Sexual control is about the man being in control.

He can and should be in control of himself, but also, he can be in control of the sexual act itself.

This is what part 1 of Sexual Control – A Man’s Guide is about.

Like anything we do in life, careful planning can insure a successful outcome.

Sexual activity can be spontaneous, to rigidly planned, but whatever case it is presented, if the man is prepared (by careful planning and preparation), he can insure a successful outcome. Here then follows some good advice for any sexually active man.

Tip #1 Variety is the Spice of Life (and sex)

If your sexual life is routine, the real allure of it wears off quicker than most people would imagine.
Find new positions, and practice them in your mind, or see drawings or instructive videos describing those positions. Have a repertoire of at least 12 sexual positions and known when to use each one and for what reason.

We are not really speaking about Kama Sutra stuff here, just 3 variations on the 4 basic positions; that is woman on her back (missionary), woman on top, sitting poses and standing poses. 3 variations of each of these brings you the 12 your need in your sexual repertory.

Once learned, use them, and often.

Tip #2 Be Original

Being original in sexual relations has only positive benefits.

If you copy someone, or some film, or magazine, you can run into great problems, as firms use tricks to make their scene, just as photographers today use Photoshop to enhance the model’s image.

You must be original and not copy, or compare yourself to some stud guys made even more enhanced that they already are. Be yourself. Do not copy, and be as original as you can.

Tip #3 Your Normal Penis is Fine

It seems that with the advent of the porno film, showing guys with large penises have come into fashion. Nothing is further from the truth.

If you look at any ancient statue of a male (including the God Zeus), you will see a rather normal penis. Michelangelo’s David has even a small penis.

Why?

In all classical time, large penises were representation of the beastly features. Only beasts have large penises and anyway, a woman’s g-spot is about 6 cm from the vaginal opening.

Almost every man’s penis is larger than that. Learn how to work your penis, where to put it, and how to thrust…and you will be very much in control.

Tip #4 – You are a Man, So Be One

Nothing wrong with you being masculine; just don’t hurt the lady during the sexual act. You can be forceful but not brutal.

Do you squeeze so hard, or pinch so hard as to cause pain. If your hands are anywhere near a lady’s genitals, be very careful how you touch. You can be strong but not to cause pain.

As men are usually larger than women, the man has a lot of weight to support. Putting some of it on the lady is always a good idea if she appreciates it.

Do no squash her, but rest some of your weight (depending on the sexual position used) on her. The rest of you can be supported with your hands and arms and legs.

Holding a lady tight during the sexual act can be a great turn-on for her.

Learn how to do it. It’s like learning how to shake a lady’s hand (if she gives it).

You do not crush it, and nor should you crush the lady when you are on top of her.

Be masculine but be careful too.

Tip#5 – Always be Active

Some guys think that being passive is a good thing in sex.

They would not think so if they were a girl or lady.

The woman needs to feel the man’s force. It is the greatest of aphrodisiacs for the woman, and if she misses feeling it, she perhaps will not (ever) orgasm during the sexual act.

If the lady is on top, thrust with her, and repel as she thrusts. The effect is wonderful and the lady will really appreciate the man who can do it.

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