The man who can use ’social status’ things to HIS advantage instead of being in a conditioned, powerless model of ‘fitting in’ will have more power and effect in life and with women.
It’s really all about the true relationships you have to the world around you.
Many guys get caught up in thinking that one auto will make them successful with women but it’s not true. That’s just a social item.
They’re too caught up in trying to ‘impress’ people and it backfires especially when it comes to women.
You can be the guy with the bright red Lambo but is it really saying something about you or are you just trying to pretentiously ‘impress’ others?
That is based on shallow and social grounding. It will fall beneath your feet because you can’t depend on others, plus it’s not naturally grounded or principally based.
A real man of character doesn’t have to impress others and takes the main focus for himself. If he wants a fast (even ’shiny’) car for the value HE gets out of it and the exhilaration HE gets, that’s a different story but the real relationship WILL be told in how you live your lifestyle.
With as much natural grounding as I have, I’m very aware of ‘material’ things. I know how it can throw people off with the desire of attainment.
But I’m not going to limit myself either. Why? Because I’m the best of all worlds. I represent the best and I although I’m an ‘artist’, I personally choose to NOT be a starving artist.
The car doesn’t own me…I own the car. I have the true relational authority.
I’m the focus and it’s just a part of MY lifestyle that also represents the level of quality and value that I’m personally at.
It’s up to you to ‘own’ it and have true relational authority over the things in your life. You attract what you think about. Do you want to attract pretension and socially based mercenaries and manipulators into your life?
I want to represent value and respectful authority, so the ‘material’ decisions I make will represent that if I can yet afford it.
Why is it that broke men with crappy cars (like I used to have) can be successful with women?
Because it’s natural. Her attraction response is naturally based; it’s not rooted in social pretension. She should be valuing you for who you are instead of your social status.
I’m not promoting to be the ugly, average guy with a crappy car and to be proud of it. Reaching her naturally is the most important thing but when you have the resources, get something that more fully represents who you are.
A woman’s natural character is the path to sex, NOT I repeat NOT her social character and it’s desire for higher social status, gifts or money.
If you base things socially or ‘financially’, a woman will almost have no choice but to use you. She’ll just ‘accept’ your gifts because you were playing the social game.
In poverty and wealth I leave money as a focus out of the relationship. I know that nature is all that matters the most. Any social status or value I have put into it’s proper place. I haven’t ’sold out’, but by using certain things it just makes me more valuable.
It’s kind of like men a man realizes, “ooh..she has a tailfeather” and a woman’s equivalent is, “ooh..he has some money”.
Man made the money, money didn’t make the man. Who you are will be shown by the types of relationships you have.
Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.
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