Good Speakers Are Made, Not Born

Good speakers become great speakers with the proper training. Investing in professional speaker training can greatly improve your bottom line.

There is no downside to improving your speaking skills.

The key to effective speaking boils down to one thing: The ability to be able to tell a compelling story. I was taught years ago that effective advertising was reduced down to the acronym A-I-D-A, which stands for 1.) Attract their ATTENTION. 2.) Stimulate their INTEREST 3.) Create DESIRE and 4.) Move them to ACTION.

Creating an effective speaking presentation is not much different than those guidelines. When we speak, we are actually selling. We are trying to communicate or get someone to adopt truths, facts, inspire action, etc. How many times has someone in your life said to you, “It\’s not what you say, it\’s how you say it”? Most of us have heard that. We have all worked with very accomplished, well-educated people who are absolutely brilliant in their field, but when they spoke, they almost put us to sleep. How many of us have listened to an individual who was charismatic, compelling, and attractive and then when it was all done, you ask yourself, “What did they just say?” or you don\’t remember a thing they said. It was all show with no substance. To get on the road to more effective speaking, you must master what you say AND how you say it. The best way is in a story-type format. In my sales training over twenty years ago I was taught that “facts tell, stories sell”.

Stories or story-type speaking bring a message to the heart and mind of the audience. One such method is what I call the PSOx3 speaking template. It is a no-brainer method for creating compelling speeches. This stands for presenting a Problem, Solution, and Outcome and doing it three times during the presentation. This humanizes the presentation and it allows the listener to relate to the issue presented. It creates a mental picture which makes the topic more memorable. Here\’s an example. Let\’s use a motivational topic that goes like this; “John Smith had only twenty dollars in his pocket. He was laid off with no possibility of being rehired. His position was outsourced overseas. He had two kids in private school and a baby at home. His wife worked part-time three days a week.

They could not make it on her income alone. They only had enough financial cushion to pay their bills for about three months. He knew he had to make something happen, and do it quickly. One day after paying his bills he actually had to make a decision whether to fill up his gas tank or buy groceries. This was the turning point in his life. It was either cave in to the desperation and depression or rise to the occasion and go into business for himself. He felt no one was going to hire an over-40 professional like him at the salary he had been accustomed to. One day while reading newspaper, he read a story about how a large percentage of attorneys were not getting the clientele they desired. He spotted a need. Problem leads to profit. He was skilled in writing marketing materials for a large company for the past twenty years. Why couldn\’t he do it for another industry?, he asked himself.

This lead him to make his first phone call to a local attorney who confessed that his business was slow and he was at odds in how to get more clientele and increasing his referrals. John made an appointment with that attorney. He became John\’s first client. That was 250 clients and three years ago. John\’s now has three employees that all work as independent contractors from their homes. He also works out of his home. He and his staff meet in person once a week for brainstorming sessions to give the virtual company a more human feel.”

Now when you read the story of John, in a very short period of time, you are pulled in to his plight, feel his despair, and experience the hope he has with the advent of his new business. When this story is told, as opposed to just telling facts, you feel for John. When it is presented with pauses, increases and decreases in speech volume, and the appropriate body gestures, you are well on your way to creating a memorable speech. As in a good TV screenplay, you can clearly identify the problem, solution, and the outcome. The story of John is one you remember and isn\’t that the reason why we do presentations at our work, places of worship, and service organizations?

George Bruno has been speaking in the private and public sectors for 25 years. He has been a guest and host on various talk radio programs in New York and Pennsylvania. In the early 80\’s, he traveled on a drama team for three years performing in churches, prisons, and schools. In the late 80\’s and early 90\’s, he performed as an improv comedian in comedy clubs, café\’s and fund raising shows in cities on the East Coast, including the renown Bonkers Comedy Club and the Chestnut Street Cabaret in Philadelphia.

When not working, he enjoys writing, cooking, facilitating a entrepreneurs group, and of course…fishing.

He resides in Bucks County, PA

What Should I Say if I am Interviewed?

Please do not be afraid to be interviewed, I can tell you that it is never as hard as you might believe it to be in your mind. Recently, I was interviewed and I collected the interview to share with you because I think it can help you in your next interview. The important thing is just to relax and talk in a conversational way.

You should not worry too much about what you are going to say if asked a certain question, as much as just being yourself and relaxing. Here is a sample interview where I was asked some questions about my online writing endeavors. Read them and see why it is so important to relax and take it easy and be your self.

1.) So how do you get to have time to write so many articles?

Just started writing one day, trying to data-dump all this knowledge from all the things I have done, so I do not forget them and to make sure all that experience benefits others too. So far it has come to 4 million words?

2.) You have some bizarre number of articles next to your name on Ezine Articles.

I have stopped at 11,111 because I like that number one.

3.) I mean anybody with that sort of writer’s skills must be superman??

That is so funny; I am not a good writer at all. I am very good at many many things, but not at writing.

4.) What inspires you?

I am not inspired to write in any way. I just got bored in retirement, too much energy. I think too much, I cannot write fast enough.

5.) You must truly have the ability to put words together very quickly.

Not sure, I think in terms of pictures, visual, so when trying to describe stuff; it simply takes up a lot of words?

6.) What would you want out of life at this stage, the place you are at right now?

I do not have any wants that I know of, I have done a lot.

7.) I get the feeling you might be a touch of an over achiever?

Mom was an Olympic Caliber Swimmer, Dad was a Fighter Pilot “Tom Gun” type and I have one hell of a genetic line of people just like them and me. I guess I really did not have any choice, in hindsight it makes perfect sense now.

8.) What would you say drives you that hard?

I like to win, solve complex problems, accomplish stuff, beat the odds and enjoy the journey. Thus, I often accept any challenge or problem and fear none. Hey, come on, everyone has to have a job in society right? That’s mine. I self appointed my self, because no one else seems to care enough, try as hard or want to address the real issues.

So, in case I am needed, I will be studied up and ready to rock and roll. Until then, I am your friendly observer reminding everyone to look in their mirror before promoting chaos and controversy to no avail. Those were some fun questions, but what about you?

L. Winslow is a Economic Advisor to the Online Think Tank, a Futurist and retired entreprenuer. Currently he is planning a bicycle ride across the US to raise money for charity and is sponsored by http://www.Calling-Plans.com and all the proceeds will go to various charities who sign up.

Persuasion - Logic and Reason Require Knowing the Audience

What comes to mind when you hear the word Persuasion? To some it conjures up suspicion, deception, and manipulation. Indeed the result can be to deceive or corrupt the mind of those who are easily beguiled.

For some this causes closed minds to any and many new thoughts. If you think this does not apply to you then ask this question: Are you selective about what you will consider or listen to? Just how high are your mental spam filters set?

Well, how do you feel about MLM’s (multi-level or network marketing)?
Please note… this is not an article about MLM’s.

Did you know that MLM’s have evolved and there is actually a third generation of MLM that even Blue Chip Corporations are using? Some estimates for the next decade predict 70% of products will be available by direct marketing.

If you did not know this, why? Could it be because you were closed minded?

If you are closed minded then be assured your some in your audience will too. Persuasion is an essential need in a speech to overcome the audience values and mindset if they are closed. Persuasive speaking and the art of persuasion are essential skills.

So where does persuasion fit into public speaking?

To understand the answer it might be good to go back to the beginnings of formal public speaking. Let’s go back to ancient Greece. In the layman’s Greek, the word persuade in a positive sense would mean to convince, to change the minds of listeners by means of logical thought and sound reasoning.

So a public speaker needs to convince, to change the minds of an audience with logical thought and sound reasoning. How can this be accomplished in your speech?

If you are going to change the mind of your audience or persuade them, consider these areas of study.

Your Audience would be the first consideration. What are their thoughts on the subject? A sampling of the audience will be vital to know how to proceed.

For instance, MLM’s, have any been involved with them? Have any been burned or wasted money on them? Have any profited from them? These questions can be changed to your persuasive topic.

What will be the make up of the audience? Additional research in how to speak to these groups will be beneficial. Keywords to look up would be…

Adult-Audience

Mature Audience

Young Audiences

Once the audience is defined, it will be important to know their values. This is a vital consideration before preparing the presentation. How will you find the thoughts and values of the audience? You will have to get to know the…

Audience Professed Values

Persuasive public speaking, to be effective, needs to be attentive to the needs and the thoughts of the audience.

Asking Questions will be the next task to enhance your listening. The art of asking questions will also help you to know how to prepare to best persuade.

Reasoning will be next. To convince or change the mind with logical thought and sound reasoning will result in persuasion.

Argumentation can be an effective way to reason. Remember you need to be tactful. When a sailing vessel needs to go against the wind, it does not take it head on. It is called tacking. Speakers need to use tact in a similar way.

Did you notice very little here is about reasoning, logic and changing minds? That is because they are the easy part. The hard part of this is connecting with the audience. The challenge is to get into their thinking.

Reasoning with Reasonableness

When trying to persuade, reason with the same reasonableness you would expect to be shown.
I started this with the MLM at the very beginning for a very special reason. Many will be turned off and have left thinking this is some kind of pitch. Did you have an uncomfortable feeling at that point? What thoughts did you have when you kept reading?

Remember that Feeling to Master Persuasion

Remember that feeling the next time you want to persuade someone. They have strong emotions and feelings that you may need to tactfully get around. Just as that sailing ship needs to tack to make forward progress, likewise you will need to use tact when persuading. Persuade with reasonableness as you present your sound logic.

Keeping these points in mind will help you to be effectively, confident and successful as you persuade in your public speaking.

Jonathan Steele, RN coaches and teaches public speaking to nurses and doctors.

He is webmaster of http://www.speechmastery.com He also speaks internationally on Nursing implications related to subjects as diverse as Bloodless Medicine and Surgery, Nursing Communication Skills and Immune Enhancement with Dietary Modifications to Improve Glutathione Levels.

If you would like to learn more about audiences and how to persuade them visit his site at http://www.speechmastery.com/persuasion.html

This article is (c) 2007 Jonathan Steele

Ten Tips for Launching Your Public Speaking Career

After years of experience, you know you’re an expert in your field. You have something to say, and people tell you you’re a great speaker. But how do you launch your public speaking career, for real? Here are ten tips to get you started — and build a database of testimonials to help land future speaking gigs:

Here are some ideas to get you started, Luisa:

1) Make a list of your speaking topics. Add them to your profile on LinkedIn so people who visit your profile will know your areas of speaking expertise.

2) Write some articles on these topics and post them at EzineArticles. They’ll get picked up by newsletter and website publishers, with your bio at the bottom of each article, promoting you as a speaker on these topics!

3) Do a few “trial” speaking engagements at your local library or the Chamber of Commerce. Make sure and get feedback from each of your ‘clients,’ the people who invite you to speak. If you can get a written testimonial, get it! And save it!

4) Get a good headshot that you are comfortable with and add it to your website – if you want a very simple website, you can contact CMIT Solutions which offers a really inexpensive website builder/hosting option. People really want to see what their speakers look like!

5) Write some articles for your industry trade publication(s). You may have to submit a few stories before one is selected, but don’t give up. Check out each publication’s editorial calendar online to see what topics they’ll be focusing on in upcoming issues – then write about those.

6) Create a blog! I have two Blogger blogs and they aren’t fancy, but they give me a chance to write and get feedback from people.

7) Add a tagline about your speaking career to your email signature. Include your favorite speaking topics.

8) Speak, speak, speak. Speak for free (when you are overbooked with free speaking gigs, you can begin to charge fees for speaking.) The more experience, the better. And get a testimonial every time!

9) Join www.speakermatch.com, to get hooked up with speaking gigs you wouldn’t hear about otherwise.

10) Lastly, when finances allow, create a speaking video. Use clips from your favorite speaking gigs — this will help vault you to the next level.

Liz Ryan is a workplace expert, 25-year corporate (Fortune 500) HR executive, and the founder and CEO of Ask Liz Ryan, a strategic HR, employee communications and Diversity consulting organization. Liz is an international keynote speaker on workplace, work/life, leadership, job-search and Networking topics. Liz speaks to audiences throughout the country and abroad, is the Networking Expert for Yahoo!Hot Jobs, the workplace advice columnist for Business Week Online, and a syndicated job-advice columnist. Liz lives in Boulder, Colorado with her husband and five children. Visit http://www.asklizryan.com to learn more about Liz, or join the Ask Liz Ryan email discussion group - http://www.yahoogroups.com/group/asklizryan

Am I Equipped to Succeed?

I remember a lunch I had with a colleague during my very first year in the industry. We were talking about my new life as an independent consultant, when he jokingly said, “All you need to be a consultant is a briefcase and a business card!”” How wrong he was!

To be successful as a speaker, trainer, coach or consultant takes far more than a briefcase and business cards. In fact, the list of all the things you need in order to run a modern, independent practice is very long indeed!

Depending on the specific type of business you’re trying to build, here are at least nine categories of tools you may need, and each category could contain literally dozens of items. Here are a few examples of each:

Basic Office Equipment: State-of-the-art computer, software, high-speed Internet modem, telephone, voicemail, a fax machine, scanner and printer, etc.

Production Equipment: Digital video/audio recorder, digital still camera, professional quality microphone, video/audio production software, photography lighting kit, book binding equipment, paper trimmer, laminator, etc.

Marketing Tools: Business plan, numerous brochures, course descriptions, service descriptions, testimonials, client lists, fee schedules, ads for publication, templates for newsletters and contact list mailings, letterhead, etc.

Sales Tools: Needs assessments, proposals, contracts, invoices, statements, etc.

Products to Sell: Books, audio programs, video programs, branded trinkets, etc.

Presentation Tools: Nametags, tent cards, workbooks, facilitators’ manuals, powerpoint presentations, registration materials, diagnostic instruments, introduction, certificates, assessment reports, etc.

Technology Tools: Website preparation and tools such as: URL, @yourURL email address, audio, video and flash files, hosting services, shopping cart service, banking gateway, contact database, webcasting/podcasting capabilities, teleconferencing services, etc.

People Tools: Bookkeeper, accountant, banker, financial planner, lawyer, web designer, graphics artist, copywriter, marketing consultant, performance coach, office staff, etc.

Miscellaneous: Preferred member programs with select airline, hotel, car rental companies, professional association affiliations, chamber memberships, etc.

To determine how much work you have to do to get your “tools of the trade” in order, begin by working your way through the checklist, eliminating those that don’t apply to your specific practice and adding other items you believe should be on your list. As you do so, whenever possible, gather materials together physically so you can examine them as a set.

Now, critically review your tools situation by considering these seven questions:

Missing Tools? - Do you currently have the tool? If you don’t, you’ll need to make acquiring it a priority.

Outdated Tools? - Are the tools “up-to-date” or “out-of-date”? That may mean that a simple address change needs to be made or it could mean that the tool no longer performs the functions that you need. Maybe its time to trade in that fax machine from 10 years ago for a nice shiny all-in-one.

Mismatched Materials? - Are your materials a hodgepodge collection of random designs or do your materials synchronize well? Consistent fonts, logos, feel, textures, spacing and images make for a very professional presentation.

Inconsistent Branding? - Are your tools consistently
communicating the same image or do you have multiple versions of your logo and a bevy of “seemed clever at the time” slogans?

Inferior Design? - Do your collateral materials look like they were created by a professional designer or a “how tough could this possibly be” amateur?

Inferior Quality? - Do the physical materials you used when producing your brochures, business cards, and marketing materials convey an image of class, substance and richness in color and texture? It’s not impressive to have a full-color business card ink-jetted on notebook paper.

Poor Tension Management? - A great many of the tools you need for building your business are intended to prompt your existing and prospective clients to DO something. How well do they do what they were intended to do? For example, if a brochure was intended to grab a prospect’s attention and stimulate them to take action but even YOU lose interest in the first two sentences, something is SERIOUSLY wrong with tension management!

By the time you’ve completed your inventory, you’ll no doubt have MANY tools in need of repair. So take inventory and seriously think about equipping yourself to succeed.

To give you an even better idea, we’ve prepared a “Tools of the Trade” checklist, which you can access at
http://www.masterstream.com/BACTM/11checklist.pdf

T. Falcon Napier is an internationally-recognized human development expert, specializing in sales, leadership and change management. His organization identifies, certifies and supports independent and corporate training professionals in the design, delivery and reinforcement of the entire family of programs and professional services based on the MasterStream Method. Qualified instructors are encouraged to learn more at http://www.masterstream.com

Public Speaking Anxiety - How to Deal With It

Do you shudder at the thought of being asked to take part in a presentation at work or college? When you speak in public, do you feel that you want the floor to open up and swallow you? Are you more worried about getting the jitters rather than delivering great content in your presentations? Well if so then you may be a victim of one of the most common and most horrid phobias. The fear of public speaking is widely thought of as the worst fear that a person can suffer! In fact on a survey the fear of death was at number seven and the fear of public speak was at number one – this just goes to show how severe it can be for the sufferer.

As a hypnotherapist, emotional freedom technique and Neuro-linguistic programming practitioner, I am regularly asked by clients to rid them of their fear of public speaking. In most cases I will use a combination of all of my expertise to help them overcome this most irrational but very terrifying phobia. I really like to work with clients on this as it is something that I can empathize with them on, as I too once suffered at the hands of this phobia. I remember once speaking at my local church and feeling my throat slowly tighten, my knees started to give out and my hands were shaking like a jack hammer. Luckily and with the help of hypnosis, that fear and phobia are now behind me and I now love being in front of a crowd.

Hypnosis helps to reprogram the way that we deal with public speaking and allows us to start enjoying the experience and forgetting the negative affects that the phobia may have caused us. Anyone with the fear will understand that the lead up to talking can also make you feel bad. This is down to the fact that you expect all of the negative things – it becomes like a self fulfilling prophecy and your mind makes you ‘feel’ what you are ‘thinking’. Hypnosis gets rid of this expectation that things are going to go wrong, thus giving you more time to positively prepare for your presentation as your stomach will not be in knots just thinking about it anymore.

If you really want to deal with your fear of public speaking and move on in life and maybe even up the career ladder then hypnosis is for you. Why not start with a hypnosis download or recording or even look up your local hypnotherapist?

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6 Powerful Tips to Beat Public Speaking Nerves

Are you scared of public speaking? Here are some tried and tested tips to help you overcome your fears and perform to the best of your ability.

Put in the Preparation Time
Many speakers worry about forgetting what they want to say whilst on stage. Defeating this fear is completely under your own control. Work out exactly what it is you want to say and then practice, practice, practice. If you are really nervous, practicing your presentation ten, twenty or even thirty times can create a real sense of confidence.

Visualise Success
Don’t allow yourself to dwell on negative thoughts about a forthcoming presentation. When you catch yourself thinking negatively, replace the thought with a powerful, positive image of you succeeding in the presentation. Take a tip from elite athletes and try spending fifteen minutes each day, sitting with your eyes closed and visualising the successful completion of your speech from beginning to end. It works because your subconscious can’t tell the difference between a real and imagined experience. So, see, hear a feel yourself giving a great presentation. Hear the words of the audience members as they congratulate you on a fantastic, interesting speech.

Take some Exercise
Exercising before a speech or presentation is a great way to relax the body and reduce nerves. Try going for a jog or even just a walk around the building before you go on stage. The endorphins released by your body, will give you a nice relaxed feeling that helps control the physiological symptoms of public speaking fear.

Meet the Audience
Meeting the audience before a speech can really help to calm your fears. You will see that they are not the ‘audience monsters’ you imagination might otherwise create! Take time to shake hands with people as they arrive and exchange a few words. Remember – a stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet.

Make Eye Contact
Making eye contact helps you to realise that you are having a conversation with lots of other individuals rather than an impersonal ‘audience’. Start by making eye contact with some of the people you already know or those you met before the presentation. They want you to succeed!

Record your success
When you’ve completed your presentation, make a note of how it went. How you felt and how you can improve. Look back at your diary before your next speech and reflect on the fact that you did it before and you will do it again.

Set Positive Goals
Finally, resolve to break out of the vicious cycle of public speaking fear by setting a positive goal to become a competent, confident speaker. Find ways to develop your new interest. Read blogs, books and join Toastmasters International.

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Father Of The Bride Wedding Speech - How To Write And Deliver It

The wedding is an important event in the life of a girl, and being father of the bride is a unique honor which you will probably just have once or a few times. However, as honorable as it is, few people actually look forward to doing it. There’s pressure on you to deliver an impressive and memorable speech, often in front of a big audience, and not to mess up your daughter’s big day.
Here are a few simple tips for writing and delivering an impressive and memorable speech:

- when writing, split your speech into several sections: introduction, middle, and closing. Write down a few ideas for each. Ask yourself a few questions, like for instance: what do you know about the groom (good things, of course!), what are the most important things you have to say to encourage your daughter. Recall any funny (but positive!) anecdotes you may know about your daughter.

- for starters, you can briefly introduce yourself, since probably not everyone in the audience will know you. It is also the right place to say a few words to thank the people hosting the wedding - unless it isn’t you.

- the best way to lay out the body of your speech is by formulating a series of points that you would like to raise. The points should be ganised so that related points follow one another so that each point builds upon the previous one. This will also give your speech a more logical progression.

- for the closing, it’s hard to go wrong with a traditional toast or blessing for the couple. Make your toast loud and impressive, don’t forget to have a glass around, and drink to your toast yourself.

- when giving the speech, make eye contact with your audience. This helps to build trust and a relationship with the listeners. Do not fidget or make other nervous gestures with your hands. Do not keep your hands in your pockets. Use moderate, wide, relaxed hand gestures.

- take your time speaking. It is common for people to speak too rapidly when nervous. Try to avoid this by consciously speaking in a calm, relaxed tone. Don’t be too quiet, especially if you don’t have a microphone. Make pauses after key sentences.

- if you want to be really thorough, you can write down your toast or your basic speech structure on a note card and practice delivering the speech a few times in front of a mirror.

- most important of all - be natural. Don’t use any overly pompous phrases or elaborate vocabulary. It’s the simple, heartfelt words that are remembered and valued.

Surefire Tips To Overcome Fear of Public Speaking

For millions of people, public speaking is a fear that they cannot overcome. Some experts believe that it is because it is the fear of speaking to peers or people who the speaker perceives to know more about whatever subject they are speak about. This occurs even though to become a public speaker, one needs to be proficient in the subject.

Even the most seasoned public speaker will get butterflies in their stomach just before their appearance. No one is immune to this. It does not matter if you are speaking to a group of a thousand or a group of ten that little knot in your stomach is the fear that you will freeze at the podium or worse.

Studies have shown that the fear of public speaking is not an isolated event. One study showed that forty percent of people were so afraid to speak in public, that they could safely say that they would never consider a position where it was necessary.

There are many studies on this subject. One such study done was a study of fear. When the group in the study were asked question related to public speaking, seventy percent of them agreed that they would only speak in public in a panic situation.

In still another study, eighty percent of those asked responded that they would rather face eminent death before speaking in front of large crowds of people.

It takes a special kind of person to become a public speaker. It not only requires you to have knowledge on a specific subject, you also need to be strong and confident as well as skilled at the art of public speaking.

There are several things that you can do to perfect your public speaking skills if you choose to add this to your career. A good public speaker will create a lasting impression when they speak in front of a large crowd.

When you are a public speaker, you need to be confident enough to deliver a speech that is compelling and convincing whether the audience is large or small. A well-delivered speech does not only make the audience respond favorably, it also make the person delivering the speech feel like they are on top of the world.

Fear is a normal part of life. It is our defense mechanism that warns us upon impending danger. While in most cases of public speaking the danger does not apply, fear of looking foolish in front of great crowds is a normal reaction. Nobody is perfect, and a fear of making mistakes is what keeps millions of people from becoming public speakers.

No one who is a successful public speaker was born that way. Even the most seasoned speaker has had years of practice. There are many places where you can practice speaking; you can practice in front of a mirror, in your car on your way to work, or even in the shower. When you are ready to try your hand at speaking in front of people, use your family as the audience. Practice is the most powerful tool that can use to improve your public speaking skills.

In order to be a successful public speaker, you have to have confidence. This is something that is gained over time. When you practice, you are also building confidence. It is important that you overcome any fear of public speaking. If you give in to fear, it will take away any chance you have of becoming a public speaker. When you overcome your fear, you are effectively eliminating any limitations you may have.

Nobody in this world is perfect. The majority of people who have a fear of public speaking have that fear because they see flaws within themselves. They are afraid that they will fail; therefore they do not even try.

The power of the mind is an incredible thing. If you can convince yourself that you can succeed at public speaking, you are taking the necessary steps to improve your life. Having a positive attitude will only aid in your quest for a successful public speaking career.

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10 Essential Steps to Communicate Effectively As a Speaker

Being able to communicate effectively through words has been a much-coveted secret for centuries. Take the blarney stone in Ireland, for example. The blarney stone is part of the Blarney castle in Ireland and it is tradition that those who kiss this stone are given the gift of the gab. If you want to have the gift of the gab but kissing the blarney stone is out of the question, maybe you could benefit from the 10 basics of communication and public speaking.

1. Education

In order to be an effective speaker, you need to know what you are talking about and be able to practice what you have learned in your speaking. This does not mean that in order to be an effective communicator we need to be a walking encyclopedia. It just means that we must be willing to learn and share what we know with others.

2. Listening

Have you heard of the expression that we were given one mouth but two ears, so we should listen twice as much as we speak? In order to speak well, we must be able to listen to what others have to say. If you learn to listen to the sound of your own voice while speaking, you will also learn to be confident in what you are saying and say it with conviction and meaning.

3. Humility

Humility is an attribute that should be learned and practiced to become effective at
communicating and speaking. We make mistakes often, such as slurring our words, stuttering or even mispronouncing our words. Instead of getting yourself worked up over this, try asking the group if you are pronouncing a word right or make light of the situation and turn it into something humorous.

4. Make Eye Contact

By making eye contact, you can keep your audience interested and bring further conviction and meaning to your words. Just keep in mind that, when you are speaking to a large group of people, you should try not to let your mind wander and keep yourself focused.

5. Add Humor

Unless your main aim is to bore to sleep every one in the room, you need to add some humor and liveliness to your speaking. Not only will a lively humorous speech hold your audiences attention, it will also help them to perceive you as an approachable person.

6. Learn To Interact

If you learn to interact with people, you can even further enhance your speaking. Find out about the people that you are going to be speaking with, learn what makes them tick and what their interests are. This is a great source for ideas.

7. Look For A Mirror

We mentioned about listening to the sound of your own voice earlier and how this method can help you with your speaking and conviction. Add to this technique by watching yourself speaking in the mirror. You will be surprised at how effective this method is for correcting the stress areas of your speech.

8. Say It With A Smile

How can you expect others to enjoy your speech, if you look like you are speaking at a funeral? Speak and smile as you are talking. This will convince your audience that you mean what you say and you enjoy speaking to your audience.

9. Pick A Role Model

Everyone has had a role model some time in his or her life. A role model is a person that you like to watch and learn from, someone that you admire. Find a great public speaker whom you admire, watch how they speak and use emphasis. Then try to implement their tricks into your speaking.

10. Be Prepared

Preparation is important to your speaking. Everyone does things to their own liking. Try a few different things until you find the right way for you. Some people scribble a few notes at the last minute, others use small index or palm cards to keep them on track, while others resort to writing prompts on their hands.

These 10 steps are set out to help you with one goal and this is to empower yourself with the basic steps to becoming a great speaker - without needing the blarney stone

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