The Hidden and Understated Secret of the World

What is it? It’s the natural alpha character of women and it’s something that I’d bet you don’t understand yet because it’s not a part of our mainstream social reality.

Let me explain more…

When I teach Alpha Relational Dynamics, I like to use real world, solid clear examples so that guys can relate. It’s kind of difficult to do in text here but it’s a prelude to my other materials.

I’ll quickly overview;

Men and women have 3 root behavioral characteristics; Natural, Inner and Social ‘character’ as I call it.

To succeed with women consistently, it’s not enough just to know yourself, you have to be cognitive of the truth of women and their behavioral attributes as well as know your relationship to them.

I like to teach with Alpha Models. Why? Because they’re the primo, the cream of the crop. The women that men are most desirous and scared of at the same time.

Once you know your relationship to the Alpha Models of behaviorism, everything else can fall into it’s proper place. This is a big part of Alpha Relational Dynamics.

The reason that millions of men cannot figure out women is really quite simple.

In America and the modern First World we now live in a behavioral reality that consists of Inner and Social Alpha Models of female behaviorism.

Those are the role models…the peak of development, power and status that a woman (within the sphere of influence) could ever hope to be.

It’s the Oprah Winfrey’s, the power career girls, the Paris Hilton’s and porn star actresses.

So what do millions of women do? They adapt because it’s all they see. They take on the same opportunities, characteristics, traits, appearances and opinions of their socio-cultural role models.

I also call these Prada’s (Independent’s) and Prickteases (Popular clones).

After all, what else would they do? Women are more adaptive than men anyways. They can morph into a crowd and adapt to all kinds of different situations compared to men who are more stagnant in who they already are.

So we have these Alpha models of female behavior which is not just an idea anymore, it’s our everyday reality. These characteristics are behaviorally EVIDENT in the women you know and communicate with.

This is further backed up by t.v., radio, media, government, corporate america, law, and countless industries, marketers and promoters.

We LIVE in a behavioral reality of Inner and Social Alpha Models of women. Most women in our socio-cultural reality adapt some of these characteristics though not always achieving the same amount of fame.

Why does this matter? It means everything. This is the pure root of why there are more singles now than in history. This is why men AND women are having fewer relationships, are repressed, psychologically tormented, can’t understand the other sex and it’s also the reason that billions of dollars in new revenue are generated each year.

Our behavioral reality is so real, so visceral and ever-present that it seems like it’s all that there is. The behavior of women is REAL and I think you’ve experienced it.

Yet there’s something missing here that is the one single key to it all.

Cultural differentiation saved me from a lifetime of massive frustration and confusion when it came to women and understanding their behavior.

What’s missing is simple (and this is best seen ‘visually’ on my website). There are no Natural Alpha Models in our socio-cultural reality. There are NONE.

It’s not popular and it’s definitely not profitable in the eyes of the ‘architects’, producers and executives.

A natural alpha is a woman who is closest to who she would be without corruptive, manipulative social influence and programming. She’s happier, peaceful, emotional, intuitive, strong in a way today’s women aren’t in touch with, and she’s the perfect mother and perfect wife.

A few decades ago, the understated attributes of our ‘housewives’ (the social viewpoint) went unnoticed because the architect’s saw new avenues for power and influence. Government went along with it.

What started out as women’s rights for equality is now at the point where they have the real buying power and influence (next to the architect’s who are playing the whole thing). The dynamics have changed massively.

Men are questioning their own manhood, wives ‘own’ their husbands, divorces happen every hour, families are torn apart and much more.

It’s probably left the remaining great grandparents shaking their heads at what’s happened yet we’re so caught up in it that we don’t have anything to compare it to or differentiate it with.

Like I said, cultural differentiation saved me. I saw that there were real women out there in the world. Women who knew how to create life instead of destruct it.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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What Makes A Ukraine Woman A Lady

Since the Ukraine’s breakdown caused by the Totalitarian regime of the USSR, there has been no notion of what a Ukraine lady is. In fact, in this area, there were no women known as ladies at all. They were addressed as Comrade or Citizen. More recently the word “pani” is becoming more and more common. A “pani” is the word for a Ukraine woman.

During the totalitarian regime, women were not looked at for their beauty, but that has since changed. Fashion is again becoming part of people’s everyday lives. There are fashion boutiques in every large city in the Ukraine. Since economics are improving the culture is regenerating. Moral values are still of the utmost importance but the appearance of the Ukraine woman is coming back into style.

A Ukraine lady is good looking and fashionable, and most of all, they have great taste. They like smart clothes and don’t overdress which is popular among the younger generation. No matter where they go, whether it is to work or to the club, they like to look and feel like a lady. According to the true ladies of the Ukraine, everything has its own dress code. So, if that means a brand new suit for the office, high style jeans and t-shirts for a picnic in the park, a smart looking dress for a party, or chic pajamas for bed, they always want to look perfect for any occasion.

At work in particular, if you come into the office without a jacket, even in the warm summers, you can get fired. However, if you don’t wear short skirts and tee shirts when going to a club, even in the frosty winters, you won’t be considered trendy. Many University students say that although it is nice to have, they don’t necessarily need to keep a lot of clothes in their wardrobe. They emphasis quality rather than quantity, and as long as their clothes are of high quality and match well together then they are following the basics of looking like a lady. Ukraine ladies that live in large cities have no problem at all finding fashionable and trendy clothes, but if they live in a smaller town then it can be a bit of a problem. That doesn’t stop them however, because many of them make the drive to the nearest big city to do their much needed shopping.

A definition of a Ukraine lady doesn’t just stop at the clothes. It is defined by how educated they are as well. Education doesn’t have to mean they have a diploma or a University degree, it can be the deep, profound knowledge of the job they do, and in the field they work in. Comprehensive education helps greatly, but as long as they are well read and can be a part of an in-depth conversation then they are considered to be educated. So, whether it is politics, sports, taxes, or cooking, if they can hold their own then they are truly a lady.

Ukraine ladies take care of themselves physically as well. Most do not wear makeup and still look gorgeous. They believe that makeup does not make a girl look beautiful; it only hides the real beauty. It is much more proper to have clear skin and beautifully coiffed hair rather than loads of
unnecessary makeup.

A real Ukraine lady also never shows off in a pompous way. She is clever but never boasts of her knowledge. She is beautiful but does not have an ego. She is strong, but has an elegant strength of a lady. A Ukraine lady is a true and honest lady, and by her side every man that is lucky enough to
be part of her life, will feel like a gentleman.

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The Socio-Sexual Portrayal of Women & Their True Sexuality

Advanced dating advice for men through looking at the cause and effect reality of female behaviorism and what sexploitation really means. The path to dating success lies in knowing your relationship to their behavior.

Sometimes I just have to re-define things. If socio-sexual isn’t an official word; it is now because of getting across the effect that was missing.

Women actually are ‘good girls’ on the inside and that is their true sexuality. It’s nothing like you see as the flaunting and accentuation of their body which makes them even appear ’slutty’ nowadays.

It’s up to you to know their truth instead of being visually deceived into thinking they want to have sex right away just because they look like it. That’s the whole social game in which millions of men are powerless pawns.

Almost always before women have sex with a man they have to know that he is going to respect her because she really IS a good girl. She has to know it’s ‘ok’ to do what you’re going to do.

This is the natural way of things. So if you’re just looking at how they look upfront which honestly ‘looks like’ they’re ready to have sex right away (by adapting to their social alpha sexploitation models), you’re going about it all wrong.

With sexploitation you see ’sex’ instantly in front of you. All they’re doing is exploiting the culmination of a pre-existing relationship to influence men.

None of the relationships are natural, it’s all in contracts anyways.

All of pornography other than maybe real voyeurism is ‘consciously’ produced. The women especially know they’re acting.

In reality, women have to be warmed up (and not under a consciously produced lighting set).

Porn stars and their clones have just adapted to this popular social ideal for more social status and power.

It’s not their true sexuality and definitely NOT the path to sex though most men treat it as such because they have been conditioned to believe it was.

With Alpha R.D. we already know the secret to women is that their natural character) is the path to sex; not their body or social adaptation. Sign up for my free newsletters and materials and you’ll see this for yourself.

It’s really about a woman and what she wants yet all you’re seeing is the propagation and exploitation of what a man wants so that he’ll spend more money to the people who produced the stimulus.

And you might be thinking women don’t want anything, they don’t like men, they don’t show any signs.

Well the thing with that is, those women aren’t very in touch with their natural character..it just takes a (natural) man to open that part of her up again so they both go down ‘the path’ which culminates in sex. It’s up to YOU to know this and BE that man.

Yes this means you will actually have to see through the near impossible barriers of her social adaptation (tight clothes, boob job, makeup, attitude..) to see her true sexuality so that she’ll open up to you on the REAL path to sex.

Fortunately it’s very easy to see past it when you apply relational dynamics to see the truth and live in the proper relational reality at all times.

Oh sure there’s some men out there who model the male porn stars and sometimes these women will obviously fall into that reality based off of their model of social reality, but this isn’t right for most real, decent and balanced men.

Those are the men who are taking advantage of a woman’s social adaptation, treating them like ‘bitches’ (whom most are self-admittedly bitches) but none of it is healthy. It’s all a social CONstruct.

Look at it this way, the male porn stars themselves have got it made.

They don’t even have to have any so-called ‘game’ and some would say they have the best job in the world; guaranteed sex with hot women because the relationships were all contractual and predetermined.

Yet it’s all a fantasy ’stimuli’. Know the secret of women and the truth of their repressed beauty and you will succeed in the real world with them.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Are You the Reason You Don’t Succeed With Women?

When it comes to understanding women, being confused with their behavior and wanting success; let me say this.

You weren’t the problem in the first place.

You just didn’t understand your relationship to what was going on.

This lifted a tremendous burden off of my own inner character, as I unrightfully took on all kinds of pressure that wasn’t my fault. I was conditioned to be ignorant.

I always knew I was a quality guy yet couldn’t understand why women never displayed interest in what they said they wanted the most.

I used to feel that I couldn’t control my emotional response around the hottest of women. Have you ever felt that?

You saw a beautiful woman and you felt your physiology change?

I mean your entire behavior changed and it did whether you were conscious of it or not.

Believe it or not, women are aware of these things and that’s why they haven’t opened up to you from the start.

And you can try to make it logical and ‘get a grip’ but the truth is, you’re behaving out of your subconscious. Your true relationship to her is already evident and no matter how you communicate, your nonverbal body language is already getting across that you’re intimidated by her.

This will get you nowhere unless she is really desperate or interested in your social status.

This puts all kinds of men (millions actually) into a dilemma.

They can’t ‘achieve’ that which they’ve (objectively) desired the most.

And how do they desire it the most? Simple. Their socio-cultural environment tells them to desire it the most. They see the men’s magazines, they see pornography, and most importantly they see the exact behavior of their idols and the same attributes in the women around them.

The power is very real and they’re in the wrong relational dynamic to it. They’re in the social relational dynamic where they lose.

To them they can’t tell the difference between a cover model and the girl next door who has the same social attributes. He has already added so much emotional value to this concept and objectification.

It’s not even enough to focus on what he is good at in communicating with people because his nonverbal and subconscious behavior is already so conditioned.

He has to recondition his mind on something that has grounding or he’ll never be able to consistently be comfortable around the most beautiful and powerful of women or get them attracted to him.

The advantage of when he is re-conditioned is that women will respond to him like never before. The same women that rejected him will open up to him and he won’t have to do very much ‘work’ at all to get places.

The behavioral power that women have today is VERY real and if you don’t know your relationship to it or aren’t equal to it you will consistently fail.

But the thing is that a man just can’t ‘act’ this level of nonverbal mastery. He has to BE it and women will be testing him harshly on whether he is this man or not.

If he isn’t, they lose interest and they wait in hope that someday they’ll find a man who is comfortable around them so they can finally open up and experience their fantasies yet the men just can’t get a grip.

Nonverbal ‘body language’ techniques don’t work because they’re dealing with the surface behavior of duplicating what other men who are successful are doing. It’s ‘logical’ and stemming from the conscious mind but it can’t effect the subconscious mind because the
man still is grounded in the wrong relation to these women. His body won’t let the change take place because it already knows it’s relation to the women.

Finally there is an answer that goes beyond the power of NLP and hypnosis. The answer is deeper and more powerful than those methods because those methods and how they’re taught are limited to a man’s ‘inner game’ when his own personal ‘game’ isn’t the problem in the first place.

He’s just ignorant to the relational dynamics of power and where he stands in relation to that; he isn’t the problem per say. He’s just had the wrong model of female sexuality the entire time and he’s been behaviorally conditioned and grounded in it.

THAT is why he fails and pick up lines are a waste of time only getting him further away from success.

The answer is with understanding female behavior and applying Alpha Relational Dynamics.

He has to ground himself on the proper model of a woman’s sexuality.

And because we don’t have that proper model of a woman’s sexuality in the U.S. or ’social matrix’, that is the only reason millions of men are failing with women. It’s also the reason they don’t see it within the women themselves; it ISN’T behaviorally evident otherwise our men wouldn’t be having problems.

But it’s still up to him to ‘know’. Women expect him to know and will never tell a man their secret.

Alpha R.D. will show a man the secret to woman. He will then be able to see through her causal adaptive socio-cultural conditioning to the real her.

There is a lot of power being wielded and men will continue to be repressed if they remain ignorant to the truth of what’s going on.

When they can see the truth and recondition themselves on the proper sexual female behavioral model, everything will change. They will actually be harnessing the same amount of power the women are because they will be on their level and a much stronger man.

This will take some work but it is the answer. It will take work because men have been conditioned for a decade or more with emotional attribution on the wrong models of female behavior and sexuality.

He has to rebuild a new path of neural connections; a new highway that is grounded in the proper/natural relational dynamic with women. Then he will be massively attracting women where he goes.

When he has the same amount of emotional attribution and behavioral conditioning aligned to the proper model of a woman’s sexuality, then he will be comfortable around the most powerful, sexiest and beautiful women in the world as I am.

No inner game trick, body language or mental ‘technique’ could come close to overriding the massive conditioned reality that I had other than natural grounding and female alpha natural cognition.

Inner game is not enough. Study relational dynamics for true cognition, power and permanent success. You will then be equal or greater in relation to all women in the world and that is a massive amount of power.

They’re waiting for men like us.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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4 Tips On How Using Article Writing Can Be Used To Strengthen Your Marketing Arsenal

Readers on the internet nowadays, seem to be starved for information especially free information. Blog and Ezine publishers are constantly on the look out for good, original and informative articles they can add to their websites or ezine publications.

Article writers therefore have an open source of hungry readers and publishers ready to pick up their written masterpieces. The article writers have the capacity via the authors profile and signature line to advertise their primary business websites though hyper-linked key words so attaining free and targeted internet promotion for their websites.

In many cases an article can be written within a few hours, and can easily be viewed by many hundreds if not thousands of eyes over it’s lifetime. Articles have a long life span, and assuming you have chosen to write the article yourself, it is a very effective form of free advertising imparting yourself as a knowledgeable expert in your field of writing as well as giving publicity to your primary business.

You may also hire ghost writers, or if you are more comfortable speaking an article, you can hire transcribers who will put your spoken words into written form, easing the labor for you.

4 tips to help you produce better articles are:

Choose Your Headline Wisely.

Readers like to read words like tips, secrets and free preferably all in the same headline. Do not overdo your headline with too many irrelevant key words. You may get your article published but you may not attract as many readers as you may have done using words which promote a strong benefit to the reader.

Make The Content Interesting.

You should at least know something about your subject, but spend at least a little time on doing some research on your subject and the results will be superior. You do not need to be a literary genius, but check your grammar, spelling and have a friend proof read your work before making the mistake of submitting your blooper for all posterity.

Linking To Your Website.

The benefit an article writer has in submitting his work is that the publishers will allow a signature line, profile or resource box about the author. It is best to write in the 3rd person when writing about yourself. Hyper-linking your website to appropriate key words is the trick to get the search engines to notice you. Whether you use an article submission software or do it manually, keep track of the articles you have written and the number of hits to your websites. You can also use the technique of using differing keywords that are appropriate for your website, so building internet traffic to your website using alternative search terms. Check that your links are working before you submit your work.

Have Fun.

Article writing can be a lot of fun once you get the hang of it. Read other articles to get ideas, read the newspapers and watch the news. In time you will find inspiration for your next literary work in the most unusual places. Originality is the key. Your article content can be checked quickly for duplication, so keep away from removing content away from others.

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Differentiating Between Female Behavioral Characteristics

Though you may not understand it yet, female behavioral cognition comes down to this (which took me a long time to figure out and see).

Natural female sexuality has LASTING value
Social female ’sexuality’ has fleeting value
Inner female ’sexuality’ has dramatic value

Guess which one got us all here in the first place and guess which one ’sells’ billions of dollars while having byproducts of 40 year old virgins?

And guess which one is the root of a 50% divorce rate?

When you really look at it, the social sexploitation of women and having the accentuation their bodies and physical ass-ets is really just a stimuli to influence your behavior to get you to ‘respond’.

You have the emotional desire and drive to immediately have sex with these women. And it’s VERY emotional and very connected to you. I know because I’ve been there but now I have a completely different relationship to the stimuli.

Now I have complete self-control and I don’t respond or instantly lose my power.

The architects know how to easily hit all of the right buttons in men. They’re exploiting women to influence your behavior and the women are just adapting for higher social status. It’s the socio-cultural environment that’s made it not just safe to do but promoted and expected.

If I didn’t tell you that you may have never figured it out. Then again, you are here seeking the truth so you were probably onto the trail…

So when you see these men’s magazines cover models in a photo spread, you just want to basically have sex with them. Umm…anything ELSE?

No. You just want to have sex with them. Done and over. That’s it.

So essentially, the woman herself is getting ‘used’ as well (if you’re ‘lucky’) because she’s catering to male fantasies by appearing ’slutty’ and ‘ready to go’.

Sexploitation is not a woman’s true sexual behavior. It’s her socially adaptive behavior. The more you know this fact and are grounded in it, the more success you will have with women.

Remember when you were younger and actually had emotion?

Well that’s now covered up with socio-logical and inner development.

When you’re closer to nature, you’re closer to emotion.

The emotion you feel of driving the highest status social car is fleeting..it’s not real lasting emotion because it’s not naturally based. Nature is free of financial or social expectations, pretension or trying to impress others.

When you represent nature as a man, you are naturally attractive to women. The path to sex itself is natural. It’s a woman’s repressed natural character; it’s not her social behavior or inner development.

I would desire to be closer to nature and all things natural to convalesce all of my development in the opposite direction which has left me cold-hearted in a way.

Millions of men and women are now completely out of touch with their natural and emotional self. We save it for a few fleeting moments and instead of coming together to share, we keep it locked up within ourselves.

When you can bring out the repressed natural character of a woman, which has lasting, eternal value, you will be able to make her feel things that don’t compare to her social adaptation or the benefits that brings.

You will be able to have her escape from the fleeting ‘high’ of social status because she is bored most of the time living in that reality.

Nature is where it’s at and it’s your power to seduce the most beautiful and powerful of women when you’re in relation to them.

The ‘inner’ character or ’sexuality’ of a woman and it’s empowerment is not sexual at all. It’s personally based yet you have to know your relationship to it. Many women you want, have a tremendous amount of power and so many guys get crushed under it especially in a long-term relationship.

Know what you’re getting into with that because there is going to be a lot of drama, compromise, conflict and reconciliation.

Understand female behavior by studying Alpha Relational Dynamics.

Not only will you clear up your mind about the lifelong confusion of women, but you will be at peace with them; powerful and comfortable in your own skin with the ability to succeed in dating, life and sex.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Day Trading Forex Currency

Just a few years ago, forex trading was reserved for professional traders, financial institutions and the banking industry. The United States government passed a law some seven years ago, and the forex market is now open to small investors as well. With todays technology, average people with personal computers and internet connections, trading forex online has become a booming online business. A small investor can now sit in the comfort of his or her home and trade forex at any time.

Forex currency day trading is a technical term used to describe a trade, buying or selling, that is completed within the same day. The implication is that all trading activity, is done within the span of a calendar day and no stock of forex is retained over night. Earlier a preserve of the wealthy and influential, day trading is now open to the average investor as well. The most well kept secret of the business, forex day trading endows the forex trader with a great deal of buying capability. As long as the trades are completed in a single calendar day, the forex traders have access to investments about 200 times the amount that they actually own. For example, a trader can use $50 of their own to handle an investment of around $10,000 and $100 to make an investment of $20,000.

There are individuals whose sole profession and expertise is in day trading forex currency. These professionals are mainly of two types – day traders who work for themselves and day traders who are employed with large financial institutions. Most of todays professional forex day traders work for financial institutions, such as banks, that provide a high level of job security and the ability to access a huge amount of financial resources and knowledge. Large financial institutions expend a lot of resources to make sure that day traders have everything they need to make a successful trade, implying just how lucrative this market can be.

Professional forex day traders who operate independently manage their clients portfolios, as well as their own by trying to assure they have access to the most accurate information and the best connections in the market. A large sum is required for backing up the deals that are made, cutting edge software for research and analytics, and connection to a dealer are the basic requirements for the business of day trading at the pro level. Most small investors in this market, including small time day traders, do not have the financial capability for these types of resources and cannot directly compete with the pros. However, the potential for success still exists in day trading.

There are many online and offline sources of information on forex day trading and the best forex trading strategies to use in this type of trade. Tools such as forex trading software simulation and education are widely accessible online and allow anyone to learn this business the right way. One simply needs to spend some time learning the ropes of day trading, since this is how any successful forex trader really operates. Once people gain some experience, they set up small home businesses of their own to supplement their income and enable them to make larger trades with their client’s investment amounts.

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Female Behavioral Adaptation

Ironic how that is now popular in this society where women often proclaim themselves to be the ‘baddest bitch’. Can you see what’s going on and what kind of alpha female role models of behavior we have?

Women look up to this standard and want to be just like those women even though it’s all a social fantasy driven by the profit of a few.

The women who adapt spend all kinds of money to look, act and behave like their Social Alpha models.

Few to no women in our society want to be the perfect wife or the ultimately natural mother anymore (who is the only one who can keep a family together) because society influenced them otherwise from their Junior year onward for it’s own agenda.

And our women don’t know this. They just know what they saw in their behavioral reality and just adapted to it..they have no other reference point. They saw the behavior of men which further reinforced this behavioral reality.

You didn’t necessarily ‘adapt’ to it like women do (who are the response in mating), rather it more than likely just confused the hell out of you like it did me.

Our women don’t have the invaluable benefit of cultural differentiation and even if they wanted to be a natural and pure woman who was happier in all regards, there’s no environment to support that in our influential socio-cultural reality.

Unfortunately, once they ‘develop’ and adapt there is no turning back.

Instead, our women are closer to governing over men in all of their relationships or wanting to be the ‘baddest bitch’.

What on earth happened to real love? What happened to real relationships?

What happened to family values? What happened to commitment? What happened to devotion? Why do we have a 50%+ divorce rate? What happend to happiness?

what happened when people can only find a fragment of joy representationally in an Elmo doll when they can’t experience the most valuable thing in their life daily? What on earth happened?

Two words: Social. Influence. Social Influence.

It’s not about pure, open win/win interdependence like a barter society used to be. The concept of social has become a hierarchy of power, influence, manipulation and status.

So when women want to be the ‘baddest’ bitch please know that this is 100% derived from their socio-cultural adaptation and influence. It will spare your own sanity.

The reason men fail with women is because they have the wrong alpha models of female sexuality in the first place.

A woman’s true sexuality is dormant, hidden, understated, repressed and behaviorally UNevident. I can show you this truth and when you see it and reframe your reality around it, you will massively attract even the women who are trying to rise the social ladder to be the
‘baddest bitch’.

You’ll be their only escape from the social game that they live..their only chance to experience their remaining natural beauty and truth.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Truly Being Yourself Around Women

Many dating experts will balk at the idea and say that if being yourself hasn’t worked, then try something different. Basically ‘act’ and be or become someone you’re not is what it boils down to.

And if you ‘act’ enough, you’ll eventually become congruent with the act enough to get women into bed ‘a certain percentage’ of the time.

Unfortunately, when guys who aren’t having success with women end up trying to be someone they’re not, things only get even more frustrating.

It’s even more unfamiliar territory and they’re nervous around women as is.

Yet a few things they try such as techniques or lines to knock her ‘off her pedestal’ a little bit seem to work and they’ll get further into developing a persona that was never really them
to begin with.

Sure lots of guys have had success with this by essentially ‘becoming’ the character after a lot of trial and error, yet few have the commitment to something that unnatural yet they
see it as their only option.

There’s a LOT of material out there that deals in this realm.

It’s time for some real answers and solutions that deal with the core issues themselves.

It’s time for men to actually be their true, comfortable and powerful self around women instead of becoming someone they’re not based out of ignorance to the relational reality in the first place.

I can understand the desire of men to succeed in this area, but I encourage them to look at other solutions and decide for themselves.

Do they really want to become someone they’re not, playing the social power game where even the top PUA’s are starting out from a powerless frame in relation to women, or do they want to truly be comfortable in their own skin and easily communicate with the most beautiful women on earth while respecting the woman and getting a lot further?

Fortunately now there IS an option for those that are looking.

I call it Alpha Relational Dynamics. It deals with more than just a man’s inner game or his fight to align himself and fix himself to the reality he is ignorant to in the first place.

It’s the first program I know that explains women and their behavior. To be effective we can’t just improve a man and be ignorant to the truth of women, we have to understand female behavior at it’s roots and know our relationship to it and what it means to us.

For men that are looking to be themselves around women and are tired of acting, it’s time for a solution that will allow him to keep his power and be massively attractive to women instead of trying to entertain the woman who is higher up the social scale.

It’s time for men to be powerful as themselves around beauty itself. It’s time to respect himself and to actually BE himself, then women will know he’s for real and can trust him to open up to a new relationship.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Hiring and Keeping Good Employees

Employers today are caught between the proverbial “rock and a hard place”. They need more qualified personnel to do some of the most basic of tasks but the labor pool is tight and qualified personnel are limited. Many employers have resorted to hiring bodies in hopes of retaining a few good ones (”Like an archer that wounds at random is he who hires a fool or a passer-by”. Proverbs 26:10). And some employers have even decided to delay the growth of the business until the employment market changes.

Answers to the problem of hiring and keeping good employees are often difficult to come by and may demand a change in the way things have been done in the past. But change is inevitable; and the way an employer manages change has a direct impact on their success. Some employers are what I call “Inactive Employers”. Their head is buried in the sand and they hope the problem will just go away or that someone will come up with a miracle solution that will require little or no effort on their part. Other employers are what I call “Reactive Employers”. They are generally slow to change and only do so when it is absolutely necessary, often after it is too late. A successful employer is what I call a “Proactive Employer”. They not only embrace change, they plan on it and are constantly looking for and trying new ways of doing things. They tend to be open-minded and value creative ideas as a part of their culture.

Much like a professional sports team, a Proactive Employer does not just hire personnel, they recruit them. Walk-ons are the exception to the rule. They are “looking” (scouting) for the right person for the job, not just a body to fill a position. Bodies tend to go as easily as they come, whereas recruits stay as part of the team and produce well. The following are some basic steps that can enhance your success at hiring and keeping good employees.

STEP ONE: Define the need.

Most sports teams have a limit to the number of personnel that they can have on their roster. Be able to justify hiring another person. Are the personnel currently employed doing all that they are capable of doing? Do you have a way of measuring it? If not, is it a true need or could it be due to mismanagement or inefficient processes? You owe it to yourself to find out before you invest in additional personnel.

STEP TWO: Define the position.

A professional sports team does not just hire players, but specific players to do a specific job. A good job description should not only include the tasks to be completed, but the tools and processes required as well as the goals expected and the personality make-up of a successful team player.

STEP THREE: Recruit.

Use innovative ways to seek new personnel. Train current personnel to be on the lookout for quality personnel before there is a need. If you use employment agencies (scouts), be sure that they understand your criteria and that you will accept nothing less. Before you get too far into the hiring process with a candidate, do a good background check (e.g. criminal, credentials, drivers license, etc.). Do not borrow someone else’s troubles.

STEP FOUR: Assess

Enhance the interview with good tests of ability and job fit. Skills are important but can be developed easier than other areas of concern. Be sure your assessments reveal a person’s behavioral tendencies, values and attitudes. The thing most managers find frustrating is the employee who could do the job, but won’t. The more areas you assess the better your chances of having a good match.

STEP FIVE: Reward them.

Turnover is extremely costly. A good employee is worth their weight in gold! Signing bonuses are not unusual in sports and are becoming more common in the business sector. But cash money is not the only area of concern. Appreciation is always appreciated and a kind word is always kind. Also, some unique perks are being utilized in today’s markets that are tailored to an individual’s needs. A little creative thinking in this area outside the box could go a long way in securing a loyal workforce.

STEP SIX: Develop their potential.

A good manager is not a manager at all, but a coach. A coach is always looking for ways to encourage his team and motivate them to be their best. Studies overwhelmingly conclude that companies that invest in developing their personnel out produce and out sell their competitors by 200-300 percent.

Hiring and keeping good employees today is no easy task. There are no quick fixes. It requires a strong commitment by management and some creative thinking. The up front cost will seem expensive, but the long-term results will pay off many times over.

Norm Bobay founded http://www.hiremax.com>hireMAX.com, a consulting firm specializing in employee evaluation and development, in 1991. He brings over twenty-five years of experience to his position. Norm is a Certified Professional Behavior Analyst and a Certified Professional Values Analyst.