Who is to Blame for our Relationship Difficulties

Many men grew up just thinking that women weren’t attracted to them.

They didn’t know if it was a problem with the women or themselves but eventually started to think their was something wrong with them. It affected all kinds of things.

Now, millions of men are afraid of women. They’re intimidated and don’t know how to behave.

It’s kind of like the run of the litter social ’syndrome’ except it’s happening with the majority of first world men (except the former outcasts and brutes).

So what’s going on here? Didn’t even normal guys used to be able to get dates and succeed with women? Didn’t our grandfather’s do fine?

Or is there really a ‘problem’ with millions of men all of a sudden.

Isn’t something massive being overlooked here even by dating experts?

It comes down to this whether they admit it or not, female behavior has changed. This has affected and effectively damaged the psyche of millions of great men.

It’s not even that we don’t have (strong) male role models as men, it’s more that female behavior has changed.

Women always held things together with their natural, intuitive and instinctual behavior. When they ‘developed’ or adapted to higher social status, the dynamics changed.

Women throw men off on two main levels; inner and social.

Independent women (Prada’s) scare the crap out of all kinds of well-intentioned men for their personal development and strength.

Social women (Prickteases) scare the crap out of all kinds of men for their evident sexual showcasing and ‘body’.

Now, men don’t know what to do around these women. Even the strongest of men are completely confounded by the behavior of women.

They say one thing and do something else. They’re a living paradox and why?

Because they’re conflicting daily across their character and it’s influences. They have natural intuition and emotion which fights with their socio-logical development.

This is at the root of their sometimes erratic and impossible behavior which will continue to throw men off until they understand their relationship to the root of these behavioral characteristics.

It is possible to have success with these women but it’s not on the social level (unless you’re a good-looking millionaire or movie star) and it’s not on the personal level where she’ll
call you her ‘baby’ and you’ll end up sleeping on the couch if you do anything to upset her.

The path to success with these women (and all women) is through their natural character.

It’s your way to be effective with them whether you want sex or just to have options of new relationships with more women.

If men could see the natural character of women and operate in the natural relational dynamic they could not only remove all of the oppression and causal damage that has been done, but they could live in power and happiness.

It’s important for men to understand their relationship to the behavior of women if they want to live in peace and power. If they don’t, they’ll continue to be completely confounded and ignorant to women.

If they ‘knew’ and were cognitive, they would be able to attract women and live the lifestyle they dreamed of.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Is it Possible for a Man to Love a Woman Today?

Can’t you love and cherish women without somehow over-edifying them? Or be seen as an emo wuss?

Is the option ruled out or are men instantly wusses if they show any kind of emotion or love for their woman?

Well…the dynamics have changed, but can it happen?

Wow on earth is that possible?

By being in the proper relational dynamic with their true natural character, and being very careful of maintaining your authority in the relationship.

Unfortunately, our modern women have so much developed ‘power’ that it makes it difficult to maintain the natural relational authority over her in a relationship if she is in her inner
or social behavioral character (which is like 98% of the time).

This is why guys have such a hard time in dating women; they just don’t see her natural character and so they don’t know HOW to behave around her.

Men can’t figure it out and if they show any kind of emotion, even at the proper time in the right way, they risk her losing attraction for them because of that delicate power balance.

This is truly a bleak outlook. Man is supposed to silently hold the true relational authority in a relationship by at least 51% or she will lose attraction and interest.

Now, many relationships are held together by mutual contract and most of those don’t even last. Sure there are some and guess which ones last the longest?

Usually where the wife is more natural and less ‘developed’; it’s a statistical fact.

The closer to the roots a woman is as far as natural character, the more a man is able to ‘love’ her and show his love.

This is why a pre-teen girl will swoon and be able to experience all kinds of emotion when her guy tells her he loves her. They can both experience bliss and levels of emotion that just aren’t possible anymore for ‘developed’ women.

“oh…but then we ‘grow’ up?’ Are you sure? Why is it that it’s still the only thing you daydream about and wish for?

Why is it that you read romance novels? Who is to say that you ‘had to’ develop so much ‘logic’ that it took away from your own nature?

After all, we’re all influenced by our socio-logical environment.

What’s to say you wouldn’t be more natural and romantic in person if you didn’t live in another culture where it was more supported?

What if you were in a traditional Spanish town? Don’t you think you’d have a different outlook?

Women will rarely look at something objective like that. As a man, I have. I call it causality and cultural differentiation.

The thing is; it doesn’t even matter because it’s up to men to know that women have just adapted to their own socio-cultural environment. They are who they are ‘as is’.

If we want to succeed with women in physicality, sex or romance we have to bring out the (remaining) natural and emotional character of her.

So how do we do this? We have to be cognitive of her different behavioral traits and know our relationship to them.

Differentiating their social and inner character is something so advanced (yet quite simple) that even the best of ladies men can’t even differentiate it because they don’t have clear role models.

The ability to bring out the alpha natural nature of women is more important than benig ‘macho’ and it’s the one rare chance that our developed women will have to experience emotion again without ending up with a jerk.

It’s difficult to deal with women because their natural character is not behaviorally evident anymore; it’s suppressed from the age of (around) 15 onwards.

You’ll still see young college girls with positive energy and then over the next few years they will lose it.

They basically sell out to socio-cultural adaptation with a mix of personal development and social adaptation or higher status.

They follow their social and inner alpha role models instead of natural role models of which we don’t have anymore. You don’t have to hate them for it, just understand that they are adapting
to their reality.

Seduction is being able to bring out her repressed natural state and you just have to know it’s there. It’s there and when you bring it out, she can experience some romance but even then you
have to be careful not to overdo it at all.

The more of a natural state she is in, the more love she can experience, otherwise logic and career will get in the way.

Romance is most possible with either young or natural women. You will be able to both get more emotionally involved with each other without other socio-logical behavior and dynamics interfering and spoiling it.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Why Entrepreneurs Need Small Business Credit Cards

Small business credit cards are a special type of credit cards that are meant for use by small business (as opposed to the normal credit cards or personal credit cards which are meant for the use of an individual). Some people wonder why they should go for a small business credit card when they already have one or more personal credit cards.

This is a very valid question indeed. By logic, if something like small business credit cards exists in market as a separate entity altogether, there must be a special need for it. It must have some features which are useful to small businesses in particular. Though there are a lot of similarities between personal and small business credit cards (of course there would be similarities since both of them are credit cards after all), there are a few differences too. These differences are mainly in terms of the flexible credit limit, lower APR offers and attractive terms and conditions which are better for small business credit cards.

Besides all the benefits which are quoted for credit cards and the additional attractive offers, there is another important reason for going for a small business credit card. The reason is business expense accounting. A lot of small businesses face this is as a major challenge. One needs to keep track of each and every business expense and log the information somewhere for the purpose of business expense accounting. Business expense accounting is needed not only for tax purpose but also for financial strategy evaluation and budget tracking. Generally speaking, two main problems quoted for small business expense accounting are business expense segregation and expense classification.

By using your small business credit card for all your small business outgo, you can very easily separate your business expenses from your personal expenses. This will thus solve your business expense separation problem. What you receive on your small business credit card bill is your business expense directly. Moreover, this report is something which your tax consultant will love too.

The second problem is also solved automatically. Most small business credit cards also group together the business expenses under proper heads. Some credit cards even provide credit card statement as data feeds which can be directly fed into accounting software. Just imagine how much hassle you are saved from with this business accounting feature. Wonderful, isn’t it?

The other great thing about small business credit cards is the help they offer in terms of managing the expense peaks. Though such variations are part of almost every business, they are even more critical for small businesses. So when that need for immediate purchase arises, you wouldn’t need to worry if you had the backing of a small business credit card. Also, generally small business have to pay first and receive later i.e. make payments for purchases before receiving payments for services/goods, so small business credit card also acts as an intermediary who fills in the time gap at little or no additional cost.

The credit card membership benefits are at its best when it comes to small business credit cards. There are discounted ticket offers, car rental offers, gift offers and many other good offers for small business credit card holders. Just check all such benefits that might be available on your small business credit card and ensure that you use them whenever and wherever required.

The small business credit cards are ranked higher by the credit card suppliers too. So everything associated with a small business credit card, including the customer service, is better than the personal credit cards.

Thus, small business credit cards aren’t something that a small business owner can afford to miss especially with what all it offers.

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Getting Rid of Self-Limiting Beliefs & Inner Game

What about getting rid of all your of your self-limiting beliefs?

A lot of dating experts will focus on this and it makes sense you would think. They also may say that ‘inner game’ is everything.

Get rid of your self-limiting beliefs ‘about women’ and you’ll be fine. You’ll then be free to be effective with them.

The problem with this entire approach is that it’s limited in the first place.

A man’s ‘inner game’ is extremely limited in comparison to the oppressive and ignorant relationship he currently has with power and women.

Indeed, he’s already being repressed without his knowing it.

That’s why he has to work on his inner game in the first place and other people are laughing their way to the bank because of the behavioral byproducts.

What am I talking about?

Relational and social dynamics. If he could instead, focus on fixing his relationships with other sources of power (which are the reasons he is repressed anyways), then he would free
himself from those binds.

Then, he could actually BE himself instead of trying to align himself to a power game in which he is a pawn at the bottom of a social hierarchy.

A lot of men take the blame of the world and society on their shoulders while still being ignorant to the truth of it. This causes further compound psychological damage;

“Just approach more. Dude what’s WRONG with you? You’re a big wuss. Etc.”

The social matrix is a game of power and influence in which men have been purposely conditioned to not only change their behavior around women but to not realize how it ever happened in the first place.

Not only are they low on the social hierarchy compared to the women they desire, they take all of this blame internally and think it’s something wrong with their personality or self-esteem.

They have no idea that they are part of an unnatural and completely contrived system that I call the ’social matrix’ or ‘forced reality’.

Being ’social’ and social influence is not open interdependence anymore like it used to be; it’s a game of power, influence and conditional stimulus-response relationships to manipulate
behavior and generate more profit.

Instead of being in a limited relationship with society and women where he is a behaviorally conditioned co-dependent response, if he could have cognition of the truth and then
re-frame his relational reality, he would be independent and powerful for the first time ever.

He would then be equal to the power of women instead of trying to work on his ‘inner game’ while it wasn’t him that was the root of the problem in the first place; it’s his ineffective relationships with society and women.

So instead of trying to improve his personal interests, skillsets or get rid of self-limiting beliefs, he would make a TON of progress (even instantaneously) if he re-framed his relationships to the powers that are oppressing him in the first place.

Inner game is not enough. He has to understand and be cognitive of power and where he stands.

It’s all in relational dynamics. Once he can see, reframe and accept his independence, he will not only be independent for the first time, but he will get rid of a lifetime of repression as the burden will lift away.

This equals immediate physiological change and in my work I use the Matrix as the analogy for relational dynamics.

Neo gets his power when he can see (be cognitive) of the ‘bullets of influence’. When he knows his relationship to him, he has the power to stop the negative oppressive influence and the bullets (of influence) drop to the ground.

All men have the same metaphorical power, they just have to see what’s been repressing them. Then you’ll be ten times more powerful.

Focus on cognition of your relationships to other sources of power for they are the oppressors. Then you’ll be free to make massive strides in your ‘inner game’.

The opposite of cognition is ignorance. If you want power and success with other people of power (including beautiful women), then you’d best be their equal or greater in relational power.

It’s time for Alpha Relational Dynamics.

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Being ‘Lucky’ With Women and Dating

Any dating teacher who comes at the approach to women of being ‘lucky’, I would question what they are doing and teaching.

There really is a lot of bad advice out there and I just have to say it. Some of the advice out there will actually make things worse, damage your psyche, repel women even more and
get you further away from success with women.

Mainstream advice (including men’s magazines) is pretty far off too. Take her on an expensive dinner date and maybe you’ll ‘get lucky’ at the end of it.

All of it is so antiquated. Women don’t want massive levels of pressure and social expectation forced upon them. When you go on a date and pay for her time with money or gifts, they
feel like they ‘owe’ you something.

That’s most likely not going to get you anywhere. It’s a waste of time and money if she’s not interested in you.

The men’s magazines are notorious for setting men up for failure.

Not only are they leaders of sexploiting women as a behavioral conditioning stimulus for men to habitually fear, but they give men terrible advice.

Things like, do this and you ‘might’ get lucky with her. We’d lose one testicle just to have a date with her, etc.

And the men take what’s in front of them as truth especially when the women with these same attributes behave this way; it only further reinforces her as ‘the prize’.

You take this relational approach of being the response to a woman’s (body or ’sexuality’) and you will consistently fail.

It’s not in the pick-up lines; those only exacerbate the problem and make it even clearer to her because women already know where you’re coming from.

From your relational approach they can tell if they’re interested, maybe interested or definitely not interested. In the maybe interested, they just want to find out more if you can hold your own against her ‘power’.

It’s a relational power game upfront with dating. If you’re a mainstream guy, you’ve been conditioned to fail with women whether you know it or not.

If the pussy is on a pedestal and you’re the ‘response’, your body language will be broadcasting all the wrong things. That’s why it’s so ‘difficult’.

Any putting the woman as the prize to be caught is ineffective.

It’s unnatural. Why? Because the way of attraction is that the woman is the response to the stimulus of man.

She can’t feel natural attraction or physiological response if he’s doing the backwards thing society tells him to do.

She can’t trust him or open up to him if she knows he’s too eager to ‘get some’ of her as the prize. There’s no value in it for her unless she’s really horny and desperate at the time.

Who has the relational authority and power when it’s the man who could ‘get lucky’?

The woman does. And that’s what’s wrong. It doesn’t work that way.

Oh sure, if she wants to use him for more meals or to lock him in for a long-term relationship for his social and personal attributes, the guy could be ‘lucky’…but she still owns him.

So anything that says ‘do this’ to ‘get lucky’ with women is just coming from the behavioral reality of women being the prize and you’re just like another hot dog trying to ‘get some’.

The answer is in relational dynamics. Re-condition yourself (not from inner game because it’s not enough) to never give your power away and put sexy women in the proper relational
dynamic.

You have to be the stimulus so they can physiologically trust you in order for them to open up. This is near impossible for most men and it’s getting worse.

The way of the natural and those few which are ‘above the game’ is a different relational reality completely. It’s one where there isn’t any luck, rather predictable and consistent results.

Sure there will be variables on the levels of response but there is no fear, no drama, no ‘luck’.

If you believe like most men that you’d be ‘lucky’ just to get in bed with a woman and you actually care about this area of your life, seriously seek the answers. You will find a lot in my resources that will get you on the right track.

It’s not enough that you re-affirm to yourself that ‘I’m the prize’ because that’s not got enough leverage up against the exploited beauty of these women to make a real change for you.

Re-affirming or ‘believing’ that you deserve beautiful women in most cases isn’t enough because of your emotional attribution and behavior conditioning which habitually says you don’t deserve them.

My success with women is consistent and even predictable.

Learn the way. Luck is for the ignorant. Power, attraction and sex is for the cognizant men who are applying relational dynamics.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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How to Find the Most Profitable Keywords for Your Internet Marketing Business

It is a known fact that the keywords you choose to optimize your site with are critical to success. You could have a great site, killer ad copy and the perfect offer, but if your keywords are not targeting the correct market, you will make little sales, if any.

Therefore, you need to know how to find the most effective keywords and then properly utilize them in optimizing your site. If you choose keywords that are extremely competitive, you will have a hard time getting noticed and you will most likely spend a lot more money on advertising than what’s necessary. If you opt for keywords that are less popular, you might not get enough traffic.

You have to learn how to strike a balance that provides enough traffic while not being overly competitive. This will allow you to quickly dominate the search engines on terms that your competitors have not caught onto yet. This is the key to building a successful internet marketing business. By finding hidden keywords that attract a targeted audience, you will quickly be able to expand the reach of your business.

So, how exactly do you go about determining the best keywords to use on your site? It’s simple actually. Open up your keyword research software. I prefer to use Keyword Elite or Wordtracker. Start by typing in a generic phrase that summarizes your product. For example, if you sell an ebook on car tuning you could type in “car tuning ebook”. Submit this phrase and you will be provided with a long list of keyword phrases that are relevant to the initial seed phrase.

Now, scroll through these phrases and determine which are most suited to your market place. You now click on each of the phrases you found relevant to your product. This will bring you to a list of variations on the phrase you clicked. This deeper level of keywords is where the real gems will be found.

What you are looking for are keywords that have a lot of searches with little competition. Both Keyword Elite and Wordtracker give you these figures in a simple format. You will be able to see the stats of hundreds of keyword variations at a glance. You now go through and hand pick the keywords with the best stats.

This kind of deep keyword research is a goldmine that few businesses actually utilize. I have consistently been able to find keyword phrases that were completely overlooked by all of my competitors using this strategy– keywords that convert visitors to sales efficiently and are easy to dominate in less than a week. You can’t ask for anything better than that.

All you need to make this work is a keyword research tool such as Keyword Elite or Wordtracker. You will literally be lost without one. I hope you quickly begin to utilize this effective strategy before your competitors do. There is no faster way to rise to the top of your market.

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What Kind of Man You Should be Around Women

To start out, it’s most important to be cognitive of the truth of women and their true sexuality. This (now that it’s finally clear and available) will accelerate your success just about more than anything.

She’s not a sex object, she’s a woman with feelings and vulnerabilities.

Other than being grounded in the ’secret to women’, how should you ‘behave’ around women?

You should just be yourself, really. BE yourself at whatever level of development you’re at. There is leverage is just truly being comfortable in your own skin and your personal attributes
still matter the least upfront.

Don’t become someone else, and don’t try to impress her to ‘get some’ in return. Don’t act, don’t fake. Women know.

Just communicate normally. This is nearly impossible for most First World men around sexy women. I’ve been around social alpha’s and they’re interested in me almost the more NORMAL (and purposely bland) that I am because they rarely if ever see this in a man.

Be yourself.

That is who you’re supposed to be. Then women can trust you and you can both take it from there. If you have lower character attributes or low value, that’s a separate issue and will take more work.

Notice how most male behavior changes when a sexy, empowered or beautiful woman walks into a room.

There’s an actual shift in energy. She’s getting it and for all men who have put her above him in power, she won’t be interested in him sexually. That knocks out most of the population right there.

In order for a man to be effective in opening the path with any woman consistently and predictably, he has to be relationally independent.

He has to keep his power TRULY for himself. Then they can operate as equals and she can slip into the natural behavioral response mode to him as the stimulus.

He can’t ‘respond’ to the (conditioned behavioral) stimulus of her (attributional) beauty like other men do. No matter how they approach, think it through logically, or communicate with her, she already knows where he’s coming from.

Don’t be expecting too much right up front with a woman. Just communicate with them and give them the freedom and room to start thinking about you (and why you’re not like all of the
other guys).

Being relationally independent no matter how powerful or beautiful she is, is an instant aphrodisiac. There’s a lot of leveraged energy being wielded because it’s now an initial
power game.

And when you are as equal to her (or greater) in relational power, that’s when things can start accelerating.

You can’t fake it either. When you fully represent that you are independent in relation to her power, all doors start to open everywhere you go. Women will be eyeballing you because ‘they
know’…they’re ‘aware’.

Their intuition used to work against you but it can now work to your advantage. And when you continue to communicate that you are who you are and are not afraid of her one iota, her
interest will really start rising in you.

I’ve had women invite me back to their place within 2 minutes of talking to them (which is a test by the way because it’s still too early in most cases).

If you really want to feel like what it’s like to BE a real man, then BE relationally independent to these powerful and beautiful women.

They’re your equal and opposite and now you’re on the same level of power as them (not socially but relationally which is what matters for sex).

This will make you feel empowered as a man. Gorgeous women will start flipping their hair around you and giving you signs.

And since you’re equal at all times to their power, there are a lot of sparks to fly and fast. You’ll know the rest of what to do in each circumstance because not only will she help you
out and make it easy, but you’ll be in touch with your natural alpha character which knows what to do.

Everything is easier when the woman is interested, so just give her the time and room to be interested and if you don’t have much time, then you’d best be relationally independent at all
times for maximum effect.

So how does a man reclaim his power and experience a top-class dating lifestyle with the power to seduce and respect beautiful women?

By studying Alpha Relational Dynamics. It’s the behavioral conditioning and awareness that leads to the most effective results of ‘being’ a natural with women.

Then you’ll be able to truly BE yourself around women as you’ll be leveraging all kinds of power you’ve yet to discover. After all, women are leveraging power themselves and they’re looking for a man who gets it and doesn’t have to speak a word.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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What’s Really Happening When a Woman Gets a Makeover?

What happens in a makeover?

She’s adapting her appearance followed by her behavior to the pretense and desires of her social surroundings and influences.

She’s actually leveraging social power. She’s becoming a stimulus for guys to respond to as they’ve been conditioned.

Really, she’s adapting herself to the social alpha role models. Industries are secretly proud of what’s going on. They are making billions of dollars off of the behavioral adaptation of women to social alpha women such as porn stars, actresses and pop star divas.

Makeup, clothing, fashion, cel phones, tanning, haircare, accessories, lingerie, and cosmetic surgery are all profitable byproducts of this mass social acceptance today.

But that’s how they wanted it.

Now, it’s so clear to me it makes me sick. T.V. shows and magazines that will take a girl and ‘convert her’ into a prickteasing pop tart clone like millions of others.

Joss Stone just got a ‘makeover’. All of it is conscious and pre-thought out. Women think they are the ones with power but they are just ambassadors. They’re leveraging the power of the industries without even knowing it.

They’re perfect pawns in this social reality. They’re above men even in the social order by taking on these attributes.

I remember when Jewel sold out. The power of social influence is so strong that most people within the culture aren’t even aware of it. Why? Because it’s all they see and it’s all they know.

They have nothing to compare it with PLUS they’re being bombarded with more and more programming which further reinforces their idea of reality; movies, magazines,
celebrity updates, television, diva’s and other role models behavior and the behavior of their adaptive female peers.

There is more and more pressure for teenage girls to ‘fit in’ to this enormous and yet indiscreet profit machine. Makeover’s are the most evident way of clearly showing the behavioral adaptation.

What is sad about this is not only the level it’s reached but how they downplay her other attributes. It’s gotten way out of control.

They don’t value a woman for who she really is on the inside; it’s all about the social adaptation to what’s ‘hot’ and if you don’t ‘adapt’ you’ll be looked down upon.

Who is to say that THIS is how she should look, what she should wear and how she should dress?

The social alpha’s (prickteases) and their clones have so much influence now that millions of women are adapting themselves anyways.

The behavior and standard becomes them. Social Alpha’s I also call ‘prickteases’ because of their behavior. They know how to manipulate men and how to get them to ‘respond’ because indeed they are the ’stimulus’.

Really, it’s not even the woman but the fact that she can leverage the same attributes (rooted in objectification) as men’s magazine cover models. The same resources are available to her whereas men just can’t wear make-up and are more limited.

There is so much pressure that all of these women have to uphold. It gives them a lot of benefits but also a lot of disadvantages. It distances them further from success with men.

It drives them far away from their natural character, yet the only men who succeed with them know that there is a natural character still there and can reach it; her escape from all of the pressure.

The jerks seem like the only ones who aren’t afraid of them.

By selling out like this, an average girl can gain insta-popularity with the boys, meaning they’ll attribute her to the same thing as a men’s magazine cover model.

And guys are conditioned to behaviorally ‘respond’ to this stimulus so they end up not being able to control their behavior when they’re really just objectifying her and can’t see her for who she really is.

Everything has become a big popularity game with no focus on a woman for who she really is or her talents. Is making them over really aligning them more to who they really are as a person and representing their best attributes?

Or is it instead making them into a socially popular clone to get the approval of other pretentious women and insta-drool men? In the desire to ‘fit in’, women will do all kinds
of things in their cultural environmental which supports and promotes the behavior (for it’s own benefit).

Men don’t sell out as easily but they sure are confused.

The behavior of women is driving them insane. They don’t realize that a woman’s boob job, bleached hair and perma-tan are her social character and not her true sexuality.

If they were grounded in that fact, they could open the doors to relations with these women who they over-glorify and put on a pedestal for her social character.

‘Mean Girls’ is a good example of this ‘makeover’ and socio-cultural adaptation.

In the reality of it all, it’s up to men to know where they stand and see through the massive levels of commercial interest, pretension and socio-cultural adaptation…and I mean when they’re looking directly at the sexy attributes of one of these women in front of them.

They have to know their relationship to it all instantly and be grounded in the truth if they want any ‘chance’ with these women.

Alpha Relational Dynamics will ground men in their relationship to social influence and get them equal in relational power to the massive social powers the women they want are wielding. Only then will the doors consistently open.

He is her escape from the pressures of upholding the social status quo. He is the one who can reach the true woman inside of her that is free from all influence of adaptation.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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If You Want to Keep a Woman

So once you have a woman, how do you keep her?

I guess I would be an expert at this. I could keep them if I wanted to.

Some would look at it and say that you’re with too many women and can’t hold a relationship. I’m not trying to hold a relationship. Eventually yes, but not now. I don’t want keep just one right now.

The important point is that a man maintains the relational authority in a relationship.

And so, consistently over 95% of all my women in the past wanted more of a relationship with me. I don’t get dumped, I do the dumping. I let them go and even then they usually boomerang
back to me (even years afterwards).

Even for one night stands, they couldn’t get enough, they were evermore attracted, I had to kick them out in the morning, they wanted marriage etc.

This is a good problem and gives me lots of options and choices. This is the way it’s supposed to be.

All that matters (in a short-term relationship) is a woman’s level of interest and attraction around you as the man.

It’s me who always breaks the relationship off or let’s them know what kind of lifestyle I live (free and fun) with no socio-cultural expectations.

So if YOU want to be a man that she WANTS to keep, then be a man of high value or high character. Be a great, interesting, experienced guy in many different facets of life. Have a lot of things going on.

Be the guy women SAY they want. They often don’t realize it at first, but when you ARE that guy they will probably want to hold onto you.

It’s not really a secret to be a man who has value to offer to a long-term relationship. Focus on improving yourself for your sake first and foremost (or to help others). This will just be
a part of what you have to offer a woman.

The ‘inner’ traits, skills and hobbies become important in a longer term relationship and are least important in a short-term physical relationship.

They want to keep me because they see I have all these fascinating attributes including a great sense of humor.

So if you’re in a relationship with a woman that you want to keep longer, make sure you maintain relational authority over her and the relationship or it will go down the tubes.

With independent women, the power balance has become a VERY fine line that actually crosses back and forth to both sides. Know that it’s going to be a great compromise and challenge to make it work not because of you (men are the ones who end up just being themselves or a little repressed in a relationship), but because of who she became.

Otherwise, if you’re dating and just want to stretch it out further. Have fun and throw in some romance.

What I like to do that really is probably the secret (aside from high character/value) that gets to women so that they want more (including more sex) is that I show small yet obvious dashes of emotion and passion.

I know how to make it an emotional experience for her as well.

In this and my knowledge/experience I almost have too much power so I don’t do it very often and I always keep things respectful and win/win.

Women have done crazy things for me in the past (like join the Navy just to be closer to me) and so I stay away from using my power like that much anymore.

As a man you have the ability to reach another part of her once you’re in a relationship. You can do things that will make her want you more and feel ‘in love’ and it’s all done in a way where you’re not being an emo wussbag at all yet actually melting her the way it’s supposed to be done.

You do it when you already have relational authority and you do it with relational authority.

For example, out of the blue going up to her and passionately kissing her for half a minute and then walking away.

Or showing her that you have an emotional side as well. Can men cry? Should we? At the right place and time, absolutely.

Make sure it’s always authentic but it’s ok to let a tear slip if you’re watching a romantic movie or music video with her..or if you’re just happy or staring into her eyes.

Hey, it takes a lot of masculinity and authority to admit something like this but when you still maintain the relational authority over her in the relationship (and she’s in the natural
state of mind or a natural alpha woman), her heart will melt.

Sometimes I might say, don’t tell anyone…it might ruin my reputation or something similar.

To them, it just balances all kinds of things out..you’re the total package. Masculine yet with an awareness that most other men don’t have. You’re sensitive in the right way that
makes them want you even more.

Those moments do not last long if I even have them with women.

It’s important to be more normal afterwards.

So..throwing in dashes of authentic romance will spice things up for her emotion and attraction to you. That is a very strong way of having a woman WANT to keep YOU; being the lover and the protector.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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Is It Safe For Men To Tell Women How They Really Feel?

This topic can be looked at from different angles.

In most cases it will only hurt the man and the relationship.

In general, the dynamics of a lasting relationship includes the man having the (invisible) relational authority and the woman, without challenging that, remaining as more of the
submisser.

That is the natural relational dynamic which lasts. Natural women know their place and don’t challenge the man’s natural authority in the relationship.

Today’s independent women immediately want to challenge that timeless fact and it brings up all kinds of byproducts such as a 50% divorce rate.

A natural woman though, doesn’t want to become the man or lead the relationship, nor have him do her natural roles which she does best.

The man should also respect and love the woman for the role she is doing while supporting his role (as provider/protector).

With that said, our dynamics have changed. That’s why millions of men are confused.

Men can be themselves in a relationship and their wife will often take over the relationship because of her own development and he doesn’t know how to behave around it because it’s
unnatural (which she doesn’t realize).

Those are just some of the dynamics we have today extrapolated into a longer term relationship. So…when dealing with the empowered women upfront it just isn’t really safe to tell her
how a man feels anyways.

Relationships are a balance of power. Like I already covered; lasting relationships have one unspoken leader (usually the man) and the other (the wife who doesn’t challenge his natural
authority).

I’ve seen many relationships where the woman takes on the role of wearing the pants in the family. Those relationships can last but it’s unnatural for a man to be repressed that much
and he just puts up with her control.

So if relationships are a delicate power balance, which both parties knew instinctively (and women have developed past their instinctiveness), they are now more of a power balance than
ever.

Since First World women now have ‘power’, relationships of any form become a power struggle or balance of power. There will be turmoil if there isn’t one official ‘lead’ of the relationship.

Unfortunately, when a man tells a woman ‘how he feels’ even in a short-term ‘dating’ relationship, this basically means that he has given up her power to her and she now has the true yet often hidden ‘relational authority’ of the relationship.

She now ‘owns him’ and only because of who she is.

Natural women don’t have this problem. They instinctively know their natural role and stay in proper relational dynamic with men which lasts. Their love will only grow stronger
provided he doesn’t ‘overdo it’ and really give the power to her.

With an empowered woman who already has power, if a man says something like this, he looks weak and she has the authority and takes over.

All of this prevents men from telling how they feel unless they’re an ‘EMO’ wussbag who is sprouting out all of his pent up emotions for an ‘independent and wonderful’ woman.

Unfortunately in the true relational ‘power’ dynamic, he has given his power up to the woman.

I have to re-emphasize again that natural women do not have this problem. So while many dating guru’s are immediately blaming the men as wussies for showing ANY kind of emotion, they’re missing the dynamics which currently exist.

Our female behavior prevents most men from showing any kind of emotion without losing his relational authority. She’ll start losing interest immediately just alone for the fact
that she is so developed and the relational power balance is extremely delicate (and many men HAVE become ‘fragile’).

Many men are fragile because of our media propagation of gay role models instead of masculine alpha models. This will only grow further in the direction it’s going with more and more female ‘empowerment’.

Sure, women may want ‘men to be men’ but the reality is, though it started out as an equality movement, women have grown unnaturally equal..they’ve grown ’stronger’ and more powerful.

None of this helps real or lasting relationships.

Men don’t even have the freedom to tell a woman how he feels.

Heck, even strong men like me who retain authority over a relationship have VERY little squeeze room to express ourselves without her losing immediate interest.

Girls, this is all to your detriment for better and worse.

I predict that you won’t change. You can’t because you don’t have a supportive ’stimulus’ of an environment which has it’s priorities on natural attributes and happiness instead of
socially-driven ‘career’ advancement.

Once you develop, it’s hard to behaviorally go back to your roots. The advantage men have is that they can be more balanced and can ‘develop’ because of their natural (yes I said it) role of head of the house and leader.

So men don’t want to be ‘wussy’…they have emotions and I admit that it’s gotten out of control but there’s a deeper context here.

Other guru’s don’t realize the full fragile balance of power in a relationship. Unfortunately for men to be successful with you as a woman who is reading, they will have to repress
their emotions in order to avoid swinging the delicate balance of power over into your favor.

And if they do show any sign, you’ll lose interest in reality and it’s over. Quite tragic in a way.

One answer for millions of men is to find natural women; women with whom they actually CAN show emotion who will reciprocate the emotion and not lose attraction to him but actually grow
stronger in healthy attraction to him.

I’ve experienced this countless times and that’s the natural way of things; it’s the way it’s meant to be and the natural alpha women are experiencing in reality what the prada’s and
prickteases only fantasize about because they are in touch with their natural character in their behavioral reality.

That is the natural way of things and it’s what millions of developed women are missing. They can’t experience true romance because of their own ‘power’.

So men…if you DO want to show your emotion to a woman..keep in mind that if you show it to a Prada or Pricktease, you’re almost guaranteed to lose your power and she’ll have the unnatural
favor in the relationship and then will lose interest in you.

If you want to experience and transmute all of this cognitive ‘emotion’, meet a real natural alpha (outside the U.S.) and she’ll actually appreciate and love you for it instead of losing interest.

They won’t always ‘leave you’ for it. Otherwise still I would say for men to tame down their ‘emotional response’ to our women because as a man you’re ALWAYS the stimulus for a woman
to respond to anyways.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating. Join the newsletter and get instant access to actually see the ’secret of women’ for yourself @ http://www.secretofwomen.com