The public are very fickle. One moment a famous celebrity is riding high, next minute, the celebrity has fallen out of favour. Nowhere is this more heartbreaking and unfair, than in the story of Jesus Christ. The greatest celebrity of his day.

But, just as happens with modern day celebrities, people misunderstood Jesus’s motives. They thought he had come to get rid of the Romans! We can understand how they could think that, because it was the one thing they wanted. Anyone who is living through, or has lived through, an occupation, will know how the Jews felt at the time. If Jesus had been around in the 1940s, they would have hoped, and no one could blame them for hoping, that Jesus would get rid of Hitler and the German Army!

But Jesus’s answer would have been the same in the 1940s. He wanted us to love our enemies (Luke 6:28) and forgive them! So, as far as the Jews were concerned, he had let them down, and the people who had cheered him on Palm Sunday, were crying out for his crucifixion by the time Friday came (Luke 23: 18-21)

What they could not know, was that, in the end, Jesus DID defeat the Romans. Rome is now the Christian capital of the world. It is where the Pope lives and every Easter people flock to Rome to hear the Pope’s message. So God always sorts things out, but he does it in his own time, not ours. That is what we have to remember, whenever we are disappointed by events in our lives that we want God to change. He, who did not spare his own son, is not going to give us special treatment, but he is aware of our problems and will solve them his own way. One thing we know is, whatever God does, is for our own good.

God does not create problems for us. Often, we make problems for ourselves, or problems occur because other humans interfere because we all have free will and sometimes make wrong decisions. Therefore, it is no use blaming The Son Of God for what happens to us. We need, instead, to praise him for giving his life, so that in the end, we will be able to go home.

This life is only temporary. We have a much longer life in front of us, in heaven. Thanks be to God!

I have a website. It is http://www.myspace.com/marilynswriting

If you are looking to do business online, then you need proven
internet marketing methods to maximize your results.

Most internet marketing methods are sorely outdated and just
plain do not work any longer.

What follows are a few good internet marketing methods that will
give you a good shot at success.

#1 - Follow up.

Of all the good internet marketing methods, this is the one that
is never used to it’s full potential.

You will never be able to make any type of profits if you keep
looking for the one time quick sale.

You need to have a way to follow up with visitors to your
website.

The best way to do this is to collect the name and email address
of as many visitors as possible.

You need an autoresponder to make this work and you can find
hundreds of these by doing a search online.

You need to follow up consistently with your prospects in order
to make the bigger profits.

#2 - Provide useful content.

As with the any internet marketing methods, you need to make
sure what you offer is valid to your prospects.

If all you do is try to sell them the latest, greatest product
they will eventually become uninterested and leave you.

You must give them useful content in the form of articles that
will help them and build trust.

Once your prospects feel like they know you, they are more
likely to buy from you.

#3 - Be original.

One of the least used internet marketing methods is to stand
out from the crowd.

If all you do is copy cat others, then why would your prospects
trust you and buy from you.

Be yourself. Put your personality into your content and treat
your prospects like you would a friend.

If you are mad about something you read, tell your prospects
about it.

People love a story and they really love personal stories.

Try to put a little bit of yourself into your content.

Try using these internet marketing methods to help you make
more money online.

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Opening night for the Toledo Mud Hens is like a grownup’s Halloween. Like children, you put on your chosen outfit and eagerly await the evening. As the stadium fills and the sun goes down, you rush from face to face, getting as many handshakes, business cards and appointments as you can before your time is up.

Throughout the evening, your brain is overloaded with so much information that you can’t keep it all straight. By the time you get home, you realize you can only remember three names, and you’re as disappointed as a trick-or-treater with nothing but a big hole at the bottom of his empty candy bag.

All the names, faces and wonderful conversations you thought you’d remember have been lost, and with them some great opportunities. After all, what good is a “one night only” blockbuster networking event if you can’t remember the wonderful people you met?

The good news is that you really do have a better memory than you think; you just haven’t figured out how to use it yet. When you learn how to effectively store information in your memory, you can make the most of the networking events and the relationships you form.

Why is it that you can remember the details of that amazing home run in the third inning - which bases were loaded, who was up to bat, where you were watching it happen - better than you can remember the name of the person who was standing beside you when it happened?

The reason is that your mind thinks in pictures, not in words. This is why it is so easy to forget a person’s name only seconds after you are introduced to them. Names are hard to remember because they are words, not images. Remembering information is as easy as finding a visual way to recall it.

So, let’s say that at this year’s Mud Hens’ game, you meet a nice guy named Sam, who happens to be wearing a horrible toupee. What are you most likely to remember, his name or the look of the pathetic rug on his head? Use what is so visually obvious to you to help remember him. As you shake his hand, think (don’t say), “horrible toupee guy, Sam.” Associating his name with his unique visual trait will help you never forget Sam’s name for as long as you live.

Of course, it is easy to remember people like this when the opportunity is obvious. The secret lies in making the conscious decision to do this every time you meet somebody. While you shouldn’t necessarily focus on negative things, focusing on something ridiculous and very memorable is what makes the image and information stay in your mind.

Storing information visually is like creating a mental file folder, where you can keep all the information about one person under a specific image. After meeting Sam, you now how a file in your mind labeled “Horrible Toupee Guy.” In this file, you can store all the information about him: his name, how many children he has, his favorite sports team, when he is looking to switch vendors. Store as much helpful information about him as you want. You will be able to retrieve this information much longer and faster because you have a vivid picture to help you find it.

At their next networking event, your competition will be asking Sam, “Haven’t I met you before?” while you will speak comfortably and confidently about things that matter to him - his children, his hobbies, his business.

Your ability to remember the fresh faces you meet is what helps you turn acquaintances into friends, and friends into customers. So at this year’s opening game, keep your eyes open for opportunities. Take in all the sights and make this networking event a home run.

Tom Richard has been called one of the youngest visionaries and avatars alive today. He has dedicated his life to spreading the joy that comes from discovering your true self and enjoying the rewards of operating at your full potential. With the Bolt from the Blue team, Tom represents the powerful generation of personal development and self-discovery. Visit us at http://www.BoltfromBlue.com to bear witness to a new experience.

Every single driver in the U.S. is required to have Car Insurance. And most of us drive around confident that we have adequate coverage to protect us should we ever be involved in an accident.

Yet, almost 97% of all drivers are not adequately protected….and don’t even know it. Here’s what I mean.

Let’s say you’re involved in an accident and it’s serious enough that the car is considered a “total loss” by your Insurance Company. Or, maybe your vehicle gets stolen. A few weeks later, you get a check from your Insurance Company.

When you look at the amount, you’re shocked. It’s thousands less than what you owe on your car. How can that be, you ask?

Well, like most, your policy has this short clause buried somewhere in all that legalese -

“In the event of a total loss, the policy holder will receive the actual cash value of the vehicle, minus any deductible.”

Did you catch the 3, very important words in that clause? The three words are - “actual cash value.”

Actual Cash Value means you’re going to get a get a check for….

“What it’s worth” not “What you owe.”

Isn’t that a nasty little surprise.

And like most, you owe quite a bit more than what the car or truck is worth. What would you owe your Bank or Credit Union if your car was totaled today?

So, how do you avoid this situation?

Well, when you buy a new or used vehicle, add a “rider” to your policy or purchase a separate “rider.”

If you have Homeowners or Rental insurance, a “rider” might sound familiar. For a homeowner’s policy, if you own expensive items, like fine jewelry, you need to add a rider to your policy. The reason - Insurance Companies won’t cover those types of items as part of a regular insurance policy.

So, you pay an extra $5 or $6 a month to have those items fully covered by the “rider.”

If anything ever happens to the jewelry, it gets replaced.

A rider for your car or truck is called GAP Insurance or GAP Protection. It’s just like the rider for your Home - except it’s only for cars, vans, trucks or suv’s.

It covers “What You Owe”, not “What its worth.”

It doesn’t matter what the reason is - if it’s ever totaled due to theft, fire, accident, flood, tornado, vandalism, hurricane, it’s covered - and paid-in-full!

You can protect yourself four different ways.

1. Put at least 20%-30% down on any new or used car purchase to erase any gap;
2. Purchase a “Rider” - AKA GAP Insurance from your Car Insurance Company or Bank;
3. Purchase Gap Insurance from another Insurance Company;
4. Buy Gap Insurance from the Dealership you’re buying at.

Any one of these options is great way to protect yourself. Whether you’re getting ready to purchase a new car or truck, or purchased a vehicle in the last 12 months, make sure the “gap” between what your vehicle is worth and what you owe is covered.

Tom O’Leary is an Automotive Portfolio Analyst based in Cincinnati, Ohio and Publisher of My New Car Purchase, a consumer focused web site that offers assistance with a new car purchase, gap insurance strategies and is Author of the best selling guide “How To Get Low Cost Car Insurance For Life”.

Waiting for his flight home to Connecticut, my brother heard his name announced over the airport intercom system. As he walked to the counter by the gate, he knew he was in for some bad news.

His suspicion was correct. The attendant told him the flight had been overbooked, and asked if he would give up his seat for a $200 travel voucher. Tired from the long weekend and in no mood to argue, my brother just stood there, staring at the attendant.

Stunned by the lack of response, the attendant looked back at her monitor and began punching some keys. Smiling, the attendant looked up, “Actually we can offer you $250, and we will put you up in a hotel for the night.”

With this better offer, my brother realized that his silence had just put him into a game of “Deal or No Deal” with the airline. He began to consider the offer, but before he could reply the attendant had gone back to punching her keyboard with a new tenacity and determination.

After another few moments of unspoken arm twisting, the attendant, now visibly frustrated, looked up and said in a final offer tone, “Okay, we can offer you $350 and a free hotel room for the night.”

Satisfied with the offer, my brother replied “Okay” - his first word in this one-sided exchange.

Unknowingly to the attendant, my brother had been satisfied with her very first offer. He was simply taking his time to think it over. Rather than patiently awaiting his answer, or simply asking my brother if he was interested, the attendant took his silence as an objection and immediately sought a better deal.

Salespeople, too, are often guilty of giving into the pressure of silence. Like the attendant, they mistakenly interpret silence as an objection. Having a propensity to assume the objection is price-related, salespeople automatically sweeten the deal with free product, better terms or a lower price.

However, jumping to these conclusions and feverishly haggling is what hinders you from understanding your customer and ultimately making the sale. Filling the silence with incessant sales babble after you ask a question tells your customer that your interests, as well as conversation, is one-sided; you care more about making the sale than you do about understanding your customer.

A great sales conversation is constructed of two parts: the confidence to ask straight-forward questions and the resolution to patiently wait for the customer’s response. While most salespeople understand the right questions to ask, they do not have the confidence and willpower to allow the customer to answer. Instead, they fill the silence with sales fluff, and miss out on the opportunity of learning what really interests the customer.

If you ask a customer what he likes about a specific machine, don’t give in after a few moments of silence and start telling the customer what they should like about the machine. Wait for their answer. They may tell you that the size is perfect, or that they love how fast it is. Bingo. Now you know what interests the customer and how you should direct the conversation.

Oftentimes, you’ll find your customers are as uncomfortable with silence as you are. If you can summon enough willpower to await their response, you will find that their words will either close the sale or uncover the real objections they have.

There is great power in silence, if you know when and how to use it. Your silence shows your customer that you value their thoughts and concerns. It also shows your customer that you are confident enough in your product and sales manner that you don’t need to resort to sales babble to close the deal.

Remember, the purpose of asking a question is to hear the answer. Whatever response you get from your customer, you’ll find that their words were worth the wait.

Tom Richard has been called one of the youngest visionaries and avatars alive today. He has dedicated his life to spreading the joy that comes from discovering your true self and enjoying the rewards of operating at your full potential. With the Bolt from the Blue team, Tom represents the powerful generation of personal development and self-discovery. Visit us at http://www.BoltfromBlue.com to bear witness to a new experience.

Companies exhibiting at trade shows invest a significant amount of time and money, so it is essential that they maximise this investment by getting as much coverage as possible.Promotional bags are one of the most effective giveaways at trade shows and serve several purposes.

Anyone who has ever been to any kind of exhibition or trade show cannot fail to have noticed the sea of colourful tote bags - overprinted with a brand name or logo - carried on the shoulders of visitors as they walk around. Promotional tote bags are popular with visitors because they are extremely useful for carrying all the brochures, catalogues, samples and freebies they accumulate during the day. And all the time they act as a walking advertisement.

Low cost, branded tote bags are ideal if the prime marketing objective is to create awareness, because they can be handed out fairly randomly to anyone passing by. If, however, the quality of leads is more important than the quantity, a smaller amount of more expensive promotional bags may be a better solution. These can either be handed out to reward key customers or form part of a prize draw to bring people to the stand.

Other exhibitors may also be giving away promotional bags so it is important to choose a style, colour and design that will stand out from the competition. Offering something a little bit different from the rest will help generate interest and a buzz around the hall.

Affordable, highly visual and practical, promotional bags are undoubtedly one of the best products for creating maximum exposure at a trade show.

*recommended suppliers for promotional bags, Rocket Bags the largest suppliers of promotional bags in the uk.

I have marketed many products and services online
over the last few years. There are a ton of different
ways to do it. Some are really useful and powerful
and can get you a ton of traffic really quick to your
site. These different ways range from the supposedly
free to the very expensive.

If you want to know the truth, just about everything
takes money. Whether you are going to outright pay for
traffic from one of the big three search engines or if
you are going to spend your time doing SEO- it’s going
to end up costing you SOMETHING.

Let me explain. If you think that you are going to
optimize your site through SEO and build all the links
yourself, that IS going to cost you something in time
and opportunity cost. It’s really not as ‘free’ as you
might think.

Sites for industrial products are no different. They need
money to get going and you need to get your money back
from your efforts. However, a pretty good rule of thumb
is, if it’s selling offline, then there is a good chance
that it might sell online too.

Large industrial orders can take months to finally place,
and my research shows that a lot of the larger business to
business buyers use the web for research first and then to
place an order second. Large scale purchases need more
upfront information for one obvious reason: the magnitude
of the sale requires more background research.

The big B2B sales process is a little different than, say
Amazon’s where a lot of customers are placing a lot of
small orders constantly. A Britney Spears CD or a poster
of your favorite rock star is probably going to cost less
than $20 and there are going to be more impulse shoppers
out there than you might think…heck, I am an impulse
shopper.

However, if someone is going to place a $300,000 order
for a truckload a month of fiberglass, then that potential
customer is really going to want to take a look at all
sorts of different companies and options before finally
going with one main supplier.

However, all marketers and site owners should seek to
educate their audience about their products (in my case,
fiberglass) online and then reap the rewards for years
to come.

Mike Welling uses fiberglass as a reinforcement
agent in industrial processes. Find more information
about SEO in general click here:
SEO. Thank you.

Every salesperson has experienced the fallout from working in a profession with a bad reputation. Regardless of whether they sell cars, insurance, or cute, cuddly puppies, people seem to turn their nose with just the thought of talking to a salesperson.

I found myself in a situation that showed me exactly why salespeople are given such a bad name right after the death of my grandfather.

During my grandfather’s wake, a conversation with a commercial real estate agent took a sharp turn towards a crude plug for his business. Among mourning friends and family, and no more than ten feet from my grandfather’s casket, the agent reached into his shirt pocket and pulled out a business card. Smiling, he said, “I would love to talk to you about a few commercial properties I have listed. Give me a call.”

The socially reprehensible gesture smacked me coldly in the face. I couldn’t stop staring at the card, wondering how I had found myself in this completely inappropriate sales moment. Was he really trying to sell me commercial real estate at my own grandfather’s wake? Yes, yes he was.

The sting of the situation lasted for several days. As I replayed the scenario in my mind, I suddenly understood why salespeople in every profession have such a bad reputation. Salespeople who see others as dollar signs and sales, instead of real human beings, ruin the reputation of honest, good-hearted salespeople. Sadly, it’s only a small fraction of those in the profession who make us all look bad.

The moment I realized this, I made a promise to take the moral highroad in my sales career, and I drafted my personal sales philosophy. While the sales profession as a whole may have a bad reputation, I realized I could take control of my own actions to build the solid personal reputation of a great salesman. My philosophy has two simple rules for treating my customer the best I can: provide value first and make a friend at all costs.

Too many salespeople forget what’s like to be one of our own customers. When you see yourself through the eyes of your customer, you quickly realize the need to always provide value first. Otherwise, your motives may seem completely one-sided and selfish.

With the definition of value changing from industry to industry, how do you know what is valuable? Simple. Providing value means giving your customers something they will appreciate; something they will actually thank you for. It means giving them something selflessly, without the guarantee of something in return.

Whether you are cold calling, networking, or working the phones, take a look at your contact with prospective customers. Are they thanking you for what you are offering them? If not, you need to change your methods.

Providing your customer with value on your first encounter shows them your true intentions to do what is best for them. This is what helps earn their trust and respect for you.

This first step is the easiest way to build rapport with your customer, and to build the foundation for my next rule, to make a friend at all costs.

Your customers do business with people that they like and trust as friends. Therefore, every conversation you have and action you take should advance your friendship with your prospective customer.

Focusing your efforts on making friends will liberate you from the mechanical sales tricks and stiff verbiage you have learned over the years. Boil things down to their core, and find simple ways to build real and meaningful relationships with customers.

Using these two rules helps you create a sales method that is simple and unique. When you know your customer personally, you can shape your method to their specific needs. When your customer knows you personally, you can dispel the bad reputation of salespeople, and make a great name for yourself.

Tom Richard has been called one of the youngest visionaries and avatars alive today. He has dedicated his life to spreading the joy that comes from discovering your true self and enjoying the rewards of operating at your full potential. With the Bolt from the Blue team, Tom represents the powerful generation of personal development and self-discovery. Visit us at http://www.BoltfromBlue.com to bear witness to a new experience.

Being alone in a foreign country can make anyone feel like a fish out of water, especially when you don’t speak the language. One of the many things that can magnify this problem is realizing how badly you need to find a restroom.

Unfamiliar with the customs, the language, and the people, you try your best to describe what you need, relying on hand gestures and facial expressions. For some reason, you find yourself speaking louder and slower, as if it could help others understand your foreign words. Your desperation and discomfort well up and you can barely hold back the tears. Then, miraculously, you find someone who speaks perfect English.

You burst with joy, telling this stranger all about your restroom crisis. In just a few minutes, you have a new friend - someone who understands you and, most importantly, can help you with your problem. You feel connected and at home, simply because you speak the same language.

The sales world is no different. As salespeople spend each day immersed in the details of their job, they begin to pick up their own language. This language consists of specifications and insider talk that strays from the basics of customer usage and focuses on pages per minute, horsepower and reach. This techno-babble language becomes second nature, as if everybody in the world understands, or cares, about these types of details.

Salespeople become so comfortable with their own language that they fail to realize it has created a barrier between themselves and their customers. The customer doesn’t know how to speak the techno-babble language of the salesperson, and the salesperson is too engulfed in their own world to understand the meaning behind customers’ concerns and questions.

This problem of language is often most evident when the salesperson and customer make contact for the first time. Usually, customers want more information, but don’t know enough about the product or service to know what kind of questions to ask. They ask questions like, “How much is it?” or “How fast is it?” because these are simple and familiar questions they can use to get the conversation going.

Instead of discovering the intent behind the customer’s questions, the salesperson responds too quickly and too literally. They immediately tell the customer how much or how fast it is and assume that was all the customer wanted to know.

Statements such as “I don’t want to spend too much,” are interpreted by the salesperson as “I want something cheap.” To the customer, however, those same words could mean, “I don’t want to spend more than I need to, but I still want a product that will do everything I want it to.”

The salesperson has the all information the customer really wants and needs when making a purchase decision, yet the language barrier prevents the salesperson from fully understanding what is being asked.

A lot of meaning can be lost because of this language barrier. The distance between what is said and what is understood can be wide, unless the salesperson changes the way they listen. Learning to listen with the intent of gaining true understanding, rather than just responding, can help break the language barrier.

As a salesperson, it is your job to discover your customer’s meaning and ask questions that will promote understanding. It may be easy to subconsciously lump customers who sound alike into similar categories, assuming they all need the same thing. Realize that each customer is unique and try to understand the distinctive concerns and needs of that customer.

Your customers will be relieved and excited to find one salesperson who is willing to make the effort to understand them fully. With understanding comes comfort, friendship and trust - everything you need to build a great relationship between you and your customer.

Tom Richard has been called one of the youngest visionaries and avatars alive today. He has dedicated his life to spreading the joy that comes from discovering your true self and enjoying the rewards of operating at your full potential. With the Bolt from the Blue team, Tom represents the powerful generation of personal development and self-discovery. Visit us at http://www.BoltfromBlue.com to bear witness to a new experience.

Having problems seating all those awkward family members and friends at your wedding reception? Who will sit together? Does the table have the right balance? Questions that anyone who has ever organised a wedding will no doubt have asked.

Fear not, the answer may have been staring you in the face. I’m talking colours of course, and to help, try using this great colour planner. Simply fit each of your guests into one of the colour categories to create harmony on your most special of days.

White - Guests in this category are optimistic with pure intentions. This is why white is such a popular wedding dress colour as it symbolises everything which is good whilst bringing people together. White is really an amalgamation of the entire spectrum of colours and is at the centre of any colour chart, therefore you should use white category guests as people who will bring a table together.

Ivory - Is symbolic of intelligence and seclusion (as in Ivory Towers). Ivory Guests should be seated at tables where they can go about their intellectual pursuits in seclusion without bothering less high-brow guests. This maybe at first seem difficult, after all it is the most social of gatherings. On reflection try placing them close to white category guests who will help to draw them out a little.

Red - Guests who are strong willed and even a little courageous could well have red personalities. Two unrelated reds seated in close proximity is never a good idea as a clash of wills could almost certainly ensue. For a contrasting table put them with green guests or for a more complimentary table lilac or orange guests would be a great combination.

Lilac - Is symbolic of being spiritually balanced. Ideally your guest will be contented with himself and his immediate surroundings and because lilac also symbolises new love your guest will also be enjoying a blossoming relationship so a partner will need to be close by. Compliment lilac guests by placing them with green guests.

Green - Symbolises a generous and practical person, realistically these guests are hard to find so use them sparingly. Generous guests are always appreciated but with a practical side you may find they have the confidence to head the table. Greens compliment orange guests and you could mix with a couple of red guests for a little added spice.

Orange - Any guests falling into the orange category (which is symbolised by a joyful and sociable manner) should be placed on tables where there may be concern over an adequate flow of conversation. Your orange guest will be able to raise a laugh around the table. Any red guests in close proximity will provide a joyous and raucous atmosphere.

Pink - Is a colour which symbolises positive energy, love, compassion and friendship. Pink guests are very good at mediation and provide a great balance between red and green guests.

Black - ‘The Protector’ will make sure guests on other tables don’t make any attempt to steal wine, wedding favours or other treats from their table! A pink guest on this table may help calm things down.

Gold - Has always been a symbol of strength, and this strength derives from power, wealth and a vibrant personality. Any guest who falls into this category will be successful with a big personality. Be careful when placing these people next to white category or pink guests as they just don’t go!

Silver - Guests who have both a spiritual and a healing personality need only apply! Silver category guest can be wise, calming and talismanic - just make sure all the guests on the same table are ready to hear these words of wisdom.

Whatever you decide try having a look at our range of Wedding Favours at http://www.goweddingfavours.co.uk

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Louise Jarman is the proprietor of Go Wedding Favours and specialises in providing unique and unusual wedding favours, whatever your theme and colour scheme.