If you’re nervous or thrown off in any way with the women in front of you, I can assure you that it’s because of social conditioning and behavioral adaptation.

Naturally, at it’s root, women know their role in relationship to men. Everything we else now is the result of the social power game which has reversed our dynamics.

What you see in front of you in the women you admire is unnatural.

It’s designed for other people to profit off of the new behavior of men and women. We have more singles then ever because of it and the divergent fantasy world’s each person has developed.

You see a ’sexy’ woman and her make-up and tight clothes and you start feeling nervous around her. This is all a part of what’s going on.

The women you admire the most; the ‘alpha’ models are probably what you’re most interested in yet it’s your lack of understanding of the root of their behavior why you get nervous and fail with them.

The social alpha ‘prickteases’ (as I call them) are already acting and behaving ’slutty’ and they know it. If you acknowledge it you won’t have success unless you’re massively congruent to the porn star male model.

(Trying to teach men to be like this or congruent with this in my opinion just isn’t right.)

You don’t get to sex that way because they can’t feel like a slut even though they’re behaving, looking and dressing like it. Yes, it’s ironic (it’s the MOST ironic thing) and yet it’s still up to you to know her true sexuality.

Don’t fall into the game of social status because you will be doing all the wrong things and she won’t be interested in anything but higher social status. The corporations that are profiting off of all of this WANT you to spend money on her though.

They also want you to keep buying more of their magazines which continue to condition you to glorify women out of the stratosphere in the hopes of you someday ‘getting lucky’ with them.

They are sexploiting women. Today, millions of culturally adaptive females look like ‘objects’ which they could not have gotten away with 20 years ago. Why? Well for one thing, the socio-cultural environment, promotion and stimulus (to make it safe) didn’t exist back then.

Look on myspace.com and see all of the T&A that’s being shown in your face. Women using their bodies for higher social status and attention. None of it is natural yet men continue to fall into the behavioral trap of the ‘fantasy’ stimuli.

Despite how they look on the outside and the very apparent (social) power that they have, inside, all of these women really are not sluts.

It’s up to you to know it and RESPECT it as a man; if you don’t you will still be a behavioral ‘pawn’. But when you can clearly see past their slutty, prickteasing social adaptation to their truth; well..that is the path to reality instead of fantasy.

They want to escape the enormous pressures of sexploitation and ‘what others think’ to get in touch with their natural character.

Their natural character has now become the fantasy they daydream about and it takes a strong man who knows his relationship to her powers to bring it out of her.

It’s up to you to see beyond that socio-cultural adaptation and counteract/justify for hersake the natural character within her so she does not feel slutty.

This is near impossible for most socialized men because all they see is her slutty behavior and …..and they don’t know of her true sexuality.

If they knew of her true sexuality and based everything off of that, they could succeed with these women who are now modeling soft porn stars.

‘But they’re so socially based?’ Right, but look at the men they end up sleeping with; even if it’s a ‘bad boy’ he knows her natural character and most importantly sees through her social adaptation to maintain relational authority over her.

What you probably aren’t aware of yet is that you can dress a natural alpha woman up to look ’slutty’ and she won’t won’t be. Her purity will still shine through because she is still behaviorally natural, innocent and pure.

You can try to get her to ‘act’ or change her behavior to be slutty but her true natural character will shine through. She could be in porn videos, naked or having sex and she’ll never be slutty.

Secretly, to these women’s advantage they have more power than the social alpha’s who appear and behave slutty even if they’re virgins.

Natural alpha’s can have the emotional and sex life of their dreams and never even appear slutty…they’ll still be the wholesome girl you’d settle down with who will stop her ways for you because she isn’t influenced or corrupted ’socially’ by powers for profit; instead, she
has the power.

That is the unspoken power that women are missing. Their only hope to get in touch with their natural character is rare. Either it’s a romance novel or a man who provides the environmental safe stimuli so that she can let her TRUE sexuality and self out.

Her behavior will change and she will open the path to sex itself for you.

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What would it be like for a man to be around a woman who helps him grow and be comfortable in being a man instead of challenging him or intimidating him?

What would it be like to find a woman that completely lacks pretension, who has massive intuition and who isn’t a socially defined ‘housewife’?

Many just don’t know. Americans don’t know. Even the women don’t know. There are no natural models of success in our women other than the traditional (dying breed of) unspoken housewives.

Unfortunately our society doesn’t define being a perfect mother as being a ’success’. It’s now about unlimited development and empowerment. It’s gone way beyond equality.

If women and people would have listened to Phyllis Schlafly or Marabel Morgan, we would have a much healthier, happier nation in our households.

Our current female models of behavior are not natural like they were, instead we now have either independent women or high social status women.

We don’t have natural alpha models in the United States anymore. If any woman seeks fame or popularity, she can’t do it without becoming a part of the immensely influential social powers that exist.

She has to adapt ’socially’. The problem with this is that the people within the social culture can’t differentiate it from anything else. They don’t realize they’re selling their soul in a way for gaining popularity.

Who is to say that it is a good thing? It’s driven by profit, power and unnatural influence but these people aren’t aware of it (at least the adaptive clones aren’t).

When a natural woman comes to the states people want to immediately be her friend and ‘make her over’ to adapt to their own idea of social culture. Soon her behavior changes and she loses touch with the one thing none of these poptart clones have.

Jewel had high natural alpha character and inner talent, yet unfortunately she sold out to the power of social influence when she had a ‘makeover’. Joss Stone just did it recently and these were women who had evident natural and inner character.

In order for any woman to retain her natural character, she would have to be outside of the sphere of social influence that we have.

It’s pressure is too strong. The environmental stimuli promotes and provokes ‘development’ all the while reversing and shifting the natural relational dynamic between men and women that created lasting families.

Billions of dollars in profit are being generated that weren’t there before. A natural alpha woman wouldn’t spend but may 1/10th of what the social alpha clones spend on makeup and fashion, etc.

There are some natural alpha women in the U.S. but they’re hard to find above the age of 18. I’d say rural communities and Amish villages would have the most natural character women apart from recent immigrants.

From the age of around 15 onwards, the power shift occurs and it only grows from there. Women start repressing their natural character around this time because everything transfers over to the ’social’ hierarchy of pressure and influence.

Their behavior changes. The women have the power not just because their breasts grow but because of sexploitation and their adaptation and that it’s not kept in check like it is in uniformed schools.

I remember my mom talking about when there was a controversy of girls wearing skirts that showed some skin of their legs. That’s where it began…the power started to shift because men became ‘interested’.

Fast forward to today and girls can wear just about anything and the way the most ’social’ of them behave is incredibly pretentious (see ‘Mean Girls’).

Heck, the more ’sexy’ she is the more she’s just socially adapted. It’s up to you to see through it all.

Men are suffering greatly. They don’t know how to behave around women because the women are the ones who changed the most. Sure, the men are repressed and confused but women have altered their behavior the most.

To me it’s quite clear and simple. The nation is in turmoil with 100 million singles, fewer marriages, record high divorces and all because of the new female alpha models of behavior; inner and social as well as the cultural environment that promotes it.

It’s tragic in a way. Everyone has lost touch with nature. Heck, people don’t even know what a woman’s natural attributes were because they just attribute it to disempowerment and being a
’slave’ at home (being a perfect mother).

We forgot that nature is why we are all here. Nature is where simple truth, beauty, power and emotion lies. Women know this too..they just don’t have the supportive environment to let it
out.

That’s why the romance novel industry is huge. What a perfect system for profit; effective behavioral change keeping men and women apart from each other in their own independent self-propagating fantasy world outlets.

As men, there is hope. I have found a natural alpha model (several of them actually) of behavior which also represents a woman’s true sexuality compared to her sold out desire to sexploit her body or her desire to conquer the world.

Of course I had to go outside the First World completely to find such naturally evident women. It’s changed my life. It is the answer to everything. I am at peace with the world and with all women because I have found purity, innocence and beauty..attributes that are real and magnified the more cognitive I am.

I can show this to you. When you can ground yourself in nature and have a natural alpha model of sexuality instead of the culturally adaptive behavioral models (ie. Oprah and Britney), everything will change. You will feel like a man again and discover the truth of women that lies repressed without agenda.

You will be able to be comfortable in your own skin around the most developed and social of all women because you see through their causal adaptive behavior to their truth.

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Every country should be proud of the women that inhabit their land. Whether they are passionate Spaniards, emotional Italians, blue-eyed Sweden women, or charming French women, they all are a part of what makes a country so special. Real beauty is not just in how they look, but it is all encompassing of who they are. The Ukraine in particular is a country that has some of the most beautiful women around, even though they are unknown to most of the world.

There are many men around the world that have chosen a Ukraine lady to be their bride, without even meeting them. Tim, a 38 year old engineer from New York, who had never been married, registered at one of the Ukrainian marriage agencies simply because he had heard of the beauty of the Ukrainian
ladies. He said that he didn’t even doubt where he should look for a wife; he just knew that it had to be from the Ukraine. That is how he met Svetlana, one of the many beautiful ladies living in the Ukraine.

It is not just their stunning looks that attract so many men to them. What makes a Ukrainian lady attractive is that they are smart, elegant, and well put together. They are excellent at their careers and use many of their qualities that they were born with in the Ukraine to move further in their careers in other countries such as the United States. After graduating from their local University they take their knowledge and their stylish ways and enter the work force with a bang. It isn’t long before they excel at everything they do.

Ukrainian ladies are also excellent at being housewives. In the United States, many women have put this part of their life on hold, whereas Ukraine women will continue to cook, keep the house in order, and give her heart to all her children, while holding down a full time job. They take it very
seriously, and even though they do not always dream of being a housewife they find it to be extremely rewarding and part of their life’s work. Most of their husbands make enough money for them to stay home, but they still choose to do work and raise their family. They even manage to organize
their time so they still have plenty of hours in the day to go to the beauty salon or chat with their friends at a local cafe.

Another way that a Ukraine lady shows her beauty is through how thrifty she is. They may be the breadwinner of the family and they will always think more about their children and husband rather than themselves. They will put unnecessary items aside, such as a new dress for themselves just so they can buy pretty clothes for their children, or even repair the house. They are great at needlework and can sew, embroider, knit, and crochet to save money for more important issues that arrive.

Ukrainian ladies make great wives for so many reasons really. They are well-educated, well-read, have very proper manners, and keep a good conversation going no matter what the subject. Not to mention, they have a great sense of humor. Unlike so many women who have turned into complete
feminists, Ukrainian ladies can give their husbands and family everything they need, work full-time, and still cook a fantastic dinner. That is the real beauty of a Ukrainian lady.

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The man who can use ’social status’ things to HIS advantage instead of being in a conditioned, powerless model of ‘fitting in’ will have more power and effect in life and with women.

It’s really all about the true relationships you have to the world around you.

Many guys get caught up in thinking that one auto will make them successful with women but it’s not true. That’s just a social item.

They’re too caught up in trying to ‘impress’ people and it backfires especially when it comes to women.

You can be the guy with the bright red Lambo but is it really saying something about you or are you just trying to pretentiously ‘impress’ others?

That is based on shallow and social grounding. It will fall beneath your feet because you can’t depend on others, plus it’s not naturally grounded or principally based.

A real man of character doesn’t have to impress others and takes the main focus for himself. If he wants a fast (even ’shiny’) car for the value HE gets out of it and the exhilaration HE gets, that’s a different story but the real relationship WILL be told in how you live your lifestyle.

With as much natural grounding as I have, I’m very aware of ‘material’ things. I know how it can throw people off with the desire of attainment.

But I’m not going to limit myself either. Why? Because I’m the best of all worlds. I represent the best and I although I’m an ‘artist’, I personally choose to NOT be a starving artist.

The car doesn’t own me…I own the car. I have the true relational authority.

I’m the focus and it’s just a part of MY lifestyle that also represents the level of quality and value that I’m personally at.

It’s up to you to ‘own’ it and have true relational authority over the things in your life. You attract what you think about. Do you want to attract pretension and socially based mercenaries and manipulators into your life?

I want to represent value and respectful authority, so the ‘material’ decisions I make will represent that if I can yet afford it.

Why is it that broke men with crappy cars (like I used to have) can be successful with women?

Because it’s natural. Her attraction response is naturally based; it’s not rooted in social pretension. She should be valuing you for who you are instead of your social status.

I’m not promoting to be the ugly, average guy with a crappy car and to be proud of it. Reaching her naturally is the most important thing but when you have the resources, get something that more fully represents who you are.

A woman’s natural character is the path to sex, NOT I repeat NOT her social character and it’s desire for higher social status, gifts or money.

If you base things socially or ‘financially’, a woman will almost have no choice but to use you. She’ll just ‘accept’ your gifts because you were playing the social game.

In poverty and wealth I leave money as a focus out of the relationship. I know that nature is all that matters the most. Any social status or value I have put into it’s proper place. I haven’t ’sold out’, but by using certain things it just makes me more valuable.

It’s kind of like men a man realizes, “ooh..she has a tailfeather” and a woman’s equivalent is, “ooh..he has some money”.

Man made the money, money didn’t make the man. Who you are will be shown by the types of relationships you have.

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I want to take a look into the subculture of ‘the game’. Yes, I know Neil Strauss and read his book but I’m talking primarily about the African-American subculture and their relational dynamics.

I’m also not talking about the rapper ‘The Game’ either.

A lot of power and energy is centered around the desire for sex, put quite bluntly. African-Americans are just more open about it than most ‘white’ people who are dealing with a lot more
personal repression.

Black dudes could teach white dudes all kinds of things about the game. The thing is though that it’s limited in a way. If you define yourself as a player, you become a social stereotype
unless you are the rare man who can transcend it and combine your skills with something greater.

The black dudes that are looking for ways to transcend it are the ones who are going to outscore major players when it comes to the ladies especially when they don’t have the bling and bucks just yet. That takes a lot of self-respect to admit you want to be even better than you are.

I’m not limited to any sub-culture or it’s rules. I broke through that a long time ago. I massively respect guys who don’t limit themselves to the confines of one subculture and
the attainment of higher status just to impress others.

Be yourself. Be greater than it all while still holding your roots. I represent many things within myself; not just one thing or city.

With the dynamics as they are, I think all men should take a look into things anyways because women are used to living the fantasy more than the reality. Porn is a fantasy. Sex itself
is reality.

Bridging the gap between the sexes is what I’m working on but it’s up to each to hold his own and frankly, too many players are just trying too hard.

Look at phrases such as ‘don’t hate the player, hate the game.’

‘The Game’ is taken as a social reality and the women take a major role in it.

How is it that women know when one man is a ‘player’? When they see him approach, then they’ll judge him on his skill level or ability of the ‘game’ and his level of congruency to it.

African-American’s widely consider ‘the game’ with women and sex just what it is; ‘the game’ (which can also refer to the social power game of status). Either you have ‘game’ or you don’t.

Those men that DO ‘have game’ are usually viewed with respect and have women on rotation for booty calls.

Those who don’t have game go through all kinds of psychological torment on themselves and around women. They put the pussy on a pedestal even more than they already do.

The entire concept of ‘the game’ as it’s indoctrinated within the African-American community is that it still clearly puts the woman as the sexual (read; social) ‘prize’.

Powerful independent African-American roles models such as Beyonce have influenced the behavior of women. The women are strong; I know from experience and observation. It’s a lot for
a man to deal with if he doesn’t know his relationship to her different types of power.

Of course there is a higher level of ‘game’ that is all socially based. Being a ‘baller’ or pro sports athlete will attract women to you. Owning a strip club, making big bucks and having pimped out cars will all attract women to you.

The highest social status men in the subculture are record producers, athletes and rap stars.

This to many is the ultimate status symbol; power and influence with a lot of social status. It’s a sign of ‘I made it. Look at me and where I came from.’ At that point, they can fulfill
their fantasies of having women all around them at the peak of ‘the game’.

Or is a lot of that really just the effective transmutation of all the sexual energy around you? Or is it really still a fantasy and women are just around you because of your social
status?

Either way, if you have your goals set, you can effectively use it to your advantage (sex). Ultimately women should appreciate you for you and not for your social status. Jay-Z quips about not knowing if women are with him for him or with him for his money.

Black men have a lot of personal authority and can harness it more effectively with the ladies if they were aware of certain things. I’ve seen strong men of personality and character but
when it comes to women, they’re dealing with a lot of issues that white guys are dealing with; putting the pussy on a pedestal.

Behavioral conditioning like that takes some real answers. Seeing a woman for something other than a sex object will allow you to end up at sex faster. It’s not that you’re being ‘whiter’ or anything, rather all women share the same biological characteristics.

Transcend the social game and it’s limitations and get women turned on by you for being your intensive self.

If you’re going to play the game for being in the game you may as well go ‘direct’ and just be straightforward with women about what your lifestyle is before they even have a chance to object.

That way they can join you or not.

If you’ve been basing success with women socially…let go of that.

Let social status take second place to a newly awakened ‘natural’ game. That way you’ll be succeeding even when you haven’t made it ‘big’ yet.

It almost takes putting away your pride to open up to a higher level of reality. The results are worth it that I’ve experienced.

It’s like being humble and realizing your mistakes so that you can accelerate your success.

The ultimate ladies man is ‘above the game’. He knows it’s not a game or a fantasy, instead it’s a lifestyle. He doesn’t appear as a player because he is so comfortable around women yet before they know it, they’re in bed with him because of his understanding of women and relational dynamics.

There’s no barrier for the woman to put up to reject him because he’s not putting her social sexploitation attributes on a pedestal; he sees right through it.

She can’t reject him if he’s just making a connection. She can’t tell where he’s coming from and all of a sudden she’s exchanged information with him and they are getting together and she’s excited about it.

There’s things to be learned in different ways. I’ve drawn influence and knowledge from all different subcultures to MY advantage. Keep an open mind to learning something from the best of the best outside your own subculture and take it to YOUR advantage.

We’re all in the process of learning and growing and I’ve had many African-American, African and Jamaican friends before. I’ve learned things from them and I’ll continue to.

Continue to evolve. I’ve been with women from dozens of countries including the U.S. and I love women. I’m ‘above the game’ because I don’t limit myself to being a social stereotype.

I’m the multi-cultural, invisible player in a way. There’s a lot of value out there and hopefully I can help some guys see things in a new light.

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Building energy efficient homes and improving energy efficiency in our homes can increase their value.

Over the past few years, there has been a ground swell of Green building interest by home buyers and builders. In response to the growing demand to conserve energy in our homes, there are several new mortgage programs that allow home buyers to finance the cost of energy improvements into their mortgage, to increase their loan-to-value, or improve their qualifying ratios. Some of the more common improvements that are used to make homes more energy efficient include the addition of new windows, high efficiency heating/cooling systems, and improved insulation. All of these contribute to reduced energy use, and also to making homes quieter, more comfortable, and more desirable.
Mortgage Programs
These programs allow buyers to purchase a more expensive home that has a lower cost of ownership to offset the larger mortgage payment. There are 2 types of financing options available that cover a variety of scenarios for energy efficient homes.

–Energy Efficient Mortgages (EEM’s) allow borrowers to qualify for a larger loan, using expanded income ratios, sometimes with the same down payment.

–Energy Improvement Mortgages (EIM’s) allow borrowers to include in the mortgage the cost of making an existing home more energy efficient, when they refinance or purchase the home.
These products are available through your local mortgage brokers and banks using FNMA, FHLMC, FHA, and VA guidelines.

EPACT 2005-2008 provides $2000 Builder Tax Credit

The Energy Policy Act of 2005 established a federal tax credit for builders that apply to each home that exceeds the energy performance threshold outlined in the 2004 International Energy Conservation Code (IECC2004). Eligible homes must be at least 50% more efficient than homes built to the IECC2004. It is fairly easy for builders to achieve this threshold by building tighter homes, installing high-performance insulation, and sealing duct work. The best way for a builder to find out how to meet EPACT is to consult with a certified RESNET (Residential Energy Services Network) Home Energy Rater. In order for a builder to receive a $2000 tax credit, the home must be rated by a RESNET certified rater using IRS approved software. For more information, visit http://www.natresnet.org/taxcredits/default.htm.

What makes a home energy efficient?
The cost of heating and cooling a home represents the largest cost of ownership, outside of the home mortgage expense. Everyone wants a home that is comfortable to live in, and yet the costs associated with reaching a comfortable level can be very high. Energy Efficiency can be defined as the use of products or systems that use less energy to do the same or better job as conventional products. In home construction and performance, there are many areas where energy efficiency can be achieved, to allow you to meet those desired comfort levels.
The EPA’s ENERGY STAR® program has developed a process for evaluating products used in a home, such as appliances, windows, lighting and other products that meet or exceed certain efficiency standards or recommendations. When choosing products for a home, ensure the products meet Energy Star ratings. This can include furnace, air conditioning and water heater performance, replacement of appliances in the home, and installation of energy efficient lighting such as Compact Florescent Lamps (CFL’s).

Other construction design aspects can have a significant impact on the energy performance of a home. Insulation levels should be adequate for the environment, and more importantly, proper installation of the insulation is critical in ensuring it is performing to the expected levels. Air infiltration and leakage can be another area where hidden openings in the building shell can cause heat and cooling losses to occur, reducing the efficiency of the home’s performance.
In addition to performance of individual components in a home, the EPA’s Energy Star Program also works with builders to qualify and certify home performance, to ensure that maximum performance is achieved. ENERGY STAR® qualified homes are designed to be at least 15 percent more energy efficient than homes built to the 2004 International Residential Code (IRC). ENERGY STAR® qualified homes offer homebuyers all the features they want in a new home, plus energy-efficient improvements that deliver better performance, greater comfort, and lower utility bills.
ENERGY STAR® homes have had their energy efficiency independently verified by an inspector known as a Home Energy rater. A HERS Rater will inspect and test the home during construction, and verify that the home meets EPA’s strict guidelines for energy efficiency.

RESNET; Establishes rules for the energy rating industry
In 1995 RESNET was founded to develop a national market for home energy ratings and energy efficient mortgages. One main goal of RESNET was the development of standards for quality of rating services. The standards set the national procedures for home energy ratings, and include testing and accreditation for raters and providers, development of verification processes for homes meeting ENERGY STAR® and energy efficient building standards, as well as meeting local Energy Code compliance.
A certified HERS Rater follows a prescribed standard for how a home is measured, verified and rated, and must comply with national standards to continue to perform certified ratings.

What is an energy audit or HERS Rating
A Home Energy Rating, performed by a Certified HERS Rater, consists of a full visual analysis of components and aspects of the home, along with energy performance testing of air infiltration with a tool called a blower door. Evaluation of home energy bills can also be included. A blower door slightly de-pressurizes the home and determines the amount of air leakage present. The home is compared to a hypothetical reference home which is based on the IECC 2004, and the home is then provided with a rating. The rating can be a numerical HERS rating or a ’star’ rating based upon ENERGY STAR® requirements.

Along with the actual performance rating, the homeowner will be provided with details on areas of the home that need to be improved, in order to further save energy costs and improve the comfort and efficiency of the home.

For more information, visit: http://www.greenenergysavers.com/

Bruce Czech and George Scott are both Certified Home Energy Raters and also Certified ASHI Home Inspectors. Performing Energy Audits and Home Inspections give both of them insight into what can go wrong in a home, and where improvements can be made to result in direct savings.

Doris Helge, Ph. D. is author of many books, including, “Joy on the Job” and “Transforming Pain Into Power,” now published in four languages. After a decade of research regarding employee morale and motivation issues and providing training in organizations ranging from Microsoft to Vanderbilt University, Dr. Helge, “The Joy on the Job Coach,” has became the #1 authority on happiness at work.

“Joy on the Job” is The Bible of Happiness at Work. Although the book is fun to read, I couldn’t find any filler or fluff in this comprehensive work. The book is packed with hundreds of proven, easy-to-implement strategies that create joy and fulfillment at work. Material was drawn from interviews with employees, managers, and entrepreneurs in 21 diverse organizations. Strategies were validated during “Joy on the Job Seminars” conducted by the author.

When the Joy on the Job strategies were evaluated, Dr. Helge’s work produced significant improvements in:

* Teamwork
* Job satisfaction (whether workers were self-employed or employed by a company)
* Employee motivation (whether people were working for themselves or a company)
* Productivity
* Employee retention
* Customer service
* Leadership ability
* Employee morale (whether people were working for themselves or a company)

Over 100 user-friendly exercises in “Joy on the Job” help us integrate new knowledge and skills.

A book based on over ten years of research could be dry, right? Not “Joy on the Job!” It’s filled with positive surprises. The book is written in a warm, conversational style and the content and exercises are so useful that the book definitely maintains your interest. The answer to “What’s in it for me?” is simple — happiness at work — so people I talk to read the book over and over. It is their reference book regarding happiness at work.

For the HR manager or other serious researcher, “Joy on the Job” has a complete appendix with an extensive index. I was amazed that even the References and Notes Section of “Joy on the Job” is interesting to read.

I enjoyed reviewing this book because I agree with Dr. Helge that everyone deserves to enjoy their work as much as a fun vacation. People I’ve recommended the book to have been delighted by how easy it is to improve their lives at work. HR managers, entrepreneurs, team members, and employees appreciate the no-cost strategies that have been proven to produce positive change.

One of the next best steps on Planet Earth will be to create work settings in which people have so much fun that work becomes like play. This book and Dr. Helge’s seminars are a giant step toward that goal.

Download sample chapters from the book at joyonthejobbook.com and sign up for the only ezine focused on happiness at work at joyonthejobbook.com Even if you are already somewhat satisfied at your job, there is always more happiness at work to experience! The book’s ISBN # is 1-885598-05-X.

Bill Uhl is Senior Instructor at OHV Training, http://www.OHVtraining.org and won six gold medals for the U.S. in international competitions. He loves helping others have more fun in all areas of their lives.

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Self-Consciousness takes you to higher levels of awareness and development. The unspoken downside is that it takes you away from your natural power and abilities.

Your logic gets in the way of your own intuition. The self-consciousness of socially adaptive women that makes them look like cover models prevents them from experiencing emotion and bliss.

When you become more ‘technical’ and caught up in the progress of everything human, you’re going in a different direction of nature.

America leads this revolution ‘hands down’ in conscious ’social’ development. That is why we are so out of touch with daily emotion, happiness and nature.

Look at the levels of ‘conscious development’ that we have in science, film, education, music and music video.

There’s no doubt that hit music songs deserve their social success.

Scott Storch is one example of great conscious music production or how about Timba’s ‘Promiscuous’?

These productions reach an incredible amount of synergy with the elements involved.

But why is it all done in the first place? What is the intention?

Are we really in touch with nature or is it done to influence social behavior for higher social status oneself?

Millions of people are so caught up in our socio-cultural reality which is completely developed and contrived by man (and women).

None of it is natural. Anything that isn’t natural and involves more than one person I generally define as ’social’. The problem with ’social’ today is that the relationships that exist aren’t always empowering; they’re trying to influence your behavior to their advantage.

In more traditional or familial society’s where everyone knew everyone, things were more open and interdependent. Now anything ’social’ in America is essentially a power game of influence, adaptation and pretension. L.A. leads this trend.

We’ve come so far to our own disadvantage. Yes there are all kinds of incredible productions of value (if you don’t let it control you) but the reality is that we’ve lost touch with reality.

Music is more influential than people realize. Their behavior is already being influenced in almost all cases by the music (and other programming) they receive.

What we know is the world in front of us in which the social ‘powers’ will continue to put out ‘programming’ which puts us directly in a relationship of behavioral response ‘conditioning’.

Millions of people don’t even know of anything else than what they are being programmed with. It’s up to the powers of programming to decide what to condition the people with next (ie. MTV).

People are just left to sort out through an amalgamation of millions of messages to form their own (socially rooted) identity.

Their behavior is done to appease the social norm and fall in line with the powerful social standards without being able to be fully independent or realizing the power of nature and it’s attributes that we used to have (ie. happiness).

What people aren’t aware of (despite the positive benefits of conscious social development) besides the powerless position they’re in, is that we are far away from nature.

We’ve lost touch.

Cultural differentiation saved me. It allowed me to finally open myself to the power of nature. I can now clearly differentiate social influence, power and the messages of any new relationship source of power.

I’ve found ways to balance out my massive ‘conscious’ development with nature.

This gives me a massive amount of power and control over my life.

I don’t just ‘take in’ the new social ‘program’ where someone else has the relational authority over my life; I see it for what it really is because of my level of cognition and then determine if it adds value to my life.

When you are too logical or ‘conscious’ about something, it’s going to throw off your own behavior. When it comes to women or trying ‘fix’ your body language, being logical isn’t going to help.

If you’re conditioned to put women on a pedestal that is how you’re GOING to act and behave around them. You can ‘consciously’ try to breath slower, stick your chest out and walk slow but it won’t work for more than a few seconds.

Why? The power of nature supersedes just about everything, especially in seduction. The power of nature is the only reason women have sex unless it’s for mercenary reasons.

I recommend you start studying natural energy and putting conscious social development and programming into it’s PROPER position in your newly powerful lifestyle.

Natural grounding is the most powerful thing I’ve ever done. I’ve learned how to get back to my roots, away from the strong levels of conscious development that I’ve taken on.

If you want to be a man of enormous character who attracts women, then I recommend you get in touch with natural energy. It’s the opposite of our pretentious social development. It’s pure, free, emotion, priceless.

The problem with social development and it’s root in trying to please people is that it subjects them to personal preferences or social behavioral adaptation.

I’ve discovered productions/resources that are timeless instead of the next fickle ‘fad’. I will not name them here other than to say that ‘The LionKing’ is massively successful (and deserves it) because it’s rooted in natural elements.

The LionKing is one of the RARE American productions that is focused on natural elements while most everything else produced is to try to cater to or influence the ’social’ mind.

When you can find naturally grounded resources and can have a relationship where you draw value from them in exchange for your time (and money), your world will change.

It’s important for men to have some kind of grounding other than being a social byproduct or pawn (prickteases are social clones, you’re a byproduct if you took it too seriously).

It’s up to you to understand the power of nature and have cognition of the NATURE of women because that is the path to sex despite all of the socio-Logical development and programming we have.

I predict a coming mass movement towards natural grounding across millions of people who are looking for answers (beyond yoga) and a balance to the massive levels of socio-conscious development and ‘programming’ we have.

It’s time to have independence, freedom, cognition and power yourself but only if you’re ready. Be a man apart. Set your own standards and have the best of all worlds. Women will find it fascinating and inextricably be drawn to you.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Online dating services and Relationship Websites
Internet Dating has come a long way, from chaperone supervised meetings in the early 15th century to today’s internet weddings. The evolution of internet dating has morphed into a new way to match individual looking for love. In the old days, families would join and grow strong with the marriage of the sons and daughters. Internet Dating is spreading this trend away and mixing the popular more evenly.

Internet makes a profit with the arrival of online dating Internet dating started with newsgroups like soc.singles way before web browsers, the instant messengers, the social networking sites, the online dating sites, or even the WWW emerged. In fact Jupiter Research forecasts that $516 million will be spent on online dating sites in 2005, and this number will rise to $623 million by 2008. Another research company, estimated that $214 million was spent on online personals in the first half of 2003, up from $121 million in 2002. Despite rumors that Online Dating was bound to fail, January 2005 alone saw well over 26 million visitors to relationship and matchmaking websites.

There are 2 types of Internet dating website applications that are used by online dating. These applications are One-on-one dating website applications and Social Networking website applications. These online dating sites enable people to register and browse profiles available on the site. Most sites offer the following basic set of features:

Registration

Browse Profiles

Private Messaging

Pro/paid accounts

Favorites

Search Profiles

Matchfinder

Billing history
Most online dating websites are structured around this model. Adding features like Photo/profile rating, Live Chats, Videos, pay-per-contact, etc can make your website more appealing to the market. There are innumerable examples of these types of sites. Here are a few high-profile dating websites: Match.com (also used by MSN), Personals.yahoo.com, Personals.salon.com, Love.org Date.com

Social Networking is basically a map of relationships between individuals. It indicates ways in which they are connected through various social familiarities — friends, close friends, school mates, casual acquaintance, family, business, etc. The theory views social relationships in terms of nodes and ties . Nodes are individuals in the network while ties are the relationships between them.

There was a lot of talk on how Social Networking as a model is doomed to fail but just looking at the way they are doing is enough to know that although it may not be paying off right now, it soon will. Sites like LinkedIn, Ryze, Yahoo 360, MySpace, etc seem to be attracting customers silently. Soon, they have multiple options on what to do with the huge customer base.

online dating services and relationship websites

Even though millions of women now look, act, talk, behave and dress like what was known as ’slutty’ years ago, does NOT make them sluts.

Yes, Christina Aguilera helped pave the way on that one. Though she actually does have (inner) talent, she’s a total pricktease and sellout.

It’s up to you as a man to know that. In fact, female sexuality is Not how sexy they look or how flaunting they can be towards men. Their sexuality is something completely different and I actually show you on my website.

I hate using that word ’slut’ because it does not represent a woman’s true sexuality and I’ve never ever directly called a woman that.

It’s the greatest insult and undermines any and all integrity she would have more than anything else.

Sex itself is to be respected and one of the reason’s that you’ll consistently get there with new women is that you DO respect them and their decision to let YOU in. She has to trust you to let you in.

Women have to authentically know that you do NOT view them as a slut…they have to be reaffirmed before going with that ultimation.

Yes, it’s the most ironic thing in the world…millions of women flaunting and teasing men. Showing their T&A in photos on myspace isn’t just for fun; it’s their social alpha model of behavior and they’re adapting to it more and more.

You have to know what it really is that it’s a fantasy and that it won’t get you to sex. You have to see beyond all of it to trigger her NATURAL sex drive which is really just opening the ‘path’ to be in a relationship with you to get the value she wants out of it.

I know, it’s the greatest irony ever I know yet that’s why you’re so confused and thrown off around ’sexy’ women. You’ve been conditioned to ‘respond’ to the stimuli of sexploitation.

Men are (have been taught to) confusing sexploitation with a woman’s true sexuality and they really believe it too because the women are visually in front of them supposedly getting hot and turned on.

That’s why you have to see it for what it really is; a conscious production of exploitation of a pre-existing (contract) relationship to influence the (buying) behavior of men in any and all forms.

In fact, ANY amount of sexploitation in any form is purely social based. Someone behind the scenes which you don’t see has the true power there. How do I know this? Compare sexploitation to our pure biological nature.

Compare it to Natural Alpha women where you don’t even think about sex with them yet are always comfortable and in the proper relational dynamic for real success.

This is the way it’s been through history until blatant sexploitation came along and threw off the behavior of man.

So, just because the women you want are purely adapting their identity to their socio-cultural role models of actresses and soft porn stars doesn’t mean that they are sluts at all.

That’s just their ’social’ character and their outward appearance.

Inside, they really are still innocent, intuitive and wondrous.

Bring that part out of them and you’ll invariably get ‘yours’ because women have always been the ‘path’ to sex.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating. Join the newsletter and get instant access to actually see the ’secret of women’ for yourself @ http://www.secretofwomen.com