It amazes me how some men will seek out advice on a situation with a woman and already have a list of things that they know or the right ways to handle the situation but the will not do.

Most of the time they do not come out and say it as such rather they will say they already know that they must do this or that with women but that isn’t an option for them.

In these types of cases, the problem almost always (I am sure there are others, but have yet to find one) is that the man has attached so much value on the woman that in his mind, not being with her is not an option.

Just so you know, if she is the only one for you then there is nothing anyone can say or do to help you get her and if it is indeed the truth (it is not) you wouldn’t need any help, because no matter what she would be with you.

In truth what we have is a reversal of fortunes, you are the product and she is the buyer.

What makes this even more of a challenge is the man usually knows both the right way and the wrong way to handle this situation.

Since he is refusing to go about it the right way, it is only a matter of time before he chooses the wrong way to handle the situation.

Not because that is what he wants to do, instead it is because sooner or later he is going to find someone who will tell him that the wrong advice is the good advice.

Who knows it might even work, even though we both know it will not get you what you want.

In the end, no matter what you decide, when it comes to women you can choose to be in control of the situation and the outcome or allow her to take control of the situation and the outcome.

Either way there is no guarantee that she will be with you and only one way to make sure you get what you want.

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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