secret to
women is your leverage point.

(This is the upside to all of the compound repression you’ve been through, we can now leverage these relational dynamics to our advantage to become more of a man in all (proper) ways FAST
with the right guide and cognition).

Even then, you’ll just be communicating normally to them (you know, like with other ‘people’) and when their signs of interest show you just take it from there and they won’t even know you’re picking them up because you’re not; you’re doing everything the way it’s supposed to be done and that’s above player level.

You won’t ever have to know what to say to a woman when you’re in the natural relational dynamic (even with the sexiest and highest status of women). And if you’re still thinking about what to say AT ALL, you aren’t there yet.

Just ‘be’. BE comfortable in relation to power and beauty and be the guy who can communicate comfortably with anyone by applying relational dynamics.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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